{"id":21264,"date":"2020-07-26T11:58:40","date_gmt":"2020-07-26T11:58:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21264"},"modified":"2022-01-20T16:01:37","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T16:01:37","slug":"tengo-que-pedir-tu-atencion-ni-siquiera-la-quiero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/tengo-que-pedir-tu-atencion-ni-siquiera-la-quiero\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tengo que pedirte atenci\u00f3n, ni siquiera la quiero"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hello! Let me tell you something about myself that might even shock you: I am a very strong-willed female who knows exactly what she wants and begging for your attention, gratitude or affection isn’t one of those things. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

He pasado por demasiadas cosas como para ahora ponerme de rodillas y pedirte que me ames, he pasado por demasiadas malas relaciones como para volver a cometer el mismo error y ser educada con mis deseos y necesidades. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

That’s why, if you aren’t able to give me the things I deserve right away, I do not even want them.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

I see that you must be a nice guy. You seem like one of those who does not know that they are hurting a woman, you look like a man who thinks he knows how to respect a woman but also does not know that ‘respect’ includes so many more things than to <\/span>deja libre a una mujer<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Why don’t you respect me by listening to me? <\/b><\/p>\r\n

Whenever I try to talk to you, your mind goes blank and your ears shut down. Repeating myself while you’re on your phone is not what I want a relationship to be.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\r\n

I want you to look me in the eyes while I’m talking and to give me a reason to continue telling you my story, for I find it to be very important, because I am giving a part of myself to you. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 sigues poniendo los ojos en blanco? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 sigues ignor\u00e1ndome? \u00bfAcaso quiero saberlo? Si tengo que pedirte que me escuches bien, ni te molestes en seguir en mi compa\u00f1\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

No importa lo que pienses, no soy pegajosa.<\/b> Ser pegajoso<\/span><\/a> es algo muy diferente de lo que soy. Soy una mujer que ya est\u00e1 harta de que los hombres la traten como algo de su propiedad, donde hagan lo que hagan, ella les obedecer\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

No lo har\u00e9. No quiero que pienses que me quedar\u00e9 por aqu\u00ed sin importar c\u00f3mo me trates. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

No pienses que te amar\u00e9 s\u00f3lo por tus ojos encantadores, porque creo que el amor es algo mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

El amor trata de dos personas que est\u00e1n dispuestas a trabajar la una con la otra porque esa sensaci\u00f3n temblorosa en el pecho les dice que est\u00e1n hechas la una para la otra.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

\"pareja<\/p>\r\n

Are you prepared to work alongside me to make this life wonderful? To make this life full of magical moments that you and I will share? You can’t expect me to do all the work while those games on your phone keep on telling you that you lost. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Si sigues <\/span>convertir nuestro amor en un juego<\/span><\/a>pronto se acabar\u00e1 el juego, amigo m\u00edo.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

I don’t want to be a woman who is nothing more than a conversation starter when you meet your friends.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Quiero ser una mujer cuyas ambiciones e inteligencia te conmuevan hasta la m\u00e9dula porque nunca antes has visto a nadie ni nada como ella. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Quiero que veas a un guerrero en m\u00ed cuando me mires a los ojos por todo lo que he pasado. Quiero ser vista, apreciada y amada.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"adorable<\/p>\r\n

Tengo derecho a todas estas cosas que te estoy pidiendo, as\u00ed que si crees que es demasiado para ti entonces al\u00e9jate ahora mismo.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

<\/b>I do not want to waste your time, because you might find someone more suitable for you; a woman who doesn’t expect texts from you, a woman who does not <\/span>necesito que te quedes<\/span>by her side when she is upset, because if you truly want that\u2014I am not the right girl for you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Si tengo que pedir su atenci\u00f3n, es que ni siquiera la quiero. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 iba a rogarle a un hombre que me diera algo que es la ra\u00edz de toda relaci\u00f3n, al menos en mi opini\u00f3n? Tenemos que mostrarnos amor. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

I want you to talk to me and not ignore me. I want you to stay next to me, not walk away when I sit next to you. If you can’t accept my needs, then por favor deja mi vida<\/a> enseguida.<\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n

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