{"id":21270,"date":"2020-05-27T09:50:34","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T09:50:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21270"},"modified":"2022-03-24T01:53:59","modified_gmt":"2022-03-24T01:53:59","slug":"como-saber-si-te-engana-basandote-en-su-comportamiento-diario","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-saber-si-te-engana-basandote-en-su-comportamiento-diario\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo saber si te enga\u00f1a bas\u00e1ndote en su comportamiento diario"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfC\u00f3mo saber si tu chico ha cambiado de repente? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes saber si te est\u00e1 enga\u00f1ando bas\u00e1ndote en su comportamiento diario?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If something doesn\u2019t feel right, that\u2019s probably because it\u2019s not right. It doesn\u2019t matter if everything looks perfect\u2014 vibes don\u2019t lie <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Siempre debes escuchar tus emociones, pero tambi\u00e9n debes tener en cuenta que no debes confiar \u00fanicamente en ellas.<\/p>\n

Establecer que algo obviamente no va bien en tu relaci\u00f3n es el primer paso y el m\u00e1s importante.<\/p>\n

You should never attack your guy for no valid reason because that\u2019s one of the worst-case scenarios you don\u2019t want to experience.<\/p>\n

The second thing you need to establish is what exactly is it that\u2019s not right? Could it be that he\u2019s cheating on you?<\/p>\n

Bueno, si sospechas eso, lo m\u00e1s probable es que realmente pueda estar haciendo algo a tus espaldas PERO no saques conclusiones precipitadas.<\/p>\n

Pensar que puede estar enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote no es lo mismo que estar segura.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And now you\u2019re probably wondering how to tell for sure if he\u2019s cheating on you. Asking him won\u2019t get you anywhere. By doing that, you\u2019d only give him a chance to lie.<\/p>\n

Following him around is also not a good idea because you don\u2019t want to turn into a control freak and destroy your well-being.<\/p>\n

But there\u2019s one thing you can do and that is observe his everyday behavior.<\/p>\n

If you pay attention to his actions, you\u2019ll easily notice any changes regarding his behavior and these changes are strong indicators of him being a potential cheater.<\/p>\n

Some of them are very obvious and it won\u2019t take you long to solve the mystery.<\/p>\n

So, here\u2019s a list of things you should pay attention to in order to reveal or discard his potential cheating nature.<\/p>\n

And if you notice any of them, then it\u2019s time to have a serious talk with your boyfriend!<\/p>\n

He\u2019s texting way more often<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

And if he\u2019s smiling at his phone while reading a text, then he probably has someone on the side.<\/p>\n

When you feel amused by something, smiling comes naturally to you and you simply can\u2019t hide the joy.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de indicadores del lenguaje corporal casi nunca fallan.<\/p>\n

Pero a\u00fan as\u00ed, debes tener cuidado con esto. Puede que s\u00f3lo est\u00e9 mandando mensajes a su amigo.<\/p>\n

Pero si notas que mantiene constantemente su tel\u00e9fono cerca y no te lo presta ni un minuto cuando se lo pides, entonces seguro que tiene algo (o alguien) que ocultarte.<\/p>\n

Y tienes todo el derecho a pregunt\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have any phone conversations in front of you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

En cuanto suena su tel\u00e9fono, se levanta, se va a otra habitaci\u00f3n y vuelve s\u00f3lo cuando la conversaci\u00f3n ha terminado por completo.<\/p>\n

Sure, it might be that his boss is calling him and he doesn\u2019t need you to distract him while they\u2019re discussing a huge issue that came up at work.<\/p>\n

But what are the chances of that? His boss won\u2019t be calling him every day, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n

So, if he\u2019s constantly having conversations literally behind your back, then something utterly fishy is going on.<\/p>\n

After all, he wouldn\u2019t do such a thing if he didn\u2019t have anything to hide from you in the first place.<\/p>\n

Para estar seguro de esto, puedes intentar preguntarle por qu\u00e9 siempre se va a otra habitaci\u00f3n cuando alguien le llama.<\/p>\n

Si empieza a murmurar o a mostrar signos de confusi\u00f3n, entonces es que est\u00e1 ocultando algo y tienes todo el derecho a seguir interrog\u00e1ndole al respecto.<\/p>\n

Sale mucho m\u00e1s que antes<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

All of a sudden he\u2019s un fiestero <\/a> who can\u2019t be tamed. There is always something he can\u2019t miss.<\/p>\n

When you ask him who is he going out with, you always get the same answer: \u201c Oh, s\u00f3lo algunos amigos <\/i> .\u201d<\/p>\n

In most cases, \u2018just some friends\u2019 is a codename for the one girl he\u2019s been seeing behind your back.<\/p>\n

Going out becomes just a lame excuse for him to keep doing things in secret, hoping you\u2019ll never find out anything about it.<\/p>\n

Pero al sospechar que te est\u00e1 mintiendo, ya vas dos pasos por delante de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Para estar cien por cien seguro de esto, puedes preguntarle si puedes unirte a \u00e9l, s\u00f3lo para ver su expresi\u00f3n facial.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s hiding something, he will be literally unable to answer your question properly.<\/p>\n

Se preocupa demasiado por su aspecto<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Before he goes out with \u2018his friends\u2019, he spends a lot of time in front of the mirror. He takes a shower, picks out the best outfit he has and takes care of his hair.<\/p>\n

Si \u00e9ste es su nuevo ritual antes de salir, deber\u00edas preocuparte.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPara qui\u00e9n se est\u00e1 preparando? T\u00fa eres la \u00fanica mujer por la que deber\u00eda esforzarse tanto.<\/p>\n

If he reminds you of the man he was at the beginning of your relationship, then it might be that he\u2019s starting a new one. And he\u2019s not even man enough to admit it to you.<\/p>\n

Putting too much effort into his looks only when he\u2019s going out with \u2018some friends\u2019 is a sure sign that he\u2019s going out with some chick he wants to impress.<\/p>\n

Los hombres son realmente predecibles cuando se trata de esto, porque s\u00f3lo cuando realmente les gusta alguien se esforzar\u00e1n por lucir lo mejor posible para ellos.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s more active on social media<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Not only that he\u2019s texting all the time but he\u2019s posting a lot of new stuff on his social media profiles.<\/p>\n

There are a lot of new pictures of him without you that he just had to post. He\u2019s constantly updating his status so that people would think his life is much more interesting.<\/p>\n

We all know how lazy guys are when it comes to texting and social networks. They wouldn\u2019t bother posting a single thing if they were not interested in winning someone\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

And if he\u2019s constantly trying to take the best selfies and checking if someone liked his photo, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n

If he does this, evidently he\u2019s waiting for a specific like and approval from a specific person and when he gets it, he instantly becomes happy, like a child.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t hide his happiness because he finally got what he was waiting for.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s avoiding you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He has no time for you. It\u2019s the most obvious sign he\u2019s trying to push you away.<\/p>\n

Whenever you want to spend time with him, he remembers he has something to do. He\u2019s going to make up any excuse just to escape from you.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo dej\u00f3 de tener citas contigo, tambi\u00e9n dej\u00f3 de tener sexo contigo.<\/p>\n

Eso es definitivamente una se\u00f1al tiene a alguien al lado<\/a> que tiene citas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You see, if a man avoids having sex with you, then something\u2019s clearly not right.<\/p>\n

If he avoids intimacy and physical contact, it probably means that he\u2019s having all of this with someone else and he\u2019s a coward to admit it to you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he avoids you because deep down in his soul he knows that he\u2019s being an asshole and he can\u2019t stop being one.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s arguing with you more than ever<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Of course, you\u2019re getting paranoid and trying to find decent proof that he\u2019s a cheater. It\u2019s normal. But the way he acts when you touch his phone or his laptop is not normal.<\/p>\n

He starts screaming at you like you\u2019ve done the most horrible thing in the universe.<\/p>\n

And while he\u2019s screaming, he\u2019s making up reasons as to why you can\u2019t touch his stuff.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s saying how you\u2019re not that good with tech and you could ruin some important project he\u2019s working on.<\/p>\n

It is clear that he\u2019s keeping secrets from you.<\/p>\n

It is normal to argue to a certain degree but if he turns into a beast every time you touch some of his stuff or ask him some questions, it is a huge red flag that he\u2019s a cheater in disguise.<\/p>\n

He reacts explosively because he\u2019s afraid that you\u2019ll uncover everything he\u2019s been doing behind your back so far.<\/p>\n

Se hace la v\u00edctima<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Cuando le haces preguntas sobre su paradero o algo sospechoso que haya hecho, no s\u00f3lo tiene un arrebato contigo, sino que empieza a hacerse la v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

He blames you for being too controlling even though he knows that it\u2019s not true at all and that is the biggest sign and the answer to your question: How do I tell if he\u2019s cheating?<\/p>\n

By playing the victim, he is subconsciously trying to draw attention to another problem and that is \u2018you being a control freak\u2019.<\/p>\n

Evita hablar de cualquier cosa relacionada con \u00e9l porque sabe que sus actos podr\u00edan quedar al descubierto.<\/p>\n

Es el mecanismo de defensa m\u00e1s popular y natural cuando se trata de enga\u00f1ar, mentir y similares.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s playing the victim, you can be sure that he\u2019s hiding something from you and he\u2019s hiding it badly.<\/p>\n

En situaciones as\u00ed, lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es calmarte, pedirle que hable contigo m\u00e1s tarde, cuando recupere el sentido com\u00fan, y prepararte para marcharte.<\/p>\n

Victim games will only waste your time and life\u2019s too short to spend it on a man who\u2019s not worthy of your one second.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer al respecto?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If all the indications are screaming that he\u2019s cheating on you, don\u2019t even bother trying to understand why.<\/p>\n

Demasiados \"y si...\" no har\u00e1n m\u00e1s que confundirte y sembrar el caos en tu mente. Lo \u00fanico que debes recordar es que t\u00fa no tienes la culpa.<\/p>\n

Whatever he might be doing, it is not because of you. He\u2019s doing it because he\u2019s too weak to be a real man and let you go instead of hurting you deliberately.<\/p>\n

You should never blame yourself because you couldn\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n

What you should be doing is trying to save yourself. Don\u2019t let it get to you that much. It\u2019s his fault that he doesn\u2019t know how to be honest.<\/p>\n

He should\u2019ve broken up with you if he wanted to start something new. It is as simple as that.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer ahora es hablar con \u00e9l. Dile que sabes lo que te mereces.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need someone who is going to lie to you or disrespect you. If he\u2019s enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote <\/a> then it\u2019s time to leave him. Pack your things and don\u2019t look back.<\/p>\n

After all, if he truly loved you, he would have never done this to you. You don\u2019t hurt those you love. You fight for them.<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

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