1. Gratificaci\u00f3n retardada<\/h2>\n
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Al esperar un momento determinado para practicar sexo, aumentamos nuestras posibilidades de que sea incre\u00edble. Antes del acto sexual propiamente dicho, los preliminares tienen lugar en nuestra mente.<\/p>\n
Al esperar, permitimos que nuestros tensiones sexuales<\/a> to grow, we build anticipation and there is a sense of mystery that makes us eager to take each other\u2019s clothes off.<\/p>\n Cuando hay tanta qu\u00edmica en el aire, esperar no es nada f\u00e1cil; requerir\u00e1 enormes dosis de determinaci\u00f3n y autodisciplina, pero cuando se piensa en el objetivo final, que es aumentar el placer, todo se hace un poco m\u00e1s llevadero.<\/p>\n Cuando retrasamos el sexo al principio, damos tiempo a que progresen otros aspectos de la relaci\u00f3n. Llegamos a conocer a la persona con la que estamos sin que el sexo se interponga.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s face it\u2014who has time for deep conversations and really getting to know each other when our bodies do all the talking.<\/p>\n Posponer las relaciones sexuales te da tiempo suficiente para establecer v\u00ednculos afectivos y generar confianza. Te sentir\u00e1s m\u00e1s c\u00f3modo con otra persona.<\/p>\n Sex won\u2019t be just sex, it will be so much more intimate. If you are looking for something long-term, it\u2019s a good idea to connect emotionally first.<\/p>\n Mantener relaciones sexuales al principio de una relaci\u00f3n puede provocar sentimientos de cercan\u00eda y apego. Es f\u00e1cil que te sorprendas yendo demasiado r\u00e1pido.<\/p>\n What you feel and what you know in your mind won\u2019t be the same. You will be aware that you barely know the person but you will get this false feeling of love and connection.<\/p>\n Most people can\u2019t separar las emociones del sexo<\/a>, even if they want to. If you caught yourself moving too fast after casual sex, being obsessed or too clingy, maybe that\u2019s a sign to slow things down.<\/p>\n Also when our judgment is clouded by this false feeling of attachment, it\u2019s easier to overlook a person who is utterly wrong for us in every aspect. Be careful.<\/p>\n Aunque a veces pueda parecerlo. Hay mucha gente que piensa que el sexo le acercar\u00e1 al objeto de su enamoramiento.<\/p>\n We can\u2019t tie people to us using sex. We can\u2019t make anybody stay if there is nothing more to it.<\/p>\n Claro que el sexo puede hacer que pas\u00e9is un cierto tiempo juntos. Sin embargo, el sexo por s\u00ed solo no basta para que una persona se comprometa.<\/p>\n Si no hay sustancia o una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda, ni siquiera el mejor sexo del mundo har\u00e1 que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n Si te acuestas con alguien que conociste hace horas o incluso d\u00edas, hay muchas posibilidades de que te arrepientas.<\/p>\n Las apariencias enga\u00f1an y la gente no siempre es tan buena como parece.<\/p>\n T\u00f3matelo con calma y no te arrepientas. Aseg\u00farate de lo que sientes antes de intimar m\u00e1s con alguien.<\/p>\n Un riesgo m\u00e1s en el que te est\u00e1s metiendo es el de contraer una ETS, algo bastante com\u00fan hoy en d\u00eda.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t know anything about your sexual partner\u2019s history, you can\u2019t be sure that your health isn\u2019t on the line here.<\/p>\n Vivimos en una \u00e9poca en la que todo va muy deprisa. As\u00ed que, por defecto, no vemos motivos para esperar nada.<\/p>\n But where are we really rushing to? If we are forming a relationship with somebody, won\u2019t we have plenty of days ahead of us or even a lifetime to hacer el amor<\/a>?<\/p>\n Also if you feel pressured to sleep with somebody you are not really that much into because you are afraid that they will perceive you as a prude then that\u2019s one more reason not to do it.<\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t care what other people think or do anything that makes you feel even a tiny bit uncomfortable.<\/p>\n Si no tener relaciones sexuales de inmediato es un factor decisivo para alguien, sabr\u00e1s inmediatamente a qu\u00e9 atenerte.<\/p>\n The one who is looking for something more than just sex won\u2019t have a problem waiting for a while.<\/p>\n Pasar tiempo contigo y conocerte mejor deber\u00eda ser m\u00e1s que suficiente para alguien a quien realmente le gustes y est\u00e9 abierto a la posibilidad de algo m\u00e1s comprometido y significativo.<\/p>\n It\u2019s easy to feel like you are missing out when everyone around you is having sex and you are living the life of a celibate monk.<\/p>\n It\u2019s normal to crave sex and miss it but that doesn\u2019t mean you should be with just anybody.<\/p>\n Especialmente si te inclinas m\u00e1s por algo significativo.<\/p>\n One-night stands and random hook-ups will maybe provide instant gratification but will most likely make you feel empty on the inside. So don\u2019t compare yourself with anybody.<\/p>\n Think about what you really want from all of it before engaging in something that\u2019s not right for you.<\/p>\n La intimidad f\u00edsica es mucho m\u00e1s que mantener relaciones sexuales, y parece que deber\u00edamos record\u00e1rnoslo.<\/p>\n While holding off sex, it doesn’t mean we can\u2019t beso<\/a>, abrazo<\/a> o abrazar<\/a> para expresar el enamoramiento y el afecto que sentimos por la persona con la que estamos saliendo.<\/p>\n By not going all the way but showing glimpses of what\u2019s coming, the anticipation just gets bigger and bigger. It awakens our imagination and makes us crave sex even more.<\/p>\n \u00bfRecuerdas lo que le\u00edste en la raz\u00f3n #1 sobre retrasar la gratificaci\u00f3n y lograr un mayor placer? Pues esta es la mejor manera de conseguirlo. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Why does it seem that all we are doing is going to extremes? In the past, people usually used to wait until they were married to have sex as opposed to today, where they usually have sex on the first date. 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Establecer v\u00ednculos afectivos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Falsa sensaci\u00f3n de apego<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Sex isn\u2019t glue<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Reducir el riesgo de arrepentirse<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n6. No hay necesidad de precipitarse<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Deshacerse de los tipos equivocados<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n8. 8. Presi\u00f3n social<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Volver a lo b\u00e1sico<\/h2>\n
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