{"id":21336,"date":"2018-07-30T11:56:16","date_gmt":"2018-07-30T11:56:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21336"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:37:15","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:37:15","slug":"14-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-no-eres-feliz-en-tu-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/14-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-no-eres-feliz-en-tu-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"14 cosas que hacer cuando no eres feliz en tu relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We all want to find a partner we will be happy with, but sometimes that is not possible. Because, let\u2019s face it \u2013 relationships are hard and when people make problems in them, they become even harder.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe at the beginning of your relationship you were tolerant of some things, but as time passed by, you realized that you don\u2019t want to put up with any of that shit and that you only want some respect and love.<\/p>\n<p>And when you don\u2019t get it, you start feeling miserable, anxious, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-te-sientes-deprimido\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">deprimido<\/a>. Empiezas a transformarte en una persona que nunca pensaste que llegar\u00edas a ser y nada queda pendiente como antes.<\/p>\n<p>You find yourself thinking about things you have never thought about before and you don\u2019t feel good in your own skin.<\/p>\n<p>Acabas cuestion\u00e1ndote si eres lo bastante buena para tu pareja, si vales la pena y si te sustituir\u00e1 por alguien nuevo.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-pequenas-cosas-molestas-que-todo-novio-hace-regularmente\/\">Est\u00e1s tan irritado con cada cosa<\/a> que suceda y te angustia perderlo.<\/p>\n<p>Todos estos ejemplos son signos de una relaci\u00f3n infeliz, as\u00ed que si la mayor\u00eda de ellos se aplican a tu caso, deber\u00edas preocuparte. Pero como todo problema tiene soluci\u00f3n, hay algunas cosas potenciales que pueden ayudarte a superar todo lo malo que te ocurra.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de las cosas que puedes intentar si crees que tu relaci\u00f3n ha llegado a su fecha de caducidad. Prueba algunas de ellas y salva lo que se pueda salvar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Get to know your partner\u2019s needs better<\/h2>\n<p>The fact is that a relationship won\u2019t function if you don\u2019t know your partner\u2019s needs. If you don\u2019t know what he likes or dislikes, you won\u2019t be able to satisfy his needs.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, tienes que saber que una relaci\u00f3n no es una calle de sentido \u00fanico y que tu pareja tiene que hacer lo mismo por ti.<\/p>\n<p>Si quiere quedarse contigo, necesita saber qu\u00e9 quieres de tu vida y si los dos ten\u00e9is la misma visi\u00f3n de la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Si piensas lo mismo y te gustan las mismas cosas, lo m\u00e1s probable es que tu situaci\u00f3n pueda mejorar. S\u00f3lo necesit\u00e1is algo de tiempo y paciencia para superar vuestros problemas. Quiz\u00e1 tu relaci\u00f3n no sea tan infeliz despu\u00e9s de todo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Intentad hacer un nuevo hobby juntos<\/h2>\n<p>When you have problems in your relationship, you are focused only on problems and you don\u2019t know what to do to make you feel better.<\/p>\n<p>Si has olvidado lo que se siente al <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-situacion-sentimental-no-define-la-felicidad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">alcanzar esa felicidad<\/a> juntos, intenta hacer cosas nuevas juntos. Pod\u00e9is apuntaros a clases de idiomas o empezar a ir juntos al gimnasio.<\/p>\n<p>Eso os ayudar\u00e1 a crear un v\u00ednculo m\u00e1s profundo porque pasar\u00e9is m\u00e1s tiempo juntos y estar\u00e9is rodeados de gente que tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 haciendo algo bueno por s\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n<p>After you start a new hobby together, you will see that you don\u2019t mind all those things that bothered you before and that you feel more satisfied with your life. And even if you think that it can\u2019t help you to improve your unhappy relationship, it really can!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Haz un esfuerzo<\/h2>\n<p>Toda relaci\u00f3n tiene altibajos, pero es muy importante hacer un esfuerzo constante para que los dos funcion\u00e9is. Si te dejas llevar por la corriente, nada ir\u00e1 mejor.<\/p>\n<p>I know that people sometimes relax too much in long-term relationships, but you shouldn\u2019t let that happen to you. If you want to be happy with your man, you need to refresh your relationship from time to time just to avoid being stuck in a routine.<\/p>\n<p>Si haces algo bonito y nuevo por tu relaci\u00f3n, al menos sabr\u00e1s que has dado 100% y que no depende de ti si tu relaci\u00f3n se desmorona.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lleva siempre el coraz\u00f3n en la manga<\/h2>\n<p>If you think that you are in an unhappy relationship, maybe the problem is that you don\u2019t talk to your partner enough.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you don\u2019t tell him all that bothers you and you make the worst scenarios in your head which are too far from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>If you just say to your man what you don\u2019t like and what you would like to change, maybe your relationship would be better.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you wouldn\u2019t have so many problems because you would know that the other side is totally into you and that they only have eyes for you.<\/p>\n<p>Hablar con regularidad puede ayudarte m\u00e1s de lo que crees, as\u00ed que plant\u00e9ate hacerlo cada vez que sientas que algo no va bien con tu hombre.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Respect your partner\u2019s opinion<\/h2>\n<p>If you don\u2019t respect your partner\u2019s opinion, you won\u2019t get anywhere. I am not saying that you should nod your head to everything he says, but you should give him the right to have his own opinion.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need to have the same outlook on life about everything, but you should have some things in common. Otherwise, you won\u2019t be able to function in the long-run.<\/p>\n<p>Si te respeta a ti y a tu opini\u00f3n, s\u00e9 buena a cambio y respeta lo que tiene que decir. Quiz\u00e1 los dos pod\u00e1is daros razones de por qu\u00e9 pens\u00e1is as\u00ed y pod\u00e1is empezar un nuevo tema que puede ser muy interesante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">D\u00edgale a su pareja que est\u00e1 orgulloso de ella<\/h2>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t have to be such a big deal to say something like this. It can be just working hard to get more money for the two of you or even help you with the project you have a deadline for.<\/p>\n<p>It is important that your partner knows that you don\u2019t take them for granted and that you still think that they are awesome. That will make your relationship stronger, and it will take it to a whole new level.<\/p>\n<p>When people feel secure with their loved one, there won\u2019t be so many problems and they will be more relaxed. Remember, a relaxed partner means less fighting.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tener relaciones sexuales con regularidad<\/h2>\n<p>El sexo es una parte esencial de toda relaci\u00f3n amorosa. Puedes ser muy cari\u00f1oso con tu pareja, pero si no hay conexi\u00f3n f\u00edsica, todo es en vano.<\/p>\n<p>No digo que lo hagas s\u00f3lo para satisfacer a tu pareja, sino porque t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n lo deseas.<\/p>\n<p>Si le quieres, querr\u00e1s acostarte con \u00e9l porque as\u00ed sentir\u00e1s una conexi\u00f3n emocional y f\u00edsica m\u00e1s profunda.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si el sexo es lo \u00fanico que hace buena tu relaci\u00f3n, yo me pensar\u00eda dos veces si mi sitio est\u00e1 con ese hombre. S\u00ed, con el sexo puedes a\u00f1adir algo de picante a tu vida amorosa, pero eso no es lo m\u00e1s importante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Incluya m\u00e1s a su pareja en su vida<\/h2>\n<p>Maybe problems happen in your relationship because your partner doesn\u2019t know a lot about your private life. You can live with someone but still be<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/i-cant-believe-that-now-we-are-just-a-couple-of-strangers-after-everything-we-went-through\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> un extra\u00f1o<\/a> to him, so don\u2019t let something like this happen to you.<\/p>\n<p>Intenta incluir siempre a tu pareja en tu vida. P\u00eddele que salga contigo y tus amigos o que conozca mejor a tus compa\u00f1eros de trabajo.<\/p>\n<p>Eso le ayudar\u00e1 a conocerte y a saber c\u00f3mo te desenvuelves con otras personas, y quiz\u00e1 \u00e9l tambi\u00e9n haga lo mismo contigo.<\/p>\n<p>El respeto mutuo y estar de acuerdo con la persona que duerme a tu lado es todo lo que necesitas para evitar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-te-hacen-infeliz-en-secreto-relacion-segun-signo-del-zodiaco\/\">una relaci\u00f3n infeliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hacer algunos compromisos<\/h2>\n<p>Seg\u00fan un experto en relaciones, muchas relaciones sobreviven s\u00f3lo porque ambos miembros de la pareja hacen algunos compromisos.<\/p>\n<p>When you think about it better, you can\u2019t always get all that you want in a relationship, so if making some compromises is what you have to do, just bring it on.<\/p>\n<p>Those will be some small things that you won\u2019t even notice and it will mean a lot for your relationship. Talk to your partner about stuff that he doesn\u2019t like and those that bother you and find a system that will function.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando hagas algo as\u00ed, sabr\u00e1s que has hecho alg\u00fan esfuerzo para que tu relaci\u00f3n funcione y te sentir\u00e1s m\u00e1s satisfecho contigo mismo como persona.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">S\u00e9 la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo<\/h2>\n<p>Siempre debes intentar ser la mejor versi\u00f3n de ti mismo, ya sea cuidando tu aspecto, esforz\u00e1ndote en el trabajo o matricul\u00e1ndote en algunas clases para aprender cosas nuevas.<\/p>\n<p>If you are good to yourself, you will be good to your partner as well. He won\u2019t be ready to leave a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-maneras-de-convertirte-en-una-mujer-valiosa-a-la-que-nunca-querra-dejar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mujer de alto valor<\/a> como t\u00fa tan f\u00e1cilmente, y siempre har\u00e1 un esfuerzo extra para que las cosas funcionen.<\/p>\n<p>If you constantly try to be better and better, maybe he will do the same and both of you will be satisfied with your private lives. And in the case that you can\u2019t handle your lousy relationship anymore and if you are unhappy in it, at least you will know that you gave your best to save what can be saved.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">C\u00e1mbiate a ti mismo s\u00f3lo si quieres<\/h2>\n<p>Muchas mujeres se cambian a s\u00ed mismas aunque no est\u00e9n preparadas para el cambio, pero lo hacen por sus parejas. Y cuando su hombre les hace da\u00f1o, se enfadan consigo mismas por complacerle a \u00e9l en lugar de a ellas mismas.<\/p>\n<p>Then the real problems begin and nothing can be like before. That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t change just because your partner wants it. If he can\u2019t accept you the way you are, then you should let him go.<\/p>\n<p>Tiene que entender que no eres su marioneta a la que podr\u00e1 controlar de la forma que m\u00e1s le convenga. Tiene que entender que eres una mujer que tiene sus propias opiniones y que no te conformar\u00e1s con menos de lo que mereces.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Talk to your partner even if you don\u2019t feel like doing so<\/h2>\n<p>Sometimes in long-term relationships, partners get bored because they don\u2019t talk to each other enough. So, talk to your man about everything.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1blale de tu trabajo, haz planes con tus amigos y planes de futuro. Hazle ver que te esfuerzas y que quieres que los dos trabaj\u00e9is.<\/p>\n<p>If he is the real deal, he will see what you are doing for your relationship and he will feel special. In the end, that is what we all want to feel in a love relationship, so if he gives you all that you need to be happy, show him that you respect and value him, and that you don\u2019t want to lose him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ded\u00edcate tiempo a ti mismo, pero tambi\u00e9n a tu pareja.<\/h2>\n<p>Si siempre sales con tus amigas y nunca le pides a tu hombre que te acompa\u00f1e, pensar\u00e1 que disfrutas m\u00e1s con ellas que con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Y cr\u00e9eme, eso es algo que ning\u00fan hombre aceptar\u00e1. Quiere sentirse especial, querido y cuidado.<\/p>\n<p>Pero si le demuestras que quieres que forme parte de tu vida y que disfrutas pasando tiempo con \u00e9l, se enamorar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Recu\u00e9rdale por qu\u00e9 te enamoraste de \u00e9l y demu\u00e9strale que, incluso despu\u00e9s de tanto tiempo juntos, sigues sintiendo algo por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Cr\u00e9eme, ning\u00fan hombre ser\u00e1 inmune a esto.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Resolver los problemas tan r\u00e1pido como aparecen<\/h2>\n<p>Lo peor que puede ocurrir en las relaciones es que los miembros de la pareja se callen a menudo cosas que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/this-is-why-the-relationship-of-your-life-will-be-with-an-emotional-girl-with-an-anxious-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">inquietarlos<\/a> y triste.<\/p>\n<p>That is something that you shouldn\u2019t do. Talk to your man about things that bother you as soon as those things happen.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t be stressed out so much and you will have a better connection with your man.<\/p>\n<p>Also, he will know what you don\u2019t like, he won\u2019t do it again, and you will finally find the peace you crave so much. Who says that unhappy relationships can\u2019t turn into happy ones again?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all want to find a partner we will be happy with, but sometimes that is not possible. Because, let\u2019s face it \u2013 relationships are hard and when people make problems in them, they become even harder. 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