{"id":21403,"date":"2018-07-31T11:01:33","date_gmt":"2018-07-31T11:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21403"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:58:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:58:47","slug":"5-cosas-que-toda-chica-herida-hace-para-protegerse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-cosas-que-toda-chica-herida-hace-para-protegerse\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cosas que toda chica que ha sido herida hace para protegerse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Toda chica que ha sido herida en el pasado de alguna manera lleva consigo su dolor y su quebranto, no importa cu\u00e1nto tiempo haya pasado desde que le rompieron el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Ella es asustada de volver a amar<\/a> and she is scared that she\u2019ll be hurt again. That is why she does some things to protect herself from potential emotional pain, even though she is not often aware of doing them.<\/p>\n

1. Tiene cuidado con qui\u00e9n le gusta<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you\u2019ve been hurt in the past, you won\u2019t give your heart away to just anyone who walks into your life.<\/p>\n

Therefore, a girl who has been through a lot will never fall for someone that easily. Instead, she will always question her feelings and she won\u2019t give some guy a chance just like that. This girl won\u2019t go out on dates often because she knows better than to give her heart and attention to some random fuckboy who\u2019ll hurt her the same way her ex did.<\/p>\n

Esta chica tendr\u00e1 cuidado con todo y prestar\u00e1 especial atenci\u00f3n a la primera impresi\u00f3n que deja cada chico que se acerca a ella.<\/p>\n

You might think this is funny but she knows she can\u2019t control herself when she loves someone, so she\u2019ll do everything in her power to prevent that from happening.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn\u2019t let her heart guide her<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se trata de una chica que siempre ha seguido a su coraz\u00f3n. Y, lamentablemente, esto le ha tra\u00eddo m\u00e1s problemas que cosas buenas.<\/p>\n

So she decided not to allow her heart to guide her anymore. Even if she feels butterflies for a guy, she will always let her reason decide what\u2019s best for her. She will think her every move through carefully before she acts on her feelings.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean she is heartless. It\u2019s just that this girl simply doesn\u2019t believe her heart anymore and she\u2019ll rarely put it in front of her reason, even when it comes to love matters, because she believes following her emotions is what got her heart broken in the first place.<\/p>\n

3. She doesn\u2019t show her feelings<\/span><\/h2>\n

When a girl who has been hurt in the past grows to love you or even if she starts falling in love with you, she won\u2019t show you this easily.
\nDe hecho, es probable que tambi\u00e9n intente ocultarse a s\u00ed misma sus verdaderas emociones. Se trata de una chica que decidi\u00f3 renunciar por completo al amor y no est\u00e1 dispuesta a perder el control sobre s\u00ed misma una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

So even when she starts noticing she has some feelings for a man, she\u2019ll try to run away from them or ignore them, thinking they\u2019ll go away.<\/p>\n

And if she finally accepts that she cares for a man again, she\u2019ll do everything in her power for the object of her affection not to notice it.<\/p>\n

Tienes que entender que ella ha sido herida cada vez que bajaba la guardia y cada vez que mostraba sus verdaderas emociones y esto no es algo por lo que quiera volver a pasar.<\/p>\n

4. She doesn\u2019t believe just anyone<\/span><\/h2>\n

When someone has been betrayed and disappointed by the person they\u2019ve shared their life with, it is natural for them to have serious abandonment and problemas de confianza.<\/a><\/p>\n

Therefore, even when this girl meets a man who is worthy of her love and trust, she won\u2019t believe him at first. It will take a lot of time and patience from this man to convince her that he is not like her ex.<\/p>\n

Simplemente piensa que todos los hombres son iguales y que este tipo s\u00f3lo le miente para poder meterse en sus bragas o para poder hacerle da\u00f1o m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n

5. Se pone a s\u00ed misma en primer lugar<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you meet a girl who has been through a lot in the past, at first glance she might appear to be too selfish. But trust me\u2014that is not the case.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que ella ha dado su coraz\u00f3n y a s\u00ed misma a muchas personas equivocadas en el pasado. Y ninguna de esas personas apreci\u00f3 nada de lo que hizo por ellas.
\nY ninguno de ellos le daba prioridad, a pesar de que ella siempre antepon\u00eda sus necesidades a las suyas.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que decidi\u00f3 que ten\u00eda que anteponerse a s\u00ed misma si quer\u00eda ser feliz. Se dio cuenta de que ten\u00eda que empezar a respetarse y quererse a s\u00ed misma antes de esperar lo mismo de los dem\u00e1s. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every girl who\u2019s been hurt in the past in some way carries her pain and brokenness with her, no matter how much time has passed since she had her heart broken. She is scared to love again and she is scared that she\u2019ll be hurt again. That is why she does some things to protect…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":21405,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21403","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/allef-vinicius-156194-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21403","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21403"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21403\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21405"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21403"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21403"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21403"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}