{"id":21425,"date":"2020-07-01T07:29:26","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T07:29:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21425"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:07:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:07:14","slug":"necesitaba-a-alguien-en-quien-confiar-asi-que-se-convirtio-en-su-propia-roca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/necesitaba-a-alguien-en-quien-confiar-asi-que-se-convirtio-en-su-propia-roca\/","title":{"rendered":"Necesitaba a alguien en quien apoyarse, as\u00ed que se convirti\u00f3 en su propia roca"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde el principio supo que est\u00e1 y estar\u00e1 sola. Sab\u00eda que, por muchos amigos que tuviera, tendr\u00eda que enfrentarse a sus problemas sola.<\/p>\r\n<p>She knew that those problems won\u2019t just go away. She just didn&#8217;t want to admit that to herself because she wasn\u2019t ready to act on it.<\/p>\r\n<p>She knew she couldn&#8217;t trust anyone because trust is almost always taken for granted.<\/p>\r\n<p>People break it so easily without looking back. She knew from a very young age that she\u2019ll have to rely only on herself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Lleg\u00f3 a comprender que la gente miente y enga\u00f1a. Aprendi\u00f3 que no todo el mundo es honesto y que no todo el mundo vela por tus intereses.<\/p>\r\n<p>She learned to understand that people care only for themselves and as long as they are happy, all\u2019s good.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She saw that hearts get broken and promises don\u2019t mean anything. She learned that she can only trust herself.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Aprendi\u00f3 que tiene que proteger su coraz\u00f3n, especialmente de los que m\u00e1s significan para ella, porque son los que m\u00e1s da\u00f1o pueden hacerte.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s how she fell out of love with love. Yes, with love. She didn\u2019t trust it anymore because all she has ever got was heartache and a ton of spilled tears.<\/p>\r\n<p>Every time she trusted someone and leaned on them, she would fall. Every time she closed her eyes and let herself be at someone\u2019s mercy, she would cry all by herself later.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>She learned that life isn\u2019t fair. She learned that destiny can crap all over you with no remorse.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Nunca se rindi\u00f3. A pesar de todos sus reveses, nunca dej\u00f3 de intentarlo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Everytime she found another solution, she hit the wall. She had no way out. She couldn\u2019t escape her life because all the doors to the exit were sealed.<\/p>\r\n<p>Aprendi\u00f3 que todo el mundo es utilizado. Aprendi\u00f3 que la gente que deber\u00eda preocuparse por ti rara vez lo hace.<\/p>\r\n<p>She learned that people get walked over by others, even though they didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\r\n<p>She is a proud girl. She is strong and she never asked for help because she thought others didn\u2019t care for her problems.<\/p>\r\n<p>She knew that everyone has something that bugs them and she thought it wasn\u2019t right to lay all of her burdens on someone else.<\/p>\r\n<p>She found herself alone in this big world. She received blows every day, but she didn\u2019t fall, and she didn\u2019t give up.<\/p>\r\n<p>Cuando su vida se desmoron\u00f3 por completo, sali\u00f3 a pasear y se sent\u00f3 en un lugar solitario donde nadie pudiera verla. Se trag\u00f3 las l\u00e1grimas y acall\u00f3 los gritos que llevaba dentro.<\/p>\r\n<p>She didn&#8217;t want anyone to see or hear them.<\/p>\r\n<p>Even though, at that point, she didn\u2019t have anything to live for, she didn\u2019t want to give up. She found every ounce of strength left in her and she put it together.<\/p>\r\n<p>She didn\u2019t want to be destroyed.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pero, con todas sus fuerzas, anhelaba que alguien viniera a salvarla. Ansiaba que alguien la escuchara, que se preocupara por ella.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>As\u00ed que encontr\u00f3 a ese alguien. Era ella misma.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>She was sick of depending on others. It\u2019s only too bad that it took her so long to understand that the only hero she needs in her life is herself.<\/p>\r\n<p>No habr\u00e1 m\u00e1s promesas rotas, no m\u00e1s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-senales-de-que-tienes-problemas-de-confianza\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">problemas de confianza<\/a> y no m\u00e1s decepciones de la gente que menos esperas.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Tom\u00f3 su propia vida en sus manos y se convirti\u00f3 en su propia hero\u00edna. Se convirti\u00f3 en la persona en la que m\u00e1s puede confiar.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>She stopped serving others and taking everything in. She stopped being someone else\u2019s punching bag just because life works that way, and you have to shut up and take it.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, she won\u2019t take it, and she won\u2019t keep her mouth shut. She is now in complete control of herself. It\u2019s her against the rough world she lives in.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s her time to put a stop to everything bad that\u2019s happening to her. Because she can. Because she wants to.<\/p>\r\n<p>She will never again settle for something she doesn\u2019t deserve just because it has to happen. It doesn\u2019t, and she has the power to change whatever she doesn\u2019t like.<\/p>\r\n<p>She no longer let\u2019s destiny define her life. She never liked that and now she has changed for the better.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ya no necesita proteger su fr\u00e1gil coraz\u00f3n. Ya no necesita ponerse en guardia.<\/p>\r\n<p>Su coraz\u00f3n ya no es sensible y blando. Su coraz\u00f3n se ha vuelto tan valiente como ella. Ya no tiene miedo de nada porque es una luchadora, preparada para cualquier batalla que le espere.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ella es su propia persona, su propia hero\u00edna, su propia persona de confianza. As\u00ed lo ha decidido y lo ha hecho realidad.<\/p>\r\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-101179\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/she-needed-someone-to-rely-on-so-she-became-her-own-rock-pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She knew from the beginning that she is and will be by herself. She knew that no matter how many friends she has, she will have to deal with her problems alone. She knew that those problems won\u2019t just go away. She just didn&#8217;t want to admit that to herself because she wasn\u2019t ready to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":21426,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/allison-heine-759753-unsplash.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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