When you call her just because you miss her, her voice won\u2019t match her interior. She won\u2019t seem frightened and confused.<\/strong><\/p>\n But it doesn\u2019t mean that her insecurities and her overthinking are not present. They are, all the time in your relationship, but she hides it so well. Although, there are times when she loses control over it.<\/p>\n There are times when something happens, and her anxiety gets the best of her. If you don\u2019t pay attention, you won\u2019t see it because to you, it\u2019s so small and insignificant.<\/p>\n But if you look back and remember all the times she seemed a bit distracted and if you know what\u2019s bothering her, everything will be clear then.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll see all the \u2018small\u2019 things that happen, small only from your perspective now, and they will have a totally different meaning. They won\u2019t be so small anymore. They\u2019ll be huge.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll ask you millions of questions. She\u2019ll seek approval and reassurance.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll worry about what you call irrelevant, but it means everything to her. You just don\u2019t look at the world with the same eyes as she does.<\/p>\n She won\u2019t sleep because her conscience won\u2019t let her.<\/p>\n Because she has some unfinished business, something that she didn\u2019t get an answer to, something that she hasn’t yet figured out. It will eat her alive, and you\u2019ll be sound asleep right next to her without a care in the world.<\/p>\n You won\u2019t have those problems. You aren\u2019t an overthinker. You sleep tight.<\/strong><\/p>\n She\u2019ll start changing. She\u2019ll lose the person she is because her anxiety will barge in like an uninvited guest\u2014the one no one likes, but you can\u2019t make them go away.<\/p>\n She lives with anxiety, and she can\u2019t make it go away. She has that, and she has to fight it. Sometimes, she doesn\u2019t even know it\u2019s there.<\/p>\n A veces est\u00e1 tranquila, pero otras es la ansiedad la que la define. Toma el control de su vida y de cada una de sus decisiones.<\/p>\n She sees it, but she can\u2019t help it. She knows it\u2019s ruining her happiness and her life, but she just can\u2019t chase it away.<\/strong><\/p>\n So if you want to date her, you have to know that it\u2019s not going to be easy. If you aren\u2019t ready for her, don\u2019t even bother wasting her time<\/a>.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not like dating all those women you\u2019ve dated in the past. Nothing will be easy or simple.<\/p>\n Your regular behavior won\u2019t cut it. If you care about her, you\u2019ll have to try to understand her and calm her when anxiety gets the best of her.<\/p>\n But, she\u2019ll repay you for that. She\u2019ll love you like no other girl ever did.<\/p>\n She\u2019ll pay you back for every single thing you do for her. She\u2019ll give you even more. She\u2019ll protect you and keep you safe, and her love for you will never die.<\/p>\n There are so many things you\u2019ll have to change when dating a girl who overthinks everything.<\/p>\n She is not her symptoms. Her disease doesn\u2019t define her. You have to act normally around her, but show a bit more sympathy.<\/p>\n Intenta comprenderla y s\u00e9 sensible.<\/p>\n La cosa m\u00e1s peque\u00f1a puede despistarla, algo que no representa nada para ti, pero que significa mucho para ella.<\/p>\n Ten coraz\u00f3n y ac\u00e9rcate a ella con delicadeza en esas situaciones.<\/p>\n Anxiety comes unannounced. You can\u2019t anticipate it, and you can\u2019t be ready for it.<\/p>\n One moment she can be happy and laughing, but the next one, she is depressed. She\u2019s not crazy or spoiled.<\/p>\n She\u2019s not like a child when you take away their lollipop. She doesn\u2019t get to choose how to feel.<\/p>\n When anxiety strikes, she feels like she\u2019s in a deep blue ocean with no land around her. No matter how hard she swims and how hard she wants to swim to the shore, she can\u2019t.<\/p>\n Puede nadar durante horas, pero est\u00e1 en medio del oc\u00e9ano sin tierra a la vista.<\/p>\n When you see her like this, give her some space. Don\u2019t bother her with questions because she needs to sort out her mind.<\/p>\n She needs to file all of her thoughts in the right place, and then she\u2019ll decide what to do next.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t expect her to calm down just because you said so. Being short-tempered in these situations is the worst thing you could do because you will trigger her anxiety even worse.<\/p>\n She sees that you can\u2019t put up with it, that it bothers you, and that feedback she gets from you makes her feel even worse. It makes her pensar demasiado<\/a> why you\u2019re acting like that.<\/p>\n On every move you do wrong she will create hundreds of questions that will bother her. She won\u2019t be able to sleep or eat. It will eat her away.<\/p>\n If she could control her anxiety attacks, she would. You know she has good days, so why wouldn\u2019t she control the bad ones if she could?<\/p>\n It\u2019s not like that she enjoys being scared and overthinking everything. It\u2019s not like she enjoys ruining both of your lives.<\/p>\n Never say \u2018get over it\u2019 to her. Never.<\/p>\n![\"pareja](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/couple-talking-on-the-street.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNecesitas saber que hay m\u00e1s en ella que su ansiedad<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTienes que ser paciente con ella<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nYou can\u2019t expect her to get over it<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTell her that you\u2019re going to be there for her.<\/h2>\n
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