{"id":21520,"date":"2019-08-02T11:32:15","date_gmt":"2019-08-02T11:32:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21520"},"modified":"2022-01-24T16:29:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T16:29:11","slug":"lee-esto-si-tu-casi-relacion-te-hizo-incapaz-de-volver-a-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-si-tu-casi-relacion-te-hizo-incapaz-de-volver-a-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto si tu casi relaci\u00f3n te hizo incapaz de volver a amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fue f\u00e1cil volver con \u00e9l. Era como algo natural. Hac\u00eda de mi vida un infierno. Entonces, le perdonaba, y antes de que me diera cuenta, est\u00e1bamos de vuelta al principio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me pareci\u00f3 natural volver a \u00e9l, ya que no ten\u00eda a nadie m\u00e1s a quien esperar. \u00c9l era todo lo que conoc\u00eda, y perd\u00ed la capacidad de ver que hay otros hombres ah\u00ed fuera que me tratar\u00edan como merezco. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perd\u00ed la capacidad de verme a m\u00ed misma y lo infeliz que era en todo aquello. Cada vez que volv\u00eda a estar en sus brazos me hac\u00eda olvidar todo lo que nos pasaba. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

No soy la v\u00edctima. No me estoy justificando. Me qued\u00e9 en algo casi porque era demasiado<\/span> miedo a estar solo<\/span><\/a>\u2014even though that almost made me lonelier than I have ever been. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was forcing something to work, even though it wasn\u2019t right for me. It was all messy with a lot of back and forths. And before I knew it, my subconscious was telling me that there is nothing better out there for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s incredible how something that doesn\u2019t seem so harmful like an almost relationship can do so much damage. It makes you lose your pride because you continuously forgive the unforgivable. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It makes you lose your sense of self and your confidence because you keep going back to someone who doesn\u2019t see you<\/i><\/b>\u2014n<\/b>o el verdadero t\u00fa. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

All he is interested in is your naked body and all the good you can do for him. He doesn\u2019t care how your day went. He doesn\u2019t know your dreams or hidden desires. He certainly has no idea about your problems. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is clueless about the fact that you couldn\u2019t sleep last night because he didn\u2019t text you back the entire day. He doesn\u2019t want to see that you love him so much that you put his needs before your own. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t mind that you worry about his troubles and that you are trying to make it easier on him. All he does is take your efforts for granted and play with your heart like it\u2019s not his business. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t know and it doesn\u2019t affect him in any way that he has made you think that you are unable to love again; that he has taken all your love and energy with him that day he chose to walk away for good.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Now, you are tired because the almost relationship exhausted you. It led you on this emotional roller coaster trip you weren’t prepared for. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hac\u00eda que cada d\u00eda o cada semana fuera diferente. Uno estar\u00eda lleno de l\u00e1grimas y el otro de risas, dependiendo de su voluntad de entrar y salir de tu vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero lo que no ves es que el fin de una casi relaci\u00f3n<\/a> es lo mejor que te podr\u00eda haber pasado. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You can finally rest and recover all the energy it has taken from you. You don\u2019t have to wait around for him to call or text back. You don\u2019t have to ask for his time. You don\u2019t have to wait until he is ready to be in something more committed.  <\/span><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t have to burden yourself with his problems. You will concentrate on you, on mending your heart and making your life better. You will learn to love yourself again. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are done waiting for anybody or anything, and it\u2019s the most liberating feeling ever. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

An almost relationship won\u2019t be something that\u2019s holding you away from love. It will be the exact thing that will help you recognize real love when it comes your way. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sabr\u00e1s c\u00f3mo no debe ser nunca el amor. Sabr\u00e1s the things that you won\u2019t settle for<\/a> o pasar por alto. Sabr\u00e1s que lo que necesitas y quieres en un hombre no se parece en nada a lo que ya ten\u00edas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Volver\u00e1s a amar a alguien con todo tu coraz\u00f3n y m\u00e1s de lo que jam\u00e1s cre\u00edste posible. <\/span>You will know it\u2019s real<\/span><\/a> porque ser\u00e1s correspondido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esa casi relaci\u00f3n en la que estuviste una vez no ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s que un recuerdo lejano y la mejor lecci\u00f3n que podr\u00edas haber tenido en la vida.<\/p>\n

\"LEE<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It was easy going back to him. It was like a natural occurrence. He would make my life a living hell. Then, I would forgive him, and before I knew it, we were right back at the start. It seemed natural to go back to him since I had nobody else to look forward to….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21521,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21520","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/vidar-nordli-mathisen-558121-unsplash-1.jpg",800,603,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21520","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21520"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21520\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21520"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21520"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21520"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}