{"id":21631,"date":"2020-07-07T08:04:27","date_gmt":"2020-07-07T08:04:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21631"},"modified":"2022-08-12T07:44:37","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T07:44:37","slug":"7-enormes-senales-de-alarma-disfrazadas-de-cosas-bonitas-que-hace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-enormes-senales-de-alarma-disfrazadas-de-cosas-bonitas-que-hace\/","title":{"rendered":"7 enormes se\u00f1ales de alarma disfrazadas de cosas \"bonitas\" que \u00e9l hace"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tener un novio que siempre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para ti, que siempre est\u00e1 presente en tu vida, que se interesa por lo que haces, es m\u00e1s o menos como el premio gordo<\/a> en una relaci\u00f3n, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Wrong! It\u2019s not always as beautiful and innocent as it sounds. Did you ever stop and think that your boyfriend, instead of being caring and honest, is actually a controlling and manipulative bastard?<\/p>\n

He spends a lot of time with you but not because he can\u2019t be without you for that long but because he can\u2019t stand letting you go anywhere by yourself. It\u2019s because he\u2019s jealous and he doesn\u2019t trust you.<\/p>\n

Often, women see this but they don’t want to admit it. They keep lying to themselves and I don\u2019t blame them, because they seek that real, true love.<\/p>\n

They want to seal the deal and live their life as they\u2019ve dreamed it.<\/p>\n

Pay attention to those \u2018cute\u2019 things they do for you because sometimes they turn out to be anything but that. Don\u2019t lie to yourself because that D-bag doesn\u2019t deserve your love anyway.<\/p>\n

What are the red flags they disguise as \u2018cute\u2019?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Te manda mensajes todo el tiempo<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Cute? Hell no! In the beginning, you think he\u2019s being super adorable and careful. He shows interest in you and he wants to know what you\u2019re up to.<\/p>\n

But this can easily turn out to be a huge red flag. This attention can grow into something really unhealthy. The truth is, he is probably just trying to control you and see what you\u2019re doing and with whom.<\/p>\n

Also, the people you\u2019re surrounded with will call you less and less as time goes by because they don\u2019t want to spend their time with someone who can\u2019t take their eyes off their phone. And your boyfriend won\u2019t leave you any other choice than to stare at the screen.<\/p>\n

2. Pretende saber c\u00f3mo te sientes cuando tienes un problema<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

No est\u00e1 realmente preocupado por ti. S\u00f3lo te lo dice para deshacerse de ti.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll pretend he knows how you\u2019re feeling because he doesn’t want you to bother him with your problems.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to live with someone faking concern, you want to live with someone who\u2019ll really hear you out and try to help you work on your issues, for real.<\/p>\n

3. Siempre est\u00e1 en una relaci\u00f3n<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Usually, people think that only those who are single all the time have some kind of a problem. Actually, it\u2019s the other way around.<\/p>\n

Those who are single know what they want and they don’t want to end up in a relationship just to be in one, just to avoid loneliness.<\/p>\n

Pero los que siempre est\u00e1n en una relaci\u00f3n son una enorme se\u00f1al de alarma. Estas personas probablemente tienen miedo de estar solas y aguantan pr\u00e1cticamente cualquier cosa con tal de tener compa\u00f1\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Estas personas no suelen ser sinceras contigo. Fingen amar las mismas cosas que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Fingen ser como t\u00fa. B\u00e1sicamente, mienten todo el tiempo s\u00f3lo para mantenerte en su vida.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: 35 se\u00f1ales de alarma en las redes sociales de las que hay que cuidarse<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

4. He compares you to other women in a \u2018good way\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Crees que es mono y adorable. Crees que s\u00f3lo te ve a ti y a nadie m\u00e1s. Pero esta historia tiene otra cara.<\/p>\n

Esto podr\u00eda ser f\u00e1cilmente psicolog\u00eda inversa. Podr\u00eda estar dici\u00e9ndote esto para presionarte inconscientemente.<\/p>\n

Because if you loosen up and relax, if you gain a few pounds, you\u2019ll always remember the time when he told you that you\u2019re the prettiest one.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s not telling you that now. Why? Because he\u2019s obviously bothered by the way you look or because of the fact that you\u2019ve gained a few pounds.<\/p>\n

5. Te elige a ti antes que a sus amigos<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Friends are for life. Even when you\u2019re in a relationship, you should never give up on your friends.<\/p>\n

Claro que hay momentos en los que tu relaci\u00f3n una prioridad<\/a> but if your partner chooses to be with you every time over his friends, it\u2019s a red flag.<\/p>\n

Imagine if you want to hang out with your friends for a while. He\u2019s not going to be happy about it and he will guilt you into staying at home with him.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll tell you that he blows his friends off all the time for you, so why can\u2019t you do it at least once. You see? This is only another method of manipulation.<\/p>\n

6. Habla de sus ex todo el tiempo<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s great if you’re able to talk to your boyfriend about both of your past relationships but there is no need to go over every single detail.<\/p>\n

Well, he seems passionate while he\u2019s telling you about his adventures. You can think, okay, he\u2019s so cute because after all this time, he still remembers some things that happened.<\/p>\n

But did you ever stop to think that maybe this is a red flag? Maybe he isn\u2019t over his ex yet. Maybe you\u2019re just a rebound or a plan de respaldo<\/a> hasta que encuentre algo mejor.<\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s jealous of other people in your life<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

You know that jealousy is completely normal and a natural thing. When someone cares about you, he won\u2019t be indifferent if you talk to some random guy you\u2019ve met on the street. He\u2019ll get a bit protective.<\/p>\n

Pero si esto ocurre todo el tiempo, puede llegar a ser muy peligroso. Estos peque\u00f1os e inocentes celos pueden convertirse en posesividad y necesidad.<\/p>\n

You can easily find yourself in situations where you won\u2019t be able to go out with your friends without him because of his jealousy.\"7<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Having a boyfriend who is always there for you, who is always present in your life, who takes interest in what you do, is pretty much like hitting the jackpot in a relationship, right? Wrong! It\u2019s not always as beautiful and innocent as it sounds. Did you ever stop and think that your boyfriend, instead…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/alex-jones-8205-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21631\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}