{"id":21640,"date":"2018-08-07T08:22:34","date_gmt":"2018-08-07T08:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21640"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:51:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:51:11","slug":"por-que-tienes-que-ser-una-chica-que-simplemente-no-le-importa-una-fk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-tienes-que-ser-una-chica-que-simplemente-no-le-importa-una-fk\/","title":{"rendered":"Por qu\u00e9 tienes que ser una chica a la que simplemente no le importa una m**da"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 ego\u00edsta. En serio. S\u00e9 ego\u00edsta. \u00bfDesde cu\u00e1ndo est\u00e1 bien ignorar por completo tu vida y tus necesidades para hacer que otra persona se sienta mejor? \u00bfQu\u00e9 hay de ti? \u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa con tu vida? \u00bfTu vida cuenta?<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can\u2019t turn back time and if you don\u2019t take care of yourself, one day you’ll be sorry. One day you\u2019ll regret putting yourself last.<\/span><\/p>\n

Focus on your goals and your dreams because if you don\u2019t try to make yourself happy, no one else will do it for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 qui\u00e9n eres porque yo soy t\u00fa.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Eres el \u00fanico hombro en el que pueden llorar los dem\u00e1s. Cuando tus amigos se sienten <\/span>mierda<\/span><\/a>, they go to you because they know you\u2019ll make them feel better. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll tell them to put themselves first, to love themselves and do what makes them happy. But are you doing the same thing for yourself?<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me tell you the answer: You\u2019re not. When someone else is hurting, you know just the right thing to say but in the meantime, you don\u2019t even see that you\u2019re going through the same thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ignoras completamente tu propio dolor. \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even see that you are unhappy, that you put everyone else before you. Your dreams and your goals decay because you\u2019re too busy saving other people\u2019s lives. Just stop it!<\/span><\/p>\n

Sigue tu propio consejo y vive tu vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Cambia toda tu vida si es necesario. Empieza de nuevo. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil decirlo que hacerlo, pero si quieres que las cosas mejoren, no tienes otra opci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can pretend that you\u2019re happy and keep living the way you live but you\u2019ll reach your <\/span>punto de ruptura<\/span><\/a> and you\u2019ll want to start all over. The thing is, it may happen too late. Maybe then you won\u2019t be able to do anything about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, \u00a1hazlo ya!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Si quieres, m\u00fadate a otra ciudad. Si te levantas cada ma\u00f1ana con una sensaci\u00f3n desagradable en el est\u00f3mago porque tienes que ir a un trabajo que odias, cambia de profesi\u00f3n. Encuentra algo que te haga sentir mejor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a thought: If it\u2019s possible, do it. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry about other people. Don\u2019t worry about what they are going to say to you or how they are going to react. Think of your new decisions as a means of understanding who actually gives a damn about you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see; people who really care for you, people who love you, will support you. They will try to make your path easier and they won\u2019t judge you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Los que te dan la espalda son los que m\u00e1s energ\u00eda te quitan. Son vampiros emocionales, personas que se alimentan de ti para sentirse mejor.<\/b><\/p>\n

Life is not easy and this is the cheesiest sentence ever but it\u2019s true: You never know where it\u2019s going to take you. You never know what you are going to live through. <\/span><\/p>\n

All the roads you have taken, you chose to take for a reason. All the wrong choices you\u2019ve made led you to maturity and realization. Not giving a fuck is just one of the things you have to do.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tienes que aprender de tus errores y trabajar en ti mismo. Tienes que aprender a <\/span>qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo <\/span><\/a>porque nadie es m\u00e1s importante para ti que t\u00fa mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared of the people who judge. They will always have a reason to say something, no matter what you do. Even if you give it everything you\u2019ve got, they will find a reason to say something bad. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hang out with whomever you want to hang out with. Do whatever you want to do, even if you know it\u2019s wrong. You have to do it to make sure you won\u2019t do it ever again. Blow off some steam and never hold anything inside. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you do, it will explode eventually. You won\u2019t be able to hold it in any longer, and then you\u2019ll be screwed. Then you\u2019ll realize that every time you wanted to do something and you didn\u2019t, that was a time you destroyed yourself a little bit more. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ponte lo que quieras y mant\u00e9n la cabeza alta. Camina por la calle como si fueras su due\u00f1a porque si quisieras, podr\u00edas. Nadie puede hacerte da\u00f1o y lo sabes. <\/span><\/p>\n

Muestra tu amor propio y brilla con confianza. Simplemente deja de dar por culo.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not supposed to live life unnoticed. You were born one of a kind, unique. Live your life that way. Don\u2019t let that beautiful interior of yours perish. Don\u2019t let it go unnoticed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Brilla lo m\u00e1s que puedas porque s\u00f3lo tienes esta oportunidad de hacerlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hoy.<\/p>\n

Ahora.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Be selfish. Seriously. Be selfish. Since when is it okay to completely ignore your life and your needs to make someone else feel better? What about you? What about your life? Does your life count? You\u2019re only going to get one chance to live it. There is no going back. You can\u2019t turn back time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":21641,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/daryn-stumbaugh-433249-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21640"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21640\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}