{"id":21657,"date":"2020-08-07T10:40:18","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T10:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21657"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:42:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:42:06","slug":"4-cosas-que-recupero-cuando-lo-perdio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-cosas-que-recupero-cuando-lo-perdio\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que recuper\u00f3 cuando lo perdi\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando pierdes a una persona a la que quieres y a una persona que crees que te quiere, tu mundo se derrumba.<\/p>\n

You think about all the things you\u2019ve lost together with this person and you see nothing good in this happening to you.<\/p>\n

Y ah\u00ed es donde se equivoca.<\/p>\n

When someone toxic leaves your life, you actually get much more than you\u2019ve lost.<\/p>\n

I know things don\u2019t seem like this in the beginning but as time goes by, you will start to see the bright side of it.<\/p>\n

Empezar\u00e1s a darte cuenta de por qu\u00e9 esta persona t\u00f3xica que se aleja de ti es en realidad lo mejor que podr\u00eda pasarte.<\/p>\n

Esta es la historia de una chica como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Una historia sobre una chica que pens\u00f3 que su mundo se derrumbar\u00eda cuando perdi\u00f3 al hombre que amaba. Pero al final, fue ella quien gan\u00f3.<\/p>\n

1. Su dignidad<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

The first thing this girl got back after the guy who didn\u2019t deserve her left her was her dignity.<\/p>\n

The truth is that she always allowed him to diminish her and to humiliate her in every way possible. And not only that\u2014she also continued to do it to herself.<\/p>\n

This relationship made her lose her pride. She became a girl who begged for someone\u2019s love and attention.<\/p>\n

Se convirti\u00f3 en una chica desesperada que persegu\u00eda a un hombre que se negaba a entregarle su coraz\u00f3n.
\nPero ahora las cosas son diferentes.<\/p>\n

Ha vuelto a ser la ni\u00f1a que era y ha tomado la decisi\u00f3n de no permitir que nadie m\u00e1s juegue con ella.<\/p>\n

2. Su confianza<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Adem\u00e1s de su dignidad, otra cosa que este hombre t\u00f3xico intent\u00f3 arrebatarle fue su confianza.<\/p>\n

Cuando se pone a pensar en ello, \u00e9l pas\u00f3 la mayor parte de su relaci\u00f3n insult\u00e1ndola y haci\u00e9ndola sentir insegura<\/a> and like she wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

And at first, she didn\u2019t believe him because she knew he was only doing it to cover up his own insecurities.<\/p>\n

Pero con el tiempo, \u00e9l lleg\u00f3 a ella. Con el tiempo, disminuy\u00f3 su confianza hasta el punto de que empez\u00f3 a dudar de cada movimiento que hac\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Lo hizo hasta el punto de que ella empez\u00f3 a dudar de s\u00ed misma y de su val\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando por fin se deshizo de ese tipo, recuper\u00f3 la confianza en s\u00ed misma y su autoestima.<\/p>\n

Le llev\u00f3 alg\u00fan tiempo, pero ahora vuelve a creer en s\u00ed misma y no hay nada ni nadie que pueda cambiar eso.<\/p>\n

3. Sus amigos<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

La verdad es que mientras esta chica estuvo en una relaci\u00f3n con este chico, \u00e9l se convirti\u00f3 en el centro de su mundo.<\/p>\n

Se centr\u00f3 por completo en \u00e9l y dej\u00f3 de lado a todos los dem\u00e1s en su vida, incluidos sus amigos m\u00e1s cercanos y su familia.<\/p>\n

Yes, she knew that this was a bad idea and that she shouldn\u2019t live like that.
\nThe truth is that, in the beginning, she really wanted to spend most of her time with him. She had eyes for him only and she didn\u2019t think she needed anyone else.<\/p>\n

Y con el tiempo, se aburri\u00f3 de este tipo de relaci\u00f3n. Quer\u00eda salir con sus amigos y sent\u00eda la necesidad de tener a otras personas en su vida.<\/p>\n

Pero fue entonces cuando se puso posesivamente celoso y cuando le prohibi\u00f3 literalmente salir con alguien que no fuera \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Le lav\u00f3 el cerebro para que pensara que ninguno de sus amigos era bueno para ella y que \u00e9l era el \u00fanico que merec\u00eda un lugar en su vida.<\/p>\n

Y tristemente, ella le crey\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de que ambos rompieran, esta chica se sent\u00eda demasiado avergonzada para acercarse a sus antiguos amigos, aunque era el momento en que m\u00e1s los necesitaba.<\/p>\n

Pero con el tiempo, paso a paso, lleg\u00f3 hasta ellos. Y por suerte para ella, la aceptaron de vuelta como si nada hubiera pasado.<\/p>\n

And this is something she\u2019ll always be grateful for.<\/p>\n

4. Amor propio<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez has amado tanto a alguien que no te quedaba amor para nadie m\u00e1s, ni siquiera para ti mismo? \u00bfAlguna vez has amado a alguien que te ha hecho odiarte a ti mismo?<\/p>\n

Porque esto es exactamente lo que pasaba con esta chica.<\/p>\n

The truth is that she didn\u2019t love herself while she was with this guy. Because if she had, she wouldn\u2019t have put up with him treating her like this.<\/p>\n

Y esto le llev\u00f3 un tiempo entenderlo.
\nPero finalmente lo hizo.<\/p>\n

Y finalmente recuper\u00f3 todo el amor propio<\/a> la hizo perder.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014she didn\u2019t become a selfish or egocentric person. She just learned to take care of herself and she learned to finally start putting herself first. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you lose a person you love and a person you think loves you, your world collapses. You think about all the things you\u2019ve lost together with this person and you see nothing good in this happening to you. And that is where you are wrong. When someone toxic leaves your life, you actually get…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21660,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/ryan-moreno-98837-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21657","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21657"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21657\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21660"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21657"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21657"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21657"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}