{"id":2169,"date":"2020-04-05T09:29:21","date_gmt":"2020-04-05T09:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2169"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:08:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:08:01","slug":"comprender-y-amar-a-una-persona-de-personalidad-reservada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/comprender-y-amar-a-una-persona-de-personalidad-reservada\/","title":{"rendered":"Comprender y amar a una persona de personalidad reservada"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Su primera pregunta cuando tropieza con alguien que tiene una personalidad reservada podr\u00eda ser: \"\u00bfQu\u00e9 le pasa a esta persona?\".<\/p>\n<p>May I share a little secret with you? There is nothing wrong with guarded people. It\u2019s just that their past has made them that way.<\/p>\n<p>No son diferentes de usted y de m\u00ed, salvo que esconden un coraz\u00f3n vigilante que teme ser herido una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Una persona con una personalidad reservada puede sentirse inc\u00f3moda a la hora de mostrar afecto hacia ti o hacia cualquier otra persona.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that (s)he doesn\u2019t really feel like hugging you nor being too close.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando abrazas a una persona, le est\u00e1s prometiendo consuelo y quiz\u00e1 amistad intencionadamente, y una persona precavida es bastante consciente de ello.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87076\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sentada en un abrazo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/couple-sitting-in-hug-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It might be the case that (s)he refuses to bond with you in such a way because she\u2019s running away from any close affection.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Adem\u00e1s, las personas consideradas solitarias pueden ser simplemente personas con una personalidad reservada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ver\u00e1s, son selectivamente sociables, pueden estar cerca de ti, pero s\u00f3lo mientras se sientan c\u00f3modos a tu lado. Necesitan confiar en ti para abrirse a ti.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is they don\u2019t really like to waste their energy nor time on people who don\u2019t matter that much to them.<\/p>\n<p>Eligen sabiamente a sus amigos y pueden ser percibidos como solitarios sociales.<\/p>\n<p>Un poco parad\u00f3jico, lo s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that they are social, but only when they choose to be so.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, that is why they don&#8217;t have a big group of friends, but those who&#8217;ve earned a place in their lives are the best friends a person could wish for.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/yoganonymous.com\/the-secret-to-connecting-with-guarded-people\" rel=\"noopener\">Personas de personalidad reservada<\/a> suelen ser misteriosos, pero no intencionadamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87078\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/serious-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t like sharing their privacy with anybody, and they rarely invite you into their worlds.<\/p>\n<p>Hay una cierta zona que nunca se puede cruzar porque les gusta blindarse.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, they don\u2019t want you to be interested in their lives; it\u2019s not the reason they behave the way they behave.<\/p>\n<p>You get as much cake as they let you. You\u2019ll probably have a rough time finding any info about them on social media, and don\u2019t even try bugging their friends to ask for any info.<\/p>\n<p>You will be denied it. Their personal information is theirs to keep. If you want to get close to them, you&#8217;ll have to earn it.<\/p>\n<p>Your only opportunity to know what\u2019s going on in their world will be when, and if, they decide to let you in.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, tienen miedo de sus propias emociones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They perceive the world in a bit of a different way. They have incredibly intense emotions and often so many questions in their head that they\u2019re afraid of showing to others.<\/p>\n<p>Their trust has been tampered with, and they have been hurt. That&#8217;s the reason for the extra layer of protection around them.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It\u2019s like a small universe inside their heads.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87080\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat.jpg\" alt=\"joven mujer de pie en el abrigo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/young-woman-standing-in-the-coat-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It even gets worse when they hide their feelings and stop them from getting out. Once their emotions find a way to come to light, it\u2019s like a volcanic eruption, and you\u2019ll probably get surprised by it.<\/p>\n<p>That will be the first time you\u2019ll see that human being acting strange and seemingly &#8216;out of order&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Las personas vigiladas se sienten c\u00f3modas solas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the main reason you can\u2019t buy them with promises or sweet talk. They\u2019ve seen that one too many times in their lives, and it has always ended up in heartbreak.<\/p>\n<p>What you can do is show in your actions all those things you\u2019ve promised, and you might even get a chance to be welcomed into their mysterious world.<\/p>\n<p>Debido a la experiencia previa que han tenido con otras personas, los guardianes son capaces de leer tus intenciones con facilidad.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, si tienes algo furtivo en mente, deber\u00edas seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Gracias a sus relaciones pasadas fallidas, est\u00e1n entrenados para reconocer nuevas relaciones rom\u00e1nticas potencialmente peligrosas.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s pointless to even try to sneak your way into their lives.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sin embargo, este tipo de personalidad tiene un gran problema.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87082\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada y sumida en profundos pensamientos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t instantly see your good intentions, only the bad ones. Even if they notice your good emotions instantly, it\u2019s highly unlikely they\u2019ll react to them.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just that the dose of distrust is always boiling in them, and it takes time for them to get used to other people. This is the personality trait that <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">describe <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">introvertidos<\/span> hasta los huesos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Son as\u00ed porque saben que no todo el mundo tiene buenas intenciones.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned this a couple of times so far, but it&#8217;s the essential personality trait that makes them so unique and interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de iniciar cualquier nueva relaci\u00f3n, evaluar\u00e1n lo que podr\u00eda ocurrir si abren su coraz\u00f3n a un completo desconocido.<\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;ve already said, first they will assume only the bad things and who are you to blame them?<\/p>\n<p>What they&#8217;re assuming about people, in general, is not that far from the truth. Some people are indeed out to get you.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it&#8217;s because they are jealous of you, or they simply don&#8217;t like you\u2014it doesn&#8217;t matter. Their goal is to hurt you in any way they know how.<\/p>\n<p>A guarded person is one step ahead of those people because they&#8217;ve already been through this unpleasant experience.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, this explains them being extra cautious and acting all &#8216;weird&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87084\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/beautiful-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo que todo el mundo no entiende es que las personas reservadas no nacen as\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Son la consecuencia misma de sus pasados y de todo lo que han vivido.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a long process of betrayal and disappointment in others that has brought them to the spot they are to be found in today.<\/p>\n<p>Deep down, they still have love for others. They are funny and extremely sociable, but only if you\u2019re worthy.<\/p>\n<p>If they get to know you and decide not to welcome you into their lives, it\u2019s because they see you for who you truly are.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, si usted se encuentra entre los afortunados que son acogidos en su mundo, tiene la oportunidad de significar el mundo para ellos, pero s\u00f3lo si se lo merece.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo que nunca se te perdonar\u00eda es que les traicionaras.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you get to that spot of trust with them, then you\u2019re among the few privileged ones, and you shouldn\u2019t take advantage of it.<\/p>\n<p>Your kindness is more than welcomed, but don\u2019t push it. Let things fall into their places and be the backbone to a guarded person.<\/p>\n<p>Only then, you\u2019ll truly gain a companion for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87093\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Comprender y amar a una persona de personalidad reservada \" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your first question when you stumble onto somebody who has a guarded personality might be: \u201cWhat is wrong with this person?\u201d. May I share a little secret with you? There is nothing wrong with guarded people. It\u2019s just that their past has made them that way. They are not any different from you and me,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":87087,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2169","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/Understanding-And-Loving-A-Person-With-A-Guarded-Personality.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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