{"id":21712,"date":"2020-06-08T09:54:41","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T09:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21712"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:46","slug":"7-senales-de-que-te-esta-utilizando-para-olvidar-a-su-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-senales-de-que-te-esta-utilizando-para-olvidar-a-su-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"7 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 utilizando para olvidar a su ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, we can&#8217;t just shake off someone who was in our life and who meant so much to us as an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>But when you get back on the dating scene, it&#8217;s expected for you to at least have gotten over your ex just enough that it won&#8217;t affect your future relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Many men and women out there don&#8217;t even know when the right time is to start a new relationship, so they just jump from one to another.<\/p>\n<p>Eso es lo m\u00e1s insano que puedes hacer por tu relaci\u00f3n, porque de esta manera traes todo ese bagaje innecesario a ella y al final s\u00f3lo terminas lastimando a alguien de la manera en que estabas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-quiere-volver-con-su-ex-novio\/\">herido por tu ex.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re in a relationship and things seem to be just a little bit off, there could be a possibility that he is just using you to get over his ex.<\/p>\n<p>So, in order to find out if that is truly the case, let&#8217;s go through these 7 signs that say he is still trying to forget about his ex:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Env\u00edan mensajes de texto con frecuencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"Ni\u00f1a curiosa espiando a su amiga con el smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Curious-girl-spying-on-friend-on-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No s\u00f3lo guardaba todos los mensajes de texto de ella en su tel\u00e9fono, sino que... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/if-he-does-these-8-things-dont-even-bother-to-text-him-back\/\">lo ves texto<\/a> mucho con ella.<\/p>\n<p>Even when you two are out on a date he tells you that he just has to read this message &#8216;really quick&#8217; and then tells you how hilarious that joke she told him was.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Todav\u00eda est\u00e1 muy cerca de sus amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94299\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"amigos divirtiendose en un cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/friends-having-fun-while-sitting-in-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando rompes con alguien, sueles ignorar a toda su familia y amigos, pero por alguna raz\u00f3n, este t\u00edo sigue saliendo con su hermano y todos sus amigos comunes.<\/p>\n<p>Dice que de ninguna manera va a separar una amistad tan incre\u00edble y aunque ella siga saliendo con ellos, te dice que en realidad no tienes nada de qu\u00e9 preocuparte.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, hermana, tienes mucho de qu\u00e9 preocuparte.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He doesn&#8217;t seem to make any plans for your future<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94300\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en el muelle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando le preguntas sobre cualquier cosa relacionada con un futuro juntos, te dice que vosotros dos deber\u00edais preocuparos por el aqu\u00ed y el ahora y no por el futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque seguro que es una bonita forma de vivir, tienes que hacer por lo menos algunos planes, como por ejemplo, \u00bfpiensa quedarse por un per\u00edodo de tiempo m\u00e1s largo o es s\u00f3lo un visitante en tu vida y se habr\u00e1 ido por la ma\u00f1ana?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Os compara mucho<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94301\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer confundida mirando a un hombre en un caf\u00e9 de la calle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-street-cafe-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Every time you do something sweet for him he goes, \u201cYou see, my ex did the same thing once,\u201d or, \u201cMy ex did it this way\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>No matter how hard you try, he is constantly comparing you to his ex. Every little thing reminds him of her and it&#8217;s so freaking creepy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfLa menciona durante el sexo? Porque podr\u00eda pasar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Es la primera en enterarse de la noticia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer celosa mirando el tel\u00e9fono hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/jealous-woman-looking-at-man-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you might be sitting right next to him while he&#8217;s getting an email that said he got into college, he will still text her the news first and then tell you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s clear that he hasn&#8217;t gotten over her and that she is more important to him than you are.<br \/>\nLo siento mucho.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He didn&#8217;t throw away the gifts<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre desesperado tumbado en la cama y mirando una foto con su novia\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend-1-768x524.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be real, do you keep the stuff you got from a man who ruthlessly broke your heart? Of course you don&#8217;t because it reminds you of that awful time with an abuser who didn&#8217;t know his place.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfPero qu\u00e9 hace su novio? Bueno, guarda todo lo que consigui\u00f3 de ella, a buen recaudo en su habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que incluso lleve las camisas y las joyas que ella le compr\u00f3, etc.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Se va a los extremos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mujer disgustada con los brazos cruzados de pie con un hombre fuera\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/upset-woman-with-crossed-arms-standing-with-man-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed s\u00f3lo hay dos posibilidades: o habla de ella todo el tiempo o mantiene en secreto todo lo que vivieron.<\/p>\n<p>You know, in normal relationships, people discuss their pasts, simply because they don&#8217;t want to repeat the same mistakes they made before and they want to make sure that their partner knows what happened.<\/p>\n<p>But in these two extreme situations, either he can&#8217;t stop talking about her to the point where you know her favorite cereal or you don&#8217;t even know why they even broke up.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s really frustrating in either of these scenarios.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94293\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 se\u00f1ales de que te est\u00e1 utilizando para olvidar a su ex\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, we can&#8217;t just shake off someone who was in our life and who meant so much to us as an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. But when you get back on the dating scene, it&#8217;s expected for you to at least have gotten over your ex just enough that it won&#8217;t affect your future&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":94294,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/7-Signs-Hes-Just-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Ex.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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