{"id":21720,"date":"2020-06-08T11:02:17","date_gmt":"2020-06-08T11:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21720"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:19","slug":"el-amor-de-tu-vida-suele-venir-despues-del-error-de-tu-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-amor-de-tu-vida-suele-venir-despues-del-error-de-tu-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor de tu vida suele venir despu\u00e9s del error de tu vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ocurre a veces que confundes el mayor error de tu vida con tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/40-signos-dicen-persona-para-siempre\/\">persona para siempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pones todas tus esperanzas y sue\u00f1os en \u00e9l s\u00f3lo para que los pisotee.<\/p>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t imagine your life without him in it. However, he had other plans.<\/p>\n<p>Te quit\u00f3 todo lo que pudo y sigui\u00f3 su camino, dej\u00e1ndote destrozada.<\/p>\n<p>And how wouldn\u2019t you be when you gave your best to someone who wasn\u2019t worth it, to someone who didn\u2019t deserve you?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97737\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste llorando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-crying-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Pero, \u00bfy si estar gravemente destrozado es lo mejor que te pod\u00eda haber pasado? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Maybe you would never have moved from a shitty relationship if you weren\u2019t forced out of it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A veces, nos volvemos tan tercos, tan persistentes en aferrarnos a algo que creemos que es amor, que al final s\u00f3lo nos hace m\u00e1s da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe there was no other way. This was the push you needed to move from something that wasn\u2019t meant for you.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez necesitabas que te rompieran, para que tus piezas se unieran de otra manera.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97738\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sad-woman-sitting-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Quiz\u00e1s necesitabas encontrarte a ti mismo primero, para que alguien correcto pudiera encontrarte a ti de verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>What we don\u2019t see is that our ex is there for a reason. He was the mistake you had to make, so you could learn something; so you could see what love should never be like.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be one-sided<\/b>. Tiene que ir en ambos sentidos para ser real. Todas las inversiones, sentimientos y esfuerzos deben fluir entre dos personas.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-necesito-amor-mendigar\/\"><b>suplic\u00f3<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b>The one who wants to be in your life will find the time\u2014no matter how busy he is.<\/p>\n<p>Todo lo que no sea eso es una excusa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97739\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/serious-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be cold.<\/b> Debe mantenerte caliente sea cual sea la estaci\u00f3n del a\u00f1o. Nunca deber\u00eda privarte de todos los mimos, abrazos y besos que desees.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be deaf to your problems.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You should always have somebody who is there for you, who will at least listen even if he can\u2019t help. You shouldn\u2019t feel so alone in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p><b>Love shouldn\u2019t be torture.<\/b> It shouldn\u2019t make you cry more often than it makes you smile. It shouldn\u2019t be violent in a physical or emotional way.<\/p>\n<p>El amor debe estrecharte lo suficiente como para que sientas que perteneces a otro ser humano, pero sin dejar de ser libre. Eres libre de ser t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97740\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente columpi\u00e1ndose en el columpio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/smiling-woman-swinging-on-the-swingset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be grateful for the mistake of your life. It prepared you for what\u2019s yet to come. It prepared you for the real deal. It prepared you for the love of your life.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Your mistake enabled you to recognize \u201cthe one\u201d when he comes. And you will recognize him\u2014there is no doubt about it. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Te brillar\u00e1n los ojos porque se ha acordado de enviarte un simple mensaje que te alegrar\u00e1 el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando est\u00e9 agobiado por el trabajo o la vida, se tomar\u00e1 un minuto para llamarte porque est\u00e1s en su mente pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>Sentir\u00e1s esa paz interior que tanto buscabas porque por fin estar\u00e1s con alguien que se preocupa por ti tanto como t\u00fa por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97741\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field.jpg\" alt=\"feliz pareja joven de pie en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/happy-young-couple-standing-in-the-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La conexi\u00f3n y la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/15-powerful-signs-of-chemistry-between-two-people\/\">qu\u00edmica<\/a> que compartir\u00e9is ser\u00e1 magn\u00e9tico. Os unir\u00e1 cada vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil hacer planes y pasar tiempo juntos porque \u00e9l querr\u00e1 verte tanto como t\u00fa a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Todo ser\u00e1 rec\u00edproco, y te sentir\u00e1s como flotando en las nubes. Al mismo tiempo, ese amor te mantendr\u00e1 con los pies en la tierra. Te har\u00e1 sentir seguro.<\/p>\n<p>Sentir\u00e1 que por fin ha encontrado su hogar y no tendr\u00e1 ninguna duda al respecto. Por primera vez en tu vida, estar\u00e1s seguro.<\/p>\n<p><strong><i>Todo eso ser\u00e1 gracias al error de tu vida, el que te agot\u00f3 emocionalmente, te abandon\u00f3 y te rompi\u00f3 por completo.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><i>Tu error te hizo recoger esas piezas y ensamblarlas en tu propio estilo \u00fanico, hermoso y m\u00e1s fuerte<\/i>\u2014a <i>estilo que s\u00f3lo el amor de tu vida reconocer\u00e1 y apreciar\u00e1 para la eternidad.<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-80230 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"El amor de tu vida suele venir despu\u00e9s del error de tu vida\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It happens at times that you confuse the biggest mistake of your life for your forever person. You lay all your hopes and dreams on him just so he could walk all over them. You couldn\u2019t imagine your life without him in it. However, he had other plans. He took as much as he could&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":97742,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/The-Love-Of-Your-Life-Usually-Comes-After-The-Mistake-Of-Your-Life.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21720"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163636,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21720\/revisions\/163636"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97742"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}