{"id":21735,"date":"2019-09-03T11:29:30","date_gmt":"2019-09-03T11:29:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21735"},"modified":"2022-05-18T22:16:06","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T22:16:06","slug":"cuando-sea-suficiente-se-ira-sin-dudarlo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuando-sea-suficiente-se-ira-sin-dudarlo\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando \"ya es suficiente\", ella se ir\u00e1 sin dudarlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se qued\u00f3, no porque tuviera que hacerlo, sino porque su amor era tan grande y tan fuerte que se aferr\u00f3 a la esperanza de que alg\u00fan d\u00eda \u00e9l empezar\u00eda a parecerse al hombre del que se hab\u00eda enamorado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca se habr\u00eda enamorado de \u00e9l si la hubiera tratado tan mal desde el principio. Las cosas eran diferentes entonces. La colm\u00f3 de atenciones, amor y cari\u00f1o hasta que fue completamente suya. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero ese hombre ya no est\u00e1 a su lado. El hombre con el que est\u00e1 est\u00e1 jugando <\/span>fr\u00edo y calor<\/span><\/a>...bueno y malo dependiendo de la situaci\u00f3n. Se convirti\u00f3 en alguien que ella apenas puede reconocer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se volvi\u00f3 distante y desinteresado. Nunca se molestaba en preguntarle c\u00f3mo le hab\u00eda ido el d\u00eda, y mucho menos nada m\u00e1s. Cada vez que ella ten\u00eda un problema, \u00e9l cambiaba de tema o la ignoraba por completo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever she had something happy to say he wouldn\u2019t give her the time of the day. He wouldn\u2019t pay attention. He would take that happiness away from her so easily. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter the situation, no matter her state of mind or her mood, she could never count on him to be there for her. She couldn\u2019t count on him for anything. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca aparec\u00eda cuando deb\u00eda. Siempre la hac\u00eda esperar o llamar en el \u00faltimo minuto y cancelar planes<\/a>. Se convirti\u00f3 en alguien que la hizo sentir muy sola. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ella se aferrar\u00eda a los d\u00edas buenos, a los d\u00edas en los que a \u00e9l le parec\u00eda conveniente estar all\u00ed para abrazarla hasta que se durmiera y darle un beso de buenos d\u00edas. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Those days were priceless to her. She could survive all the bad moments because of them. She didn\u2019t need much. She needed him to act normally, to get his shit together and see how valuable she was. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Instead, he became someone whose words would cut right through her soul. He wouldn\u2019t pay attention to the words coming out of his mouth. They were all insults one after the other. <\/span><\/p>\n

A veces se lo tomaba a broma, pero ella se daba cuenta. Se enfadaba durante un tiempo, pero siempre perdonaba. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ella <\/span>perd\u00f3nalo todo,<\/span><\/a> y se levantaba cada d\u00eda llena de esperanza de que las cosas fueran diferentes. Pero nunca lo fueron. <\/span><\/p>\n

El momento en que decidi\u00f3 que ya era suficiente fue un momento ordinario, un momento similar a los que hab\u00eda tenido antes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But that moment filled the cup that was already full. She couldn\u2019t and wouldn\u2019t take it anymore. All the disrespect, neglect and all the loneliness became too much. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Lleg\u00f3 a su l\u00edmite. Lleg\u00f3 a ese punto de ruptura en el que supo que no tiene sentido quedarse; en el que se dio cuenta de que su esperanza es un callej\u00f3n sin salida que s\u00f3lo le trae dolor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ten\u00eda que marcharse, aunque le doliera hacerlo, aunque necesitara cada \u00e1tomo de su fuerza para no acabar de nuevo en sus brazos y volver a caer en el mismo viejo patr\u00f3n que hab\u00eda repetido durante tanto tiempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero esta vez era diferente. Esta vez, ya era suficiente. Esta vez, decidi\u00f3 marcharse y no tuvo ninguna duda de que estaba haciendo lo correcto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She stayed, not because she had to, but because her love was so big and so strong that she held on to the hope that one day, he would start to resemble the  man she had fallen for. She would never have fallen for him if he had treated her this badly from the start….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":42596,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21735","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/casper-nichols-gqegalf39WM-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21735","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21735"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21735\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42596"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}