{"id":21774,"date":"2020-06-28T11:20:13","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T11:20:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21774"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:34","slug":"lee-esto-cuando-te-sientas-destrozado-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lee-esto-cuando-te-sientas-destrozado-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTe sientes un desastre emocional? (y c\u00f3mo evitarlo)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A sensitive heart can be a heavy burden. Your heart is so fragile, so gentle, and so delicate that even the smallest things can disrupt its balance. But that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>You are crying now and you can\u2019t focus your mind, right? I know the feeling.<\/p>\n<p>That feeling where you\u2019re choking on your own fears, emotions, and tears. It\u2019s like your own body can\u2019t handle itself. It&#8217;s an emotional state almost impossible to escape.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I feel like it\u2019s just anxiety playing with me, or that it\u2019s the people around me who are the only ones to blame for my emotions.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pero, al fin y al cabo, \u00bfimporta realmente la causa? \u00bfO importa m\u00e1s c\u00f3mo reaccionas ante ella?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Can I just tell you: what I\u2019ve learned that helps the most in these moments is accepting that minute of feeling lost and out of your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Siempre est\u00e1s muy ocupado, quieres conseguir algo en tu vida y te estresas por todo.<\/p>\n<p>Haces planes, organizas cosas y, al llegar la noche, te duermes agotado por todo lo que has hecho ese d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, you completely ignore your mental health and can&#8217;t understand that you&#8217;re under a lot of unnecessary stress.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But let me just tell you that being productive and following your dreams doesn\u2019t always mean that your heart is protected.<\/p>\n<p>Basta con que una persona en tu vida diga algo antes de pensar o haga algo que te haga preguntarte si alguna vez te quiso, para que caigas de rodillas y sientas c\u00f3mo tu coraz\u00f3n se rompe bruscamente dentro de tu pecho.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c9l te lastim\u00f3. Te hizo esto. Cuando miras atr\u00e1s, recuerdas aquella vez que estuviste a su lado cuando estaba tan perdido. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Desear\u00edas que estuviera a tu lado y te ayudara a superarlo. Pero no lo est\u00e1.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s not there with you and you know that he won\u2019t even come.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be crying your eyes out for a while, but that is fine. You&#8217;ll feel that churning sensation like you&#8217;re about to throw up.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s all normal. You shouldn\u2019t be blaming yourself for this emotional moment.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92002\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste sentada en un dormitorio\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-in-bedroom-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Your mind is blank, isn\u2019t it? You feel everything so deeply that your mind has shut itself down, because there\u2019s nothing it can think at this moment to make you feel better.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que deja que sea yo quien te lo diga: \u00a1Ac\u00e9ptate por lo que eres en este momento! <b>Usted es un <\/b><b>naufragio emocional<\/b><b>As\u00ed que, \u00a1aprov\u00e9chalo!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cuanto m\u00e1s intentas silenciar tus emociones, m\u00e1s intentas esconderlas del mundo, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/nunca-podras-hacer-el-dano-que-has-hecho\/\">m\u00e1s da\u00f1o causar\u00e1n<\/a> en tu cuerpo, mente y alma. La destrucci\u00f3n no es cuesti\u00f3n de segundos.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a matter of months, or even worse \u2013 years. It&#8217;s so slow that you don&#8217;t notice it coming!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a1El da\u00f1o ir\u00e1 m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de las l\u00e1grimas porque seguir\u00e1s llevando esas emociones contigo all\u00e1 donde vayas!<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t it better to just let it all go? It feels awful right now, but in the morning you will feel relieved! You\u2019ll feel lighter, like you have let go of a huge burden.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t be angry at yourself for feeling all of these things! You\u2019ll only be adding another emotion, and anger aimed at yourself isn\u2019t going to do you any good right now.<\/p>\n<p><b>Lo que necesitas ahora es incondicional, <\/b><b>amor duradero<\/b><b> para ti. Lo necesitas ahora m\u00e1s que nunca.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You need to realize that even though it\u2019s harder to breathe through all these tears, even though your face is swollen and blotchy, there\u2019s still no reason for you to not love yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando te levantes por la ma\u00f1ana, con esas bolsas bajo los ojos, recordar\u00e1s c\u00f3mo te sentiste y te respetar\u00e1s lo suficiente como para no dejar que te vuelva a ocurrir.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t let anyone treat you that way again, because <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/incluso-duele-como-el-infierno-sera-mejor-sin\/\">duele demasiado <\/a>ser defraudado por alguien a quien amabas con toda tu alma.<\/p>\n<p>But at this moment, it\u2019s better to let it all out than to&nbsp; drag it along with you, because you\u2019ll meet someone and want to give them everything, but you won\u2019t be able to due to your emotions being held inside for so long.<\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s why you have to let go of all of it. And this is how you&#8217;re going to achieve that <\/b><b>estado natural de bienestar<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>C\u00f3mo dejar de ser un desastre emocional:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. Distraerse&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92005\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg\" alt=\"linda chica escribiendo en su tel\u00e9fono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/cute-girl-typing-on-her-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nTodos sabemos que cuando no tienes nada que hacer, piensas en cosas.<\/p>\n<p>Cuanto m\u00e1s piensas, m\u00e1s te preocupas. La ansiedad se apodera de ti y empiezas a pensar m\u00e1s de la cuenta.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you&#8217;re determined to avoid becoming an emotional wreck, the smartest move you can pull is to distract yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Find something to do on social media \u2013 there are always interesting things on every platform.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Google things you&#8217;ve always been interested in, but never quite investigated. Try things for the first time \u2013 you never know what you might like.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe exactly that turns out to be your new hobby that will help to distract you and enable you to move on from the terrible emotional state you&#8217;re in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>2. Alejar la negatividad&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92006\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente al atardecer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/smiling-woman-on-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Are you in a toxic relationship? Break up \u2013 it&#8217;s not as hard as you think. Get rid of all the things that are causing you pain in life. No one is forcing you to be unhappy.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Esa negatividad de la que te has rodeado s\u00f3lo te est\u00e1 arrastrando hacia el fondo.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s so dark there\u2026 when you hit rock bottom. Sadly, many never find their way back to the top. They get stuck in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Why you made certain choices is your secret to keep. You don&#8217;t have to justify yourself to anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Al final, \u00bfrealmente tienes que dar explicaciones por querer que tu vida sea menos miserable?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>3. Culpa a quien tengas que culpar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92007\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-in-bed-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Although this doesn&#8217;t look quite healthy at first, in-depth it really is. By blaming someone, but only platonically blaming, you&#8217;re doing yourself a favor and you&#8217;re healing faster.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s always easier to point your finger at someone and blame them for your problems.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The end result of this is \u2013 you appear to become a victim because it&#8217;s not your fault, it&#8217;s someone else&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>Si las cosas llegan tan lejos antes de que te des cuenta de que debes asumir tus propios errores, entonces te encuentras potencialmente en una peligrosa situaci\u00f3n de autoenga\u00f1o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If you have a close friend, you should use them now to snap you out of this while it&#8217;s still not too late.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>4. Analice su situaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92008\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pensativa con el pelo atado apoyada en las manos en su casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"550\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/thoughtful-woman-with-tied-hair-leaning-on-hands-at-home-768x528.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>By analyzing what has happened to you, you&#8217;ll be able to find a solution to feel better.<\/p>\n<p>Succeeding in achieving that is called personal growth \u2013 when you finally realize by yourself what is best for you and which way you have to go to fulfill things you&#8217;ve dreamed of.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you&#8217;ve gone through something extremely painful. Now, you&#8217;re dealing with it, but instead of lying back and letting what happened to you disappear, you&#8217;re obsessing with it.<\/p>\n<p>You put so much pressure on yourself that at some point you become a loner. You refuse to hang out with anyone because you&#8217;re only stuck in your head.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re only thinking about what happened to you over and over again. Do you really think that things would be different if you knew about the betrayal or that person&#8217;s intentions towards you?<\/p>\n<p>Tienes que decidir mejorar. Tienes que salir del agujero negro al que te arrastra ese horrible estado emocional.<\/p>\n<p>Porque un d\u00eda, cuando conozcas a alguien que merezca por completo cada pedacito de ti, te arrepentir\u00e1s de no haber sido capaz de darle todo lo que eres.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92003\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It-Pinterest.png\" alt=\"\u00bfTe sientes un desastre emocional? (y c\u00f3mo evitarlo)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It-Pinterest.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It-Pinterest-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sensitive heart can be a heavy burden. Your heart is so fragile, so gentle, and so delicate that even the smallest things can disrupt its balance. But that\u2019s okay. You are crying now and you can\u2019t focus your mind, right? I know the feeling. That feeling where you\u2019re choking on your own fears, emotions,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":92004,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21774","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Feeling-Like-An-Emotional-Wreck-And-How-To-Stop-It.jpg",800,546,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21774","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21774"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21774\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92004"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21774"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21774"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21774"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}