{"id":21788,"date":"2020-08-09T11:50:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-09T11:50:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21788"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:22:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:22:19","slug":"si-estas-9-cosas-no-van-bien-desde-el-principio-la-relacion-no-durara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-estas-9-cosas-no-van-bien-desde-el-principio-la-relacion-no-durara\/","title":{"rendered":"Si estas 9 cosas no van bien desde el principio, la relaci\u00f3n no durar\u00e1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos sabemos que las relaciones exigen trabajo. No siempre van a ser dulces y picantes y todo bonito. Habr\u00e1 baches inevitables en el camino.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are things that have to go smoothly right from the start\u2014simple things which modern dating has transformed into complicated.<\/p>\n<p>Si te fijas en las cosas que se enumeran a continuaci\u00f3n, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que a veces puedes prever la calidad y la duraci\u00f3n de tu relaci\u00f3n en funci\u00f3n de su comienzo.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Mantener el contacto<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The way your boyfriend keeps in touch with you tells you a lot. It seems pretty simple, but it\u2019s usually the most complicated thing.<\/p>\n<p>Hay una simple verdad sobre los mensajes de texto: si \u00e9l est\u00e1 interesado, no importa lo ocupado que est\u00e9 o lo malo que crea que es enviando mensajes de texto, lo har\u00e1 al menos una vez al d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 la primera se\u00f1al de que est\u00e1 interesado y dispuesto a hacer un esfuerzo por estar contigo. Lo m\u00e1s probable es que si t\u00fa siempre inicias los mensajes y las llamadas, est\u00e9s mucho m\u00e1s interesada que \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Comunicaci\u00f3n en las redes sociales<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hoy en d\u00eda compartimos casi toda nuestra vida en las redes sociales, pero de alg\u00fan modo tenemos dificultades para hacerlo cara a cara. A veces tenemos la impresi\u00f3n de que nuestras parejas prefieren comunicarse a trav\u00e9s de las redes sociales o de mensajes instant\u00e1neos que en persona.<\/p>\n<p>Face-to-face communication is important for a long-lasting relationship. We can\u2019t solve our problems or communicate our feelings through text and emojis.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. La cantidad de tiempo que pas\u00e1is juntos<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hay parejas a las que les gusta pasar juntas todas las horas del d\u00eda, y otras que aprecian m\u00e1s que nada su tiempo a solas. Lo importante es no irse a ninguno de los dos extremos.<\/p>\n<p>Las parejas que pasan demasiado tiempo juntas acabar\u00e1n hart\u00e1ndose. Las que pasan demasiado poco tiempo juntas empezar\u00e1n a sentirse solas.<\/p>\n<p>The key is in finding the balance between spending time together and making some time for yourself. If the extremes happen, that\u2019s something to be alarmed about.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Noches de cita<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Although you are already in a relationship, you still shouldn\u2019t go without date nights\u2014even if they include Netflix and chill or two glasses and a bottle of wine on your balcony.<\/p>\n<p>Si su pareja hace imposible quedar con usted, diciendo que est\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/mientras-tu-estabas-demasiado-ocupado-sin-importarle-una-mierda-ella-se-rindio-contigo\/\">demasiado ocupado<\/a> y su agenda est\u00e1 llena esta semana.<\/p>\n<p>Hasta la persona m\u00e1s ocupada del mundo necesita y puede tener tiempo libre. La cuesti\u00f3n es si quiere pasarlo contigo.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Integration into each other&#8217;s lives<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>La vida de soltero y la de pareja son totalmente distintas. Por eso, al pasar de una a otra, pueden surgir dificultades.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s only natural to spend more time with friends and chase a broad spectrum of interests when you are single. And you shouldn\u2019t give that up when you are in a relationship either.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, debes reducirlo. Tienes que dedicar algo de tiempo a esa otra persona importante en tu vida y no dejarla esperando eternamente hasta que le des la hora.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. Meeting each other\u2019s friends<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Even if it\u2019s too early to meet each other&#8217;s families, meeting friends is a must. It\u2019s one part of integration into each other\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n<p>If they start to act funny and make up excuses for why you haven\u2019t met their friends yet, they are not that serious. If you are in an exclusive relationship and if he is really into you, you should know the people who are important to him.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. Cuidarse mutuamente<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Por supuesto, somos m\u00e1s que capaces de valernos por nosotros mismos. Pero un indicador de una buena relaci\u00f3n es tener a alguien que nos apoye emocionalmente.<\/p>\n<p>If someone doesn\u2019t show interest in you, your life and your wellbeing not only is he self-centered, but he is also not there to stay for the long run.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">8. Aceptar al otro por lo que realmente es<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If two people are compatible, they will be able to accept their faults as well as their strong points. They won\u2019t try to change one another or hope for some major changes in the future.<br \/>\nPor otra parte, dos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-signos-mas-comunes-de-incompatibilidad-en-las-relaciones-de-pareja\/\">incompatible<\/a> La gente se esforzar\u00e1 tanto por cambiar que se pelear\u00e1 por cualquier cosa. Las diferencias entre ellos acabar\u00e1n por separarlos.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody\u2019s perfect, but if you can&#8217;t deal with each other\u2019s imperfections, you are not in the right relationship.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">9. Confiar plenamente el uno en el otro<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Todos sabemos que la confianza es la base de cualquier relaci\u00f3n. Sin ella, ninguna relaci\u00f3n dura. Uno de los primeros y m\u00e1s comunes indicadores de falta de confianza son los celos.<\/p>\n<p>Dudar constantemente, hacer preguntas, preguntarse por su paradero, comprobar sus tel\u00e9fonos no es forma de mantener una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Jealousy slowly suffocates a relationship. It becomes harder and harder to handle. So if there is no trust, don\u2019t even bother staying together.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all know that relationships demand work. They won\u2019t always be sugar and spice and everything nice. There are going to be inevitable bumps on the road. However, there are things that have to go smoothly right from the start\u2014simple things which modern dating has transformed into complicated. If you look at the things listed&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":21796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21788","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/black-and-white-city-couple-159241.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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