{"id":21822,"date":"2019-08-10T08:07:12","date_gmt":"2019-08-10T08:07:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21822"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:04:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:04:22","slug":"me-estoy-obligando-a-aceptar-que-realmente-hemos-terminado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/me-estoy-obligando-a-aceptar-que-realmente-hemos-terminado\/","title":{"rendered":"Me estoy obligando a aceptar que hemos terminado de verdad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ll\u00e1mame pat\u00e9tica e idealista, pero desde el momento en que te vi por primera vez, estaba convencida de que ser\u00edas el hombre junto al que pasar\u00eda mi vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I thought you\u2019d be the person to hold my hand even when I grew old. That you\u2019d be the person I\u2019d start a family with and the man who would be the father of my children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I was sure that our love story wouldn\u2019t be ordinary and that it would be something which would last a lifetime.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pens\u00e9 que nada ni nadie podr\u00eda interponerse entre nosotros y que el amor vencer\u00eda todo lo que se interpusiera en su camino.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I never thought it would be perfect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was aware of the fact that we\u2019d have some rough times. I knew we\u2019d argue and that we wouldn\u2019t get along about everything.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But somehow, I was always convinced we\u2019d surpass all of this.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>De alguna manera, siempre estuve convencida de que el amor que nos ten\u00edamos ser\u00eda m\u00e1s fuerte que todos los obst\u00e1culos y retos que la vida nos pusiera por delante.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>But I guess I couldn\u2019t have been more wrong. And I guess I was the only one who thought this way.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you wouldn\u2019t have left me the way you did if you were sure of our love the way I was. And I know it has been a while since you and I were together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Y mi raz\u00f3n sigue dici\u00e9ndome que <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/es-hora-de-que-aceptes-que-se-ha-ido-y-que-no-va-a-volver\/\"><b>won\u2019t come back<\/b><\/a><b> y que las cosas entre nosotros nunca volver\u00e1n a ser como antes.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Pero mi coraz\u00f3n a\u00fan se niega a aceptarlo. Y todav\u00eda espera, contra todo pron\u00f3stico. Todav\u00eda me niego a aceptar realmente que hemos terminado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am still forcing myself to accept that our love story has come to its end. And that it wasn\u2019t a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/por-tu-culpa-ya-no-creo-en-los-finales-felices\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">final feliz<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I still have to remind myself that I don\u2019t have a right to call you whenever I feel like it. That I can\u2019t share every single moment of my day with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Que ya no eres la primera persona con la que puedo compartir todo, tanto lo bueno como lo malo, que me ha pasado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Todav\u00eda estoy creciendo para darme cuenta de que eres <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-que-no-son-para-siempre\/\"><b>no es mi persona de siempre<\/b><\/a><b> and that you are not the person I\u2019ll share my life with.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That all of our future goals, plans and dreams will never come true. That we\u2019ll never accomplish all of the things we talked about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That we\u2019ll never visit all the places we wanted to visit and that we\u2019ll never do everything we planned to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That I\u2019ll never be your wife or the mother of your children.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That I won\u2019t spend every morning of every day of my life waking up next to you. That I will never fall asleep in your arms again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That I\u2019ll never again hear your heartbeat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That I\u2019ll never kiss you and that you\u2019ll never hold me in your arms. That I\u2019ll never spend hours watching you sleep and listening to you breathe peacefully.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That I\u2019ll never again see your face on my doorstep, waiting for me to come home. That I\u2019ll never see a text or a missed call from you on my phone screen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I even can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ll never annoy me anymore. That we\u2019ll never argue over silly little things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That you\u2019ll never make me angry the only way you knew how to. That I\u2019ll never fight with you and that we\u2019ll never again have makeup sex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me estoy obligando a aceptar que en alg\u00fan momento en el futuro, un nuevo hombre formar\u00e1 parte de mi vida. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That someday, I\u2019ll be kissing another\u2019s lips and that I\u2019ll be waking up next to someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I am still forcing myself to understand that someday, you\u2019ll be just a distant memory which I\u2019ll hardly remember.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That it\u2019s about time for me to leave you in the past. That it\u2019s time for me to finally get over you and to let go of everything that\u2019s reminding me of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That it\u2019s about time for me to stop holding on to the past and to focus on my present and future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Sigo forz\u00e1ndome a no amarte. Y todav\u00eda me estoy obligando a seguir adelante con mi vida.<\/b> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-53192 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Im-Forcing-Myself-To-Accept-That-We-Are-Really-Over-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC.jpg\" alt=\"Me estoy obligando a aceptar que hemos terminado de verdad\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Im-Forcing-Myself-To-Accept-That-We-Are-Really-Over-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Im-Forcing-Myself-To-Accept-That-We-Are-Really-Over-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Im-Forcing-Myself-To-Accept-That-We-Are-Really-Over-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Im-Forcing-Myself-To-Accept-That-We-Are-Really-Over-PINTEREST-GRAPHIC-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Call me pathetic and an idealist but from the moment I first saw you, I was convinced that you\u2019d be the man I\u2019d spend my life next to. I thought you\u2019d be the person to hold my hand even when I grew old. That you\u2019d be the person I\u2019d start a family with and the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":21823,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/alex-jones-8205-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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