{"id":21905,"date":"2018-08-16T07:56:22","date_gmt":"2018-08-16T07:56:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21905"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:42:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:42:22","slug":"se-fija-en-el-exterior-o-en-el-interior","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-fija-en-el-exterior-o-en-el-interior\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfTe fijas en el exterior o en el interior?"},"content":{"rendered":"

What draws you to another person can say a lot about your own morals and values. In order to garner a better sense of self and understand what makes us tick, we can take a closer look at the connections we\u2019ve made and dissect why we\u2019ve made them. Why do we enjoy the company of some more than others? We can also take a look at what attracts us to another person when we first meet them. Do we look primarily at the interior\u2014are we drawn to their mind, their heart, their life perspective\u2014or the exterior? Would we rather associate with someone who is f\u00edsicamente atractivo<\/a>\u00bfrico o conocido?<\/p>\n

La pr\u00f3xima vez que entable una conversaci\u00f3n significativa con alguien a quien aprecia, o con quien se encuentra por primera vez, piense en lo que le gusta de esa persona. \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que hace que esta conexi\u00f3n tenga sentido?<\/strong><\/p>\n

This may be particularly important to ponder during that initial conversation. This could be a potential partnership or friendship, a new colleague or cohort. When engaging in first-time conversations we often make judgments more quickly than we like to admit. We like the way this person dresses or we don\u2019t. We like the way they talk, or we don\u2019t. We like their sense of style, how they interact with others or the environment around them, etc.<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve returned to a quiet space later in the day, note mentally what you noticed and why. Maybe you actually had no idea what this new acquaintance was wearing or how they talked. Maybe you felt a positive intangible vibe between the two of you or something seemed odd and you just can\u2019t put your finger on it. Did you find their words genuine or did their body language seem insincere?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 es importante? La forma en que juzgamos a los dem\u00e1s, sobre todo cuando los juicios son m\u00e1s objetivos que subjetivos, dice mucho de lo que intentamos ser.<\/strong> It\u2019s more difficult to examine how we feel about a family member or friend we\u2019ve known our whole life than it is someone brand new. So, figuring out what passed through our mind during an early initial meeting or two will offer insight into how our subconscious is operating and why we present the way we do.<\/p>\n

\u00bfNotas principalmente rasgos f\u00edsicos, mentales, emocionales o de comportamiento? \u00bfLe gustar\u00eda que esta persona observara los mismos rasgos en usted? \u00bfPasa m\u00e1s tiempo escuchando activamente a los dem\u00e1s o dando su opini\u00f3n? \u00bfLe gusta dedicar m\u00e1s tiempo a su propia apariencia cuando conoce a alguien nuevo? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been in an abusive attachment, you probably understand how important it is to look beyond the physical and take note of the person\u2019s heart. Some, unfortunately, learn this the hard way. But once you make the mistake of trusting someone who didn\u2019t deserve it, you are forever more careful to consider what\u2019s hidden beneath the surface.<\/p>\n

\u00bfParecen aut\u00e9nticas las intenciones del otro? \u00bfSon profundas? \u00bfEst\u00e1n realmente interesados en conocerte o m\u00e1s bien en tenerte? Para evitar volver a entrar en una situaci\u00f3n perjudicial, debemos asegurarnos de no quedarnos atrapados en lo superficial.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Piensa tambi\u00e9n si est\u00e1s siendo sincero con esa persona o intentas proyectar una falsa imagen de ti mismo. \u00bfTe interesa lo que tienen que decirte o intentas que te conozcan? Para evitar volver a entrar en una situaci\u00f3n t\u00f3xica, tambi\u00e9n es importante saber a qu\u00e9 atenerse.<\/p>\n

Of course, someone can legitimately have it all\u2014the looks, the personality, and a good heart. Just make sure you understand the difference between having everything and pretending to have everything. And always remember to stick to your morals and what\u2019s important to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No one is perfect. It\u2019s important to see through a false projection of perfection, and to not hold someone to unachievable standards at the same time. After all, we would want others to aceptar nuestras propias imperfecciones<\/a> without having to pretend they don\u2019t exist. The most meaningful connections are those that are the most real from the very start.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What draws you to another person can say a lot about your own morals and values. In order to garner a better sense of self and understand what makes us tick, we can take a closer look at the connections we\u2019ve made and dissect why we\u2019ve made them. Why do we enjoy the company of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":21906,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/reinaldo.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21906"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}