{"id":21908,"date":"2018-08-16T09:10:32","date_gmt":"2018-08-16T09:10:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21908"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:41:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:41:48","slug":"te-he-perdonado-por-el-pasado-pero-esto-no-es-una-invitacion-para-el-futuro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-he-perdonado-por-el-pasado-pero-esto-no-es-una-invitacion-para-el-futuro\/","title":{"rendered":"Te He Perdonado Por El Pasado, Pero Esto No Es Una Invitaci\u00f3n Para El Futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Querido Ex,<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, quiero decir que nunca fue f\u00e1cil alejarme de ti, pero sab\u00eda que era lo que necesitaba para volver a ser la persona que una vez fui. Sab\u00eda que el dolor me iba a doler durante un buen tiempo. Y as\u00ed fue. El dolor se sent\u00eda como un mill\u00f3n de cuchillos apu\u00f1alando mi coraz\u00f3n una y otra vez. <strong>Creo que mi dolor era tan fuerte porque t\u00fa y yo compart\u00edamos una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/8-signs-experiencing-emotional-attraction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">conexi\u00f3n magn\u00e9tica especial<\/a>.<\/strong> Esta conexi\u00f3n magn\u00e9tica nos un\u00eda de nuevo, tras un intento fallido de arreglar las cosas. <strong>Esta conexi\u00f3n magn\u00e9tica que compart\u00edamos era tan asombrosa y a la vez tan t\u00f3xica.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Segu\u00eda esperando por ti, que cambiaras tus patrones distorsionadores y destructivos, y volvieras y fueras el hombre que yo necesitaba que fueras.<strong> Segu\u00eda esperando que el universo nos volviera a unir y me diera algo m\u00e1s que esta tibia relaci\u00f3n que me hab\u00edas dado.<\/strong> Segu\u00eda esperando en mi coraz\u00f3n que te dieras cuenta de que yo era la protagonista y el personaje m\u00e1s importante de tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Yet you hurt me so badly by choosing to select me as your \u2018on again, off again\u2019 ex. You chose to keep me on your back burner. You left me the assumption you were truly trying to work on your flaws and wanted to work things out for the better of us&#8230;all the while behind my back, you decided to see someone new\u2014see someone new to see if you could get away with those same tactics and behaviors you could not so easily get away with with me. Tactics such as opening up Tinder while on a business trip because you went away. I have to admit that I\u2019m surprised she has put up with this behavior for so long\u2026but that is beside the point.<\/p>\n<p>Muchas veces quise acercarme a ella y destruir vuestra relaci\u00f3n como t\u00fa me hab\u00edas destruido a m\u00ed. Sin embargo, sab\u00eda que eso solo me dar\u00eda una satisfacci\u00f3n vac\u00eda a mi pregunta sin respuesta de por qu\u00e9 me hab\u00edas dejado.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de muchos sinsabores y m\u00faltiples barridos a izquierda y derecha, finalmente me di cuenta de que<strong> mi amor dentro de m\u00ed era mucho m\u00e1s importante que cualquier realidad distorsionada que pudieras haber pensado de m\u00ed.<\/strong> I want you to know, I no longer want to know what\u2019s on your mind when I see you pass me by and look into my eyes, because honestly, you didn\u2019t deserve even a glance into what my future has in store for me.<\/p>\n<p>Quiero que entiendas que te perdono por el pasado. As\u00ed que no hace falta que me llames y me pidas perd\u00f3n cuando las cosas vayan mal porque s\u00e9 que ir\u00e1n mal. S\u00e9 que cuando tu mundo se venga abajo y cuando ya no puedas encontrar a alguien que ocupe mi lugar por la noche, te ruego que no vuelvas a m\u00ed. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/dont-bother-coming-back-once-you-walk-away\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Please don\u2019t come back<\/a> a m\u00ed cuando ya no pueda tomar tu coraz\u00f3n y distraer tu mente de m\u00ed. Mi cap\u00edtulo contigo se ha cerrado.<\/p>\n<p>Again, I know things with this new girl will not work out, and when they don\u2019t, I will feel sorry for you because it\u2019s too late.<strong> I will not want to be hit up with an empty gesture of asking me how I\u2019m doing,<\/strong> followed by why we didn\u2019t remain friends. I will not want to hear all those words I so pathetically waited for over a year to hear: \u201c I\u2019m sorry I made a mistake\u201d I know I won\u2019t want to hear this because this will be your way and a so-called tactic to get back into my heart. You will still be the same man with broken promises, and the same man who can only love himself so much more than any other human being. So please, Ex, please don\u2019t ask me to remember the times you made me smile because there were plenty of times you made me cry.<\/p>\n<p>Please don\u2019t ask me to remember that trip to Europe, because now I hate it.<\/p>\n<p>I waited too long thinking you\u2019d come back to me. I missed opportunities because I still held some amount of faith in the universe. However now I realize the universe did me justice in helping me acknowledge that you are an example of what not to look for next time. <strong>Lo que ahora entiendo es que ya no est\u00e1s en mi imagen de la vida, y lo que el universo me est\u00e1 diciendo es que permita que alguien con un flujo de energ\u00eda diferente y m\u00e1s positivo entre en mi vida.<\/strong> Usted est\u00e1 en la imagen de la angustia y las falsas promesas.<\/p>\n<p>So dear Ex, I love you, but I\u2019m also over you. I\u2019m no longer holding on to you. I hope you understand, but we are over. I hope you understand that you are in my past for a reason, and I do not see you anywhere in my future. So please when you realize you made the biggest mistake of your life, because you did, I ask you to keep those thoughts to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Atentamente,<\/p>\n<p>De la compa\u00f1era que te hizo un hombre mejor con su descaro y su clase.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Ex, First of all, I want to say , it was never easy to finally walk away from you, but I knew this was what was needed in order to restore myself to the person I once was. I knew that the pain was going to hurt for a good amount of time. 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