{"id":21923,"date":"2018-08-16T10:24:57","date_gmt":"2018-08-16T10:24:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21923"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:41:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:41:24","slug":"como-no-encarinarse-en-una-relacion-nsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-no-encarinarse-en-una-relacion-nsa\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo no apegarse en una relaci\u00f3n NSA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una relaci\u00f3n en la que hay ‘no strings attached’<\/a> puede ser un verdadero suplicio para algunas personas, porque al principio parece todo diversi\u00f3n y juegos, pero al final sabes que te vas a encari\u00f1ar emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s recibiendo atenci\u00f3n de alguien muy atractivo y est\u00e1s teniendo mucha intimidad f\u00edsica con \u00e9l y no hay manera f\u00e1cil de no involucrar tus emociones.<\/p>\n

El problema es que s\u00f3lo una persona empieza a tener sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos por su pareja mientras que la otra s\u00f3lo lo hace por el sexo.<\/p>\n

Of course, it’s a no-brainer that if you two really do start having feelings for one another and if you really think that a romantic relationship could work out for the two of you, then go for it!<\/p>\n

But that isn’t really the intention of an NSA relationship, is it?<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que para que aprendas a mantener una distancia emocional con tu pareja NSA, te dar\u00e9 algunas reglas sobre c\u00f3mo no encari\u00f1arte en una relaci\u00f3n NSA.<\/p>\n

1. Fecha<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Just a great way to not develop feelings for someone is to continue dating while you’re in an NSA relationship.<\/p>\n

No one is limiting you to that one particular person and just because you two are having sex, it doesn’t mean that you have to stop seeing other people.<\/p>\n

Acude a citas y mant\u00e9n conversaciones significativas con posibles parejas que no s\u00f3lo est\u00e9n interesadas en acostarse contigo.<\/p>\n

2. Don’t talk about personal things<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

La comunicaci\u00f3n es realmente la ra\u00edz de todas las relaciones significativas<\/a>, that’s why you shouldn’t be talking about meaningful things with your NSA partner.<\/p>\n

Si quieres contarle a alguien tus problemas, llama a un amigo, a tu hermano, a tus padres, a cualquiera menos a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

A\u00f1adir conversaciones significativas a esta relaci\u00f3n es como una bomba de emociones a punto de explotar. Pensar\u00e1s que es \u00e9l quien te comprende y est\u00e1 siempre a tu lado.<\/p>\n

Cuando en realidad, no lo es.<\/p>\n

3. Ser ego\u00edsta<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Una relaci\u00f3n NSA es el tipo de relaci\u00f3n en la que puedes ser muy ego\u00edsta y no sentirte mal por ello.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to make him feel better and you don’t have to listen to his problems. You don’t even have to please him.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, tienes que establecer unas normas en las que nadie se quede fuera, pero anteponiendo tus propias necesidades.<\/p>\n

When you don’t pay much attention or have demasiada empat\u00eda<\/a> hacia \u00e9l, tu coraz\u00f3n se alejar\u00e1 m\u00e1s de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

4. Nada m\u00e1s que sexo<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Si sales con \u00e9l en citas reales, a cenar, si decides salir con \u00e9l a pasear, etc., acabar\u00e1s desarrollando sentimientos por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1s en una situaci\u00f3n en la que te enamorar\u00e1s por la forma en que te trata, en la que la gente os ver\u00e1 cogidos de la mano.<\/p>\n

That’s why you shouldn’t let the relationship get personal. Only answer messages that don’t include your personal life and do not ask questions like \u201cHow are you?\u201d but rather something that indicates that you just want to spend the night with him.<\/p>\n

5. Tomar descansos<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sex really is a good way to bond with someone, that’s why it’s very important to know when to step aside.<\/p>\n

En el momento en que empieces a sentir algo m\u00e1s profundo que una simple atracci\u00f3n sexual, t\u00f3mate un descanso de tu relaci\u00f3n con la NSA.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to stick around constantly because it is not a committed relationship. You can walk away whenever you want.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que si empiezas a sentirte un poco confuso con tu relaci\u00f3n, como si fuera algo m\u00e1s que sexo, dile a tu pareja NSA que tienes que tomarte un descanso.<\/p>\n

After that, if you feel like it, you can go back, and if not… it’s all up to you!<\/p>\n

6. Don’t meet his family and friends<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Si realmente quieres alejarte emocionalmente de \u00e9l, no llegues a conocer a su familia y amigos.<\/p>\n

Also, don’t take him to meet your loved ones.<\/p>\n

Meeting the important people in his life automatically makes you important too and in an NSA relationship, there shouldn’t be this level of trust and affection.<\/p>\n

Going this deep into his personal life doesn’t bring anything good, it only brings disaster. Especially, if there’s only one of you who has feelings for the other.\"C\u00d3MO<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

A relationship in which there are ‘no strings attached’ can be a real pain for some people, because at first it seems to be all fun and games but at the end of the day you know that you will get emotionally attached. You are getting attention from someone very attractive and you are being…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":21924,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/seth.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21923"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21923\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}