{"id":21932,"date":"2020-09-16T11:09:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T11:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21932"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:11:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:11:55","slug":"sobre-el-chico-que-me-enseno-a-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/sobre-el-chico-que-me-enseno-a-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Sobre el chico que me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a amar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Llevo saliendo con hombres desde que era una adolescente. Y en este periodo de tiempo, he conocido a numerosos chicos.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been with fuckboys, nice boys, players, bad boys, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-reasons-many-toxic-guys-drawn\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">chicos t\u00f3xicos<\/a>, men who friendzoned me and men whom I\u2019ve friendzoned.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been with some guys who just wanted to use me for sex and some who led me on and I\u2019ve been in a couple of serious relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Hab\u00eda algunos chicos a los que quer\u00eda y otros que me quer\u00edan.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, there were also some guys who never deserved a place in my life. There were some guys who mistreated me and who didn\u2019t love me enough, despite all the love I was giving them.<\/p>\n<p>Pero no estoy aqu\u00ed para hablarte de esos hombres.<br \/>\nAs I\u2019ve already said, not one of them deserved a place in my life and that means they don\u2019t deserve to be remembered either.<\/p>\n<p>Tampoco estoy aqu\u00ed para hablarte de todos los dem\u00e1s hombres de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I am here to talk to you about this one guy who stands out from them all. He doesn\u2019t belong in any category because he\u2019s always been so special.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Y despu\u00e9s de todos estos a\u00f1os, sigue ocupando un lugar especial en mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Y cuando hablo as\u00ed de \u00e9l, todos ustedes podr\u00edan suponer que a\u00fan lo amo. Podr\u00edan pensar que sufro por este hombre y que sigo busc\u00e1ndolo en cada hombre que entra en mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>Pero la verdad es bien distinta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121172 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer se mira en el espejo y se r\u00ede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/the-woman-looks-in-the-mirror-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La verdad es que era el hombre al que m\u00e1s hab\u00eda querido en mi vida.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And when I come to think of it, it is possible that he is the only man I really truly loved. Yes, I\u2019ve loved or I thought I loved other men but the truth is that my love for him always stood out.<\/p>\n<p>Y la verdad es que<strong> \u00e9ste era el hombre que m\u00e1s me quer\u00eda.<\/strong> El \u00fanico hombre que am\u00f3 mi verdadero yo y que nunca me pidi\u00f3 que fuera otra persona. El \u00fanico <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/estar-con-alguien-que-no-te-quiere-a-pesar-de-tus-defectos-sino-a-causa-de-ellos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hombre que me am\u00f3 no a pesar de mis defectos sino por ellos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Esto fue <strong>el \u00fanico hombre que am\u00f3 todo de m\u00ed<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>El hombre que siempre busc\u00f3 mi lado bueno, incluso cuando no hab\u00eda ninguno que encontrar. El hombre que me quer\u00eda igual en lo mejor y en lo peor.<\/p>\n<p>The man who wasn\u2019t only my lover but also my best friend and my family. The man who took care of me and who knew the essence of my personality.<\/p>\n<p>El \u00fanico hombre que consigui\u00f3 cambiarme, sin intentarlo nunca. Fue el hombre que me ayud\u00f3 a convertirme en la persona que soy hoy.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all\u2014<strong>esto fue <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-me-hiciste-volver-a-creer-en-el-para-siempre\/\">el hombre que me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a amar<\/a>.<\/strong> El hombre que me ense\u00f1\u00f3 c\u00f3mo debe ser el amor y c\u00f3mo debo ser amada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>El hombre que me ense\u00f1\u00f3 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-cant-miss-signs-youre-settling-less-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">no conformarse nunca con menos<\/a>.<\/strong> Que elev\u00f3 mis est\u00e1ndares cuando se trataba de hombres.<\/p>\n<p>El hombre que me mostr\u00f3 c\u00f3mo una mujer debe ser tratada, respetada, apreciada y amada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121173 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de pelo largo y casta\u00f1o se para en la calle y se r\u00ede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-stands-in-the-street-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>This was the man who made me believe that there is such a thing as true love, even when it doesn\u2019t have a happy ending.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A man who showed me that I wasn\u2019t foolish for believing in fairy tales or in romance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And this is something I\u2019ll always be grateful for. This is something I\u2019ll always remember him for.<\/p>\n<p>Te preguntar\u00e1s c\u00f3mo es que este hombre ya no forma parte de mi vida. Te preguntar\u00e1s c\u00f3mo es que dej\u00e9 ir a este hombre maravilloso.<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, la verdad es que este hombre me trajo la mayor felicidad en mi vida. Pero tambi\u00e9n me caus\u00f3 mucho dolor y tambi\u00e9n es el hombre que me ha herido como ning\u00fan otro.<\/p>\n<p>Pero eso no es algo que quiera recordar.<\/p>\n<p>Because I don\u2019t want to think about the bad things when I think of him. I don\u2019t want to think of the things which happened after our fairy tale ended.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo quiero recordarle por todo lo que me dio y por todo lo que me ense\u00f1\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Porque eso es lo realmente importante. Y eso es lo que dej\u00f3 una verdadera huella en mi vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-121171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Sobre el chico que me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a amar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been dating men since I was a teenage girl. And in this period of time, I\u2019ve met numerous guys. I\u2019ve been with fuckboys, nice boys, players, bad boys, toxic guys, men who friendzoned me and men whom I\u2019ve friendzoned. I\u2019ve been with some guys who just wanted to use me for sex and some&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121169,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/About-The-Guy-Who-Taught-Me-How-To-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121169"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}