{"id":21935,"date":"2020-05-16T11:47:03","date_gmt":"2020-05-16T11:47:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21935"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:40:09","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:40:09","slug":"lea-esto-si-esta-pensando-en-darle-una-segunda-oportunidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lea-esto-si-esta-pensando-en-darle-una-segunda-oportunidad\/","title":{"rendered":"Lee esto si est\u00e1s pensando en darle una segunda oportunidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Someone once told me that giving second chances to someone is like falling into a trap set by the one we’re facing.<\/p>\n

I didn’t understand it then, because I truly thought that people could change and regret their mistakes.<\/p>\n

Pensaba que la gente pod\u00eda despertarse una ma\u00f1ana y decidir que quer\u00eda volver a querer y apreciar a la persona que tanto am\u00f3 y que quer\u00eda compensarla. Pero me equivocaba.<\/p>\n

At one point you will realize, just like I did, that when people hurt you it’s not an accident. Whoever <\/strong>duele lo hace a prop\u00f3sito.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you really think that a cheater can justify his actions by saying that he ‘didn’t mean it’ or that it ‘wasn’t his intention’?<\/p>\n

I am very much aware of the fact that under the influence of alcohol we might not have a sense of judgment but why would he even want to put himself in that situation? And it’s not just cheaters we should be talking about.<\/p>\n

He knew that you would be hurt if he told you that you were a ‘bad girlfriend’, he knew how much it would hurt you by saying that you weren\u2019t worth his time and he still said it like it was nothing.<\/p>\n

\u00bfDe verdad crees que alguien que te quiere har\u00eda algo as\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Todo lo que ese hombre te hizo, lo hizo a prop\u00f3sito. Todo ese abuso, toda esa manipulaci\u00f3n y todo lo dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"Una
\nYes, this also means that he did all those sweet things on purpose. All those times he made you feel safe, all those times he told you how much he loved you\u2014everything.<\/p>\n

Y sobre todo, lo hizo sabiendo que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n le quer\u00edas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s up to you to determine whether or not you want him in your life but let me just tell you that it takes years to build trust but a second to break it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEres realmente capaz de perdonarle por lo que hizo? \u00bfPuedes decir con certeza que no volver\u00e1 a cometer el mismo error?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPuedes perdonar el hecho de que abusara de tu confianza para su propio placer?<\/p>\n

You are thinking about giving him another chance. This is, of course, a chance for him to make everything right but it’s not just that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Al intentarlo de nuevo, le est\u00e1s dando libre acceso a tu coraz\u00f3n y la oportunidad de hacerte da\u00f1o una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Le est\u00e1s dando la oportunidad de convertir una vez m\u00e1s vuestra relaci\u00f3n en un campo de batalla cuando deber\u00eda ser un refugio seguro.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Una ma\u00f1ana te despertar\u00e1s a su lado y recordar\u00e1s lo mal que te lo ha hecho, recordar\u00e1s lo rota y destrozada que est\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

But that exact same man will be lying next to you and you will keep on wondering what would have happened if you hadn\u2019t let him volver a ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Maybe you would have healed very quickly. Maybe you wouldn’t be so mad about your decision and maybe you would have been happy with another man next to you.<\/p>\n

There is a long list of maybes just waiting for you and it doesn’t matter if you choose to take him back or not, you will wonder what would have happened if you chose otherwise.<\/p>\n

Unconditional love is a beautiful thing, especially when you realize that there are so many people out there in this world who will never be able to feel what you’re feeling.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero lo que es m\u00e1s m\u00e1gico que el amor incondicional hacia otra persona es el amor incondicional que sentimos por nosotros mismos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

There shouldn’t be anyone dici\u00e9ndote que quererte a ti mismo es ego\u00edsta<\/a> o que pueda haber algo m\u00e1s importante que el amor propio.<\/p>\n

That’s why I think that if you loved yourself enough, you wouldn’t give him another chance.<\/p>\n

You wouldn’t give this man a chance to break your heart once more because he does not deserve it. He had his chance and he blew it.<\/p>\n

This is your time to shine, dear, so don’t let it slip out of your hands.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1s destrozada y puede que llores cada vez que pienses en \u00e9l, pero eso no es nada comparado con la miseria por la que te dejar\u00e1s llevar si decides volver a darle un lugar en tu coraz\u00f3n mientras \u00e9l hace lo mismo una y otra y otra vez.<\/p>\n

Act\u00faa con inteligencia. S\u00e9 que tu coraz\u00f3n tira de ti, pero eso no es excusa para tratarte mal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete lo suficiente como para alejarte de \u00e9l para siempre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Lee<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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