{"id":21954,"date":"2020-07-17T06:42:14","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T06:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21954"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:51:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:51:23","slug":"a-la-chica-que-sigue-construyendo-muros-alrededor-de-su-corazon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-sigue-construyendo-muros-alrededor-de-su-corazon\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que sigue construyendo muros alrededor de su coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey beautiful, I just wanted to tell you that it’s OK.<\/p>\n

It’s fine that you are shutting yourself off. The way you don’t want to let anyone inside and the way you decided to not form an emotional connection with anyone is understandable.<\/p>\n

It’s fine that you want to give yourself time. They say that el tiempo lo cura todo<\/a> \u00a1y realmente estoy de acuerdo con eso!<\/p>\n

El tiempo es nuestro \u00fanico sanador en este mundo ca\u00f3tico porque nos da espacio para pensar y reevaluar nuestras propias emociones.<\/p>\n

It’s like time is telling all of us to take a break from the whole world and get back to ourself where we will have nothing except the understanding of our conversations and reflections.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s fine that you want to be selfish. People have made us believe that there is nothing worse than being selfish.<\/p>\n

Pero te has entregado demasiado y durante demasiado tiempo para que no quede nada de ti.<\/p>\n

Has llegado a un punto en el que ni siquiera sabes c\u00f3mo volver a convertirte en una prioridad porque siempre ha habido alguien m\u00e1s importante para ti.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Mira por lo que has pasado. \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces tuviste que o\u00edr esas palabras salir de su boca?<\/p>\n

He kept on telling you that you were missing ‘something’. He told you how unworthy of love and appreciation you were, he told you that loving you was a mistake.<\/p>\n

Bueno, d\u00e9jame decirte que eres valiente por estar hoy aqu\u00ed con nosotros.<\/p>\n

Tienes el verdadero coraje y la fuerza de un luchador, as\u00ed que no dudes m\u00e1s de ti mismo.<\/p>\n

That’s why it’s completely fine to build those walls around your heart to protect yourself. You have been through enough to know that wearing your heart on your sleeve can only cause damage.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have learned it the hard way that men don’t have limits when it comes to the words they use to offend you.<\/p>\n

Has visto c\u00f3mo el hombre al que m\u00e1s quer\u00edas se convert\u00eda en un monstruo delante de tus narices y t\u00fa segu\u00edas queri\u00e9ndole.<\/p>\n

Fuiste t\u00fa quien consigui\u00f3 todo el coraje necesario para levantarse y al\u00e9jate de \u00e9l<\/a>!<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You are truly an amazing woman, so don’t beat yourself up when people tell you that you are tense.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfHan pasado esas personas por el mismo infierno que t\u00fa? \u00bfHan visto lo mismo que t\u00fa?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo est\u00e1s siendo precavido. Usted quiere guarda tu coraz\u00f3n<\/a> y eso es m\u00e1s que comprensible.<\/p>\n

Ese coraz\u00f3n tuyo que te mantiene vivo est\u00e1 lleno de moratones y cicatrices porque se ha roto demasiadas veces.<\/p>\n

Te ha dolido tanto el pecho, gritando el nombre del hombre que s\u00f3lo se aprovech\u00f3 de ti, que hoy s\u00f3lo lo sientes entumecido.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puede alguien juzgarte por la decisi\u00f3n que tomaste de quedarte solo, mientras construyes muros alrededor de tu coraz\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Esos muros te proteger\u00e1n de todos esos hombres que intentan entrar a la fuerza y que despu\u00e9s s\u00f3lo te decepcionar\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Tus muros s\u00f3lo se derrumbar\u00e1n ante el \u00fanico hombre que te perseguir\u00e1, el hombre que se tomar\u00e1 las cosas con calma contigo porque sabe que tiene que tener cuidado contigo.<\/p>\n

\"linda<\/p>\n

At one point, those walls around your heart won’t have a reason to stand strong anymore because someone will come into your life who will guard your heart instead of those walls.<\/p>\n

Until then, it’s OK that you are feeling this way. It’s OK that you want to escape from men who don’t know how to show you love.<\/p>\n

It’s OK that you are afraid to love. It’s OK that tienes miedo de confiar<\/a>. La gente tiene esa extra\u00f1a necesidad de irse una vez que han conseguido algo o a alguien, as\u00ed que pasan a la siguiente v\u00edctima.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to be just one of those women who they won’t even remember.<\/p>\n

You will stick inside their mind as the only woman whose walls were so high and hard that they couldn’t get through and they will forever wonder what would have happened if they had.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque nadie, excepto el hombre adecuado, sabr\u00e1 qu\u00e9 mujer verdaderamente emp\u00e1tica, dulce y amable se esconde tras esos muros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Hey beautiful, I just wanted to tell you that it’s OK. It’s fine that you are shutting yourself off. The way you don’t want to let anyone inside and the way you decided to not form an emotional connection with anyone is understandable. It’s fine that you want to give yourself time. They say that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97200,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21954","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/To-The-Girl-Who-Continues-To-Build-Walls-Around-Her-Heart.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21954","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21954"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21954\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21954"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21954"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21954"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}