{"id":21975,"date":"2020-08-28T09:50:57","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T09:50:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21975"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:36:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:36:53","slug":"alejarse-de-alguien-es-algo-mas-que-romper-con-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/alejarse-de-alguien-es-algo-mas-que-romper-con-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Alejarse de alguien es algo m\u00e1s que romper con \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Alejarse de la persona que te importa y de la persona con la que quieres quedarte es, sin duda, una de las cosas m\u00e1s duras y dolorosas que a veces hay que hacer.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/se-necesita-mucho-valor-para-alejarse-de-alguien-que-amas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Romper con alguien a quien todav\u00eda quieres<\/a> nunca es f\u00e1cil y requiere mucha fuerza y valor.<\/p>\n<p>Pero a veces, \u00e9sta es la \u00fanica opci\u00f3n que tienes, a pesar de todo el amor que puedas sentir por alguien. A veces, esto es lo \u00fanico que tienes que hacer si quieres ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, love is not enough and you simply can\u2019t make things work out, as much as you would like to.<\/p>\n<p>Y a veces, tomas la decisi\u00f3n de alejarte y decides no mirar nunca atr\u00e1s, por mucho que duela.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, \u00bfest\u00e1 seguro de saber lo que significa realmente alejarse? \u00bfSabes lo que significa realmente y que es mucho m\u00e1s que romper con alguien?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110295\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta mirando a lo lejos por la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La verdad es que la mayor\u00eda de la gente comete el error de pensar que su trabajo ha terminado en el momento en que se aleja f\u00edsicamente de la persona que le est\u00e1 haciendo da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And yes\u2014this is, without a doubt, the hardest step to make.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero tengo que decepcionarte y decirte que la triste verdad es que tu viaje de recuperaci\u00f3n y tu camino para alejarte de verdad est\u00e1 justo en sus comienzos en el momento en que rompes con alguien.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque alejarse es mucho m\u00e1s que eso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s much more than physically removing yourself from someone. It\u2019s much more than not seeing this person, than not spending time with them and not talking to them.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s much more than not kissing this person and not sleeping with them. It\u2019s much more than officially not being in a relationship with them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Alejarse de alguien es cuando dejas de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/i-dont-expect-you-to-come-back-but-it-doesnt-mean-i-lost-hope-for-it-to-happen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">esperando que vuelvan<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste de mente profunda sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando por fin dejas de pasar cada momento de cada d\u00eda deseando que esa persona llame a tu puerta o te llame.<\/p>\n<p>When you stop hoping that they\u2019ve come to their senses and that they\u2019ve finally realized that they made a mistake when they let you go.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando dejes de esperar a que te persigan, como les persegu\u00edas en el pasado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Alejarse es cuando dejas de pensar en ellos<\/strong> and what they\u2019ve been up to. It happens when this person stops being the first and the last thought you have every day.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurre cuando dejas de preguntarte si te echan de menos como t\u00fa a ellos y si alguna vez piensan en ti.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurre cuando dejas de pensar en todo lo que podr\u00eda haber pasado entre los dos y en todo lo que pas\u00f3 entre vosotros.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110297\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead.jpg\" alt=\"mujer preocupada llev\u00e1ndose la mano a la frente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/worried-woman-holding-hand-on-the-forehead-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ocurre cuando dejas de acosarlos y buscarlos en las redes sociales,<\/strong> to see what they\u2019ve been up to. It\u2019s when you lose every interest in them and their life.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurre cuando dejas de tener ganas de verlos cada vez que sales.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s when you stop getting dressed up just in case you run into them. It happens when you stop going to places where you could see them.<\/p>\n<p>Walking away is when you stop spending time with this person\u2019s friends and family because you hope they\u2019ll tell you more about him and because this is a way for you to stay a part of his life.<\/p>\n<p>Ocurre cuando dejas de girarte cada vez que ves a alguien caminando o sonriendo igual que ellos.<\/p>\n<p>When your songs don\u2019t impact you anymore and when you remember your anniversary or their birthday after it\u2019s long gone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"mujer bastante preocupada sentada en el tejado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Walking away is when you forgive this person for all the harm they\u2019ve done to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ocurre cuando les deseas todo lo mejor y cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/te-quiero-tanto-que-quiero-que-seas-feliz-incluso-sin-mi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">you really want them to be happy, even if it\u2019s without you<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Alejarse de alguien es el momento en que esa persona deja de formar parte de tu vida de verdad.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando dejan de existir en tu mente y en tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuando dejas de echarles de menos y cuando por fin dejas de quererles.<\/strong> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80821 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"ALEJARSE DE ALGUIEN ES ALGO M\u00c1S QUE ROMPER CON \u00c9L\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/walking-away-from-someone-is-more-than-just-breaking-up-with-them-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Walking away from the person you care about and from the person you want to stay with is without a doubt one of the hardest and the most painful things you sometimes need to do. Breaking up with someone you still love is never easy and it takes a lot of strength and courage. But&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":110299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21975","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Walking-Away-From-Someone-Is-More-Than-Just-Breaking-Up-With-Them-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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