{"id":21978,"date":"2020-05-17T10:03:41","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T10:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21978"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:58:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:58:48","slug":"el-lado-feo-de-darse-cuenta-de-que-nunca-me-amara-lo-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-lado-feo-de-darse-cuenta-de-que-nunca-me-amara-lo-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"El lado feo de darse cuenta de que nunca me querr\u00e1 lo suficiente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando uno piensa en el amor, y especialmente en el amor rom\u00e1ntico entre dos personas, suele ver las cosas muy claras.<\/p>\n<p>O amas a alguien o te es completamente indiferente.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, of course, you can like someone or have a crush on them but you don\u2019t mistake this for love.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando se trata de amor, siempre hay una l\u00ednea gruesa entre amar y no amar a alguien.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But have you ever been in a situation in which you are involved with someone who simply doesn\u2019t have the same ability to love as you do?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfHas estado alguna vez con alguien cuya intensidad m\u00e1xima de amor que es capaz de sentir por otra persona es muy inferior a la tuya?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCon alguien de cuyo amor est\u00e1s segura? \u00bfCon alguien que sabes que te quiere pero cuyo amor simplemente no te basta?<\/p>\n<p>I have and I wouldn\u2019t wish for anyone to go through anything similar because it is one of the most painful things you can experience.<\/p>\n<p>And you should believe me, because I\u2019ve been involved with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/5-signos-realmente-no-ama\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">guys who didn\u2019t love me<\/a>. And trust me\u2014this one is much worse.<\/p>\n<p>Because when someone doesn\u2019t love you, you just have a hard time accepting that he doesn\u2019t have feelings for you and that this will probably never change.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86794\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"pelo afro mujer pensativa en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/afro-hair-thoughtful-woman-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When someone doesn\u2019t love you, you know very well where you stand and you just have to force yourself to face it.<\/p>\n<p>But when someone loves you but doesn\u2019t love you enough, things are far more complicated.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando me junt\u00e9 por primera vez con este tipo, vi que era una persona de coraz\u00f3n fr\u00edo.<\/p>\n<p>And as our relationship went on farther and farther, I thought that he simply didn\u2019t like me enough and that I didn\u2019t manage to wake any feelings for me inside of him.<\/p>\n<p>Y durante mucho tiempo, pens\u00e9 que yo era el problema. Pensaba que ten\u00eda que esforzarme m\u00e1s y que deb\u00eda poner m\u00e1s empe\u00f1o en que me quisiera m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Pero luego, al estar m\u00e1s en su vida, me di cuenta de que era as\u00ed con todo el mundo. Me di cuenta de que se comportaba igual con sus padres, con su hermano y con sus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>Era como si nos quisiera a todos pero <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-la-amaste-solo-eras-bueno-fingiendo-que-la-amabas\/\">nunca am\u00f3 a nadie lo suficiente<\/a>. He simply acted like he was happy to have all of us in his life but like he wouldn\u2019t be too bothered if he lost any of us.<\/p>\n<p>Like he was just fine on his own and like there didn\u2019t exist a person in this world who he needed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I got it\u2014he was a rational person and wasn\u2019t led by his emotions. But I was completely different and I couldn\u2019t stand being in this type of relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But the point is that I couldn\u2019t walk away from him because I had fallen for this guy like crazy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-sad-woman-lying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer triste acostada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-sad-woman-lying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-sad-woman-lying-on-bed-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/beautiful-sad-woman-lying-on-bed-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>La verdad es que estaba dispuesta a aceptar las migajas de su amor que me daba.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Porque incluso estas migajas eran mejores que no tenerlo en absoluto. Y porque sab\u00eda que nunca me perseguir\u00eda y que nunca me echar\u00eda de menos si le dejaba.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Y entonces, en lugar de alejarme de \u00e9l, empec\u00e9 a buscar justificaciones para su comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>Me dec\u00eda a m\u00ed misma que era un hombre sensible, lleno de amor, pero que simplemente le costaba expresar sus sentimientos.<\/p>\n<p>Segu\u00eda esperando ser yo quien lo cambiara, quien le ense\u00f1ara... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-amor-verdadero-se-siente-como-el-hombre-correcto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lo que era el amor verdadero<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But with time, I realized that this really was his true face. He wasn\u2019t pretending to be this tough guy and he wasn\u2019t hiding his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>He just didn\u2019t have any. At least, not the way I wanted for him to have them.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo simplemente no era capaz de amarme de la manera <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-quiero-que-me-quieras\/\">Quer\u00eda que me amara<\/a> y la forma en que lo amaba. Y no hab\u00eda nada que pudiera hacer al respecto.<\/p>\n<p>El momento en que comprend\u00ed esto fue tambi\u00e9n el momento en que me di cuenta de que seguir con \u00e9l siempre significar\u00eda que me conformar\u00eda con menos.<\/p>\n<p>Fue el momento en que me di cuenta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/my-heart-deserves-more-than-your-half-assed-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Quer\u00eda y merec\u00eda m\u00e1s<\/a> y el momento en que empec\u00e9 a buscar eso m\u00e1s en otro lugar. Fue el momento en que lo dej\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-86792 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"El lado feo de darse cuenta de que nunca me querr\u00e1 lo suficiente\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you think about love, and especially about romantic love between two people, you usually see things very clearly. You either love someone or you are completely indifferent about them. Yes, of course, you can like someone or have a crush on them but you don\u2019t mistake this for love. When it comes to love,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":86793,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21978","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Realizing-He-Will-Never-Love-Me-Enough.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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