{"id":21999,"date":"2018-08-17T11:31:35","date_gmt":"2018-08-17T11:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=21999"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:39:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:39:09","slug":"nunca-sigas-estos-13-ejemplos-de-malos-consejos-sobre-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-sigas-estos-13-ejemplos-de-malos-consejos-sobre-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca sigas estos 13 ejemplos de malos consejos sobre relaciones"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The saying \u2018the road to hell is paved with good intentions\u2019 is not there without a good reason. People share relationship advice by having your best interests at heart.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, esos consejos pueden llevarte por el camino equivocado y complicar a\u00fan m\u00e1s tu vida amorosa.<\/p>\n<p>Estos son algunos ejemplos de malos consejos sobre relaciones que nunca deber\u00edas seguir:<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>1. \u201cDo your best to avoid conflict in a relationship.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Es un consejo horrible. Al no hablar de las cosas que te molestan, no haces m\u00e1s que acumular todos los problemas grandes y peque\u00f1os dentro de ti. Te conviertes en una bomba de relojer\u00eda e inevitablemente explotar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>But if you had argued, discussed and solved your problems right away, your problems wouldn\u2019t be as big or as devastating for your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Good communication is the key to a successful relationship. Don\u2019t be afraid to say out loud when something is bothering you. Confronting your problems can make your relationship grow stronger.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>2. \u201cYour relationship should look like a romantic movie.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>It\u2019s true that most of us want that movie kind of romance, with grand gestures and emotional displays. But in reality, if someone was to exaggerate in that way, we would probably think they had a screw loose somewhere inside.<\/p>\n<p>There is a reason why romance in the movies is so amazing and it\u2019s called acting. In real life, we should be more realistic and notice romance in its more natural and realistic forms.<\/p>\n<p>A goodnight text, a cuddly Sunday afternoon, someone who makes you feel better when you are sick, someone who lights up around you, someone who hugs hard\u2026 isn\u2019t that all the romance you need?<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>3. \u201cYou have every right to check their phone, social media, etc., because you are in a relationship.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>A relationship doesn\u2019t give you ownership papers and people are not things to be treated as such. Snooping through someone\u2019s phone, social media, etc., means invading their privacy.<\/p>\n<p>It shows that you don\u2019t respect someone&#8217;s personal space and what\u2019s even more concerning is that you don\u2019t trust the person you are with. If that is the case, you should rethink your relationship.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>4. \u201cYou expect too much from your partner\/relationship, so lower your standards.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anybody tell you that there is something wrong with having standards. You have to demand respect, loyalty, and love in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Hay ciertas cualidades que quieres que tenga tu pareja y no hay nada malo en elegir salir con alguien que las posea.<\/p>\n<p>Eres t\u00fa quien tiene que ser abierto y honesto sobre tus deseos y anhelos sobre tu pareja y tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>You alone can be the judge of whether they are realistic or not; nobody else should tell you what\u2019s good enough for you.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>5. \u201cNever go to bed angry.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>This is one of the most common phrases and pieces of advice you can hear. However, it\u2019s definitely not good advice.<\/p>\n<p>Some problems can\u2019t be solved instantly. Sometimes it\u2019s better to sleep on it, let your emotions calm down and talk about everything in the morning or sometime the next day.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>6. \u201cThey will change because they love you.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Si alguien no te trata como deber\u00eda, si s\u00f3lo te da migajas, si no est\u00e1 dispuesto a hacer un esfuerzo por mantener vuestra relaci\u00f3n, lo m\u00e1s probable es que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/a-la-chica-de-corazon-blando-que-nunca-va-a-cambiar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">they won\u2019t change<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>People only change when they feel the need to change and there is nothing anyone can do about it. You can\u2019t stay in a bad thing and hope that your love will be enough to change someone.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>7. \u201cStop being so self-sufficient, it\u2019s intimidating.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You can often hear that men are intimidated by strong, self-sufficient women who can stand on their own two feet. The truth is some are and others aren\u2019t, it depends and you can\u2019t generalize.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about the way you choose to look at things. Instead of looking at your strength as something that makes you hard to love, look at it as a more than welcome filter.<\/p>\n<p>It will keep those who are not good for you away and keep the one who is for your close. He won\u2019t be intimidated by anything, he will welcome and applaud your self-sufficiency.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">8. \u201cGet married! It\u2019s time!\u201d<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s the 21st century and we still keep hearing this nonsense. It\u2019s like there is a time limit for marriage and if you don\u2019t get hitched by that certain time, you have accomplished nothing in your life.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s so wrong on so many levels. People shouldn\u2019t get married because they\u2019ve been together for a long time or because they reached a time limit that&#8217;s socially acceptable.<\/p>\n<p>La gente deber\u00eda casarse a su debido tiempo, por sus propios motivos y s\u00f3lo si cree en el matrimonio. Todos los dem\u00e1s comentarios sobran.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>9. \u201cYour partner must earn at least as much as you do or more.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>This is not just unrealistic, it\u2019s unnecessary. You and your partner should contribute as much as you can into your household and it doesn\u2019t matter who earns more money.<\/p>\n<p>Looking at your relationship from a financial side is materialistic and has nothing to do with feelings. Discard this advice. Love can\u2019t and shouldn\u2019t be measured in dollars.<\/p>\n<p>Lo \u00fanico que debes esperar de tu pareja es que sea trabajadora y que no sea una sanguijuela que depende totalmente de ti econ\u00f3micamente.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>10. \u201cIf only your partner was more like mine.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Un amigo que dice algo as\u00ed no es tu amigo. Te est\u00e1 degradando a ti y a vuestra relaci\u00f3n para sentirse mejor.<\/p>\n<p>No hay dos personas iguales, ninguna relaci\u00f3n es igual y, por tanto, nunca deben compararse.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody has a different definition of happiness in a relationship; don\u2019t allow yours to feel less just because it\u2019s not similar to somebody else\u2019s.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>11. \u201cLove will find you.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Sure, love comes along in its own time. But it definitely won\u2019t find us while we are hiding in the comfort of our own home. It won\u2019t knock on our door.<\/p>\n<p>Si queremos que el amor nos encuentre, tenemos que hacernos ver. Tenemos que darle un empujoncito al destino. Tenemos que ser proactivos. Salir ah\u00ed fuera, seguir nuevos caminos e intereses y crear oportunidades para conocer gente nueva.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>12. \u201cLove will fade away with time.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>It\u2019s really an awful and scary thought that love fades with time. We often hear that said and we often see that in real life; however, things don\u2019t have to play it out that way.<\/p>\n<p>Si dos personas sienten algo profundo el uno por el otro, encontrar\u00e1n la manera de mantener vivo el amor. Trabajar\u00e1n a diario en su relaci\u00f3n y se recordar\u00e1n mutuamente que est\u00e1n ah\u00ed y que les importan.<\/p>\n<p>Hay tantos ejemplos de parejas casadas durante treinta a\u00f1os o m\u00e1s que nos demuestran que el amor verdadero nunca se desvanece.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>13. \u201cLove can\u2019t exist without jealousy.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Sure it can. Two people who built their relationship on trust won&#8217;t make room for jealousy. A small amount of jealousy can appear regardless of the trust but those cases are rare and have more to do with the self-confidence of the person who is jealous than with the entire relationship.<\/p>\n<p>However, extremely jealous behavior is no sign of love. It\u2019s a sign of someone who is so unsure of themselves that they become controlling. That kind of jealousy can become really damaging.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The saying \u2018the road to hell is paved with good intentions\u2019 is not there without a good reason. People share relationship advice by having your best interests at heart. However, that advice can put you on the wrong path and make an even greater mess of your love life. 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