{"id":22021,"date":"2018-08-20T07:30:40","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T07:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22021"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:37:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:37:36","slug":"esquivaste-una-bala-cuando-te-dejo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esquivaste-una-bala-cuando-te-dejo\/","title":{"rendered":"Esquivaste una bala cuando te dej\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve probably often heard the phrase that everything happens for a reason. And you\u2019ve heard that <\/strong>all\u00ed es bueno en todo lo malo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve heard that sometimes the best thing that can happen to you actually looks like something awful in the beginning.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But you\u2019ve never believed in any of this. And you still don\u2019t. But let me tell you one thing\u2014you definitely should.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que est\u00e1s pasando por muchas cosas ahora.<\/p>\n

Ten\u00edas un tipo que amado m\u00e1s que a ti mismo<\/a> y estabas convencida de que te correspond\u00eda. Al menos, eso es lo que \u00e9l te dec\u00eda y as\u00ed actuaba.<\/p>\n

Planeaste un futuro con este chico. Quer\u00edais casaros y formar una familia. So\u00f1abas con una casita bonita con una valla blanca delante. So\u00f1abas con tener hijos con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

So\u00f1abas con compartir una vida con \u00e9l. Y parec\u00eda que \u00e9l quer\u00eda lo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Until one day your entire life and all of your dreams and plans for the future collapsed. Until one day you saw that this was all a lie and that he obviously wasn\u2019t the man he pretended to be.<\/p>\n

Hasta que un d\u00eda, te dej\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Desear\u00edas que hubiera algo que pudieras hacer para volver atr\u00e1s en el tiempo, algo que pudieras hacer para que las cosas volvieran a estar bien.<\/p>\n

Desear\u00edas que hubiera algo que pudieras hacer para borrar todo lo que pas\u00f3 y algo que pudieras hacer para que este hombre volviera a ti.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo quieres recuperar tu antigua vida y deseas que todo esto no sea m\u00e1s que un mal sue\u00f1o del que est\u00e1s a punto de despertar.<\/p>\n

Cuando hizo lo que hizo, pensaste que era lo peor que pod\u00eda pasarte. Pensaste que tu vida hab\u00eda llegado a su fin y que tu existencia hab\u00eda perdido todo su prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es completamente distinta.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que esto es lo \u00faltimo que quieres o\u00edr pero la verdad es que this man doesn\u2019t love you anymore<\/a> o nunca te quiso.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que nunca quiso pasar el resto de su vida contigo.<\/p>\n

Because if he had felt the same way about you and if he had wanted to stay by your side, he would have. He wouldn\u2019t have left you the way he did.
\nHe wouldn\u2019t have walked away from you, without ever thinking about the consequences. Without thinking how this would affect you and without ever giving you a proper explanation for his actions.<\/p>\n

Was he pretending to be something he wasn\u2019t all along? Has he been wearing a mask all this time and he never showed his true colors until now?<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ve\u00eda s\u00f3lo como algo temporal? \u00bfTe minti\u00f3 diciendo que quer\u00eda envejecer contigo y que eras el amor de su vida?<\/p>\n

\u00bfUs\u00f3 tu bondad y tu coraz\u00f3n blando? \u00bfTe am\u00f3 alguna vez o s\u00f3lo disfrut\u00f3 de que le amaras?<\/p>\n

Or did he simply fall out of love with you? Was he a coward who didn\u2019t have the courage to tell you this to your face so he chose to run away from you?<\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019ll never know. But it doesn\u2019t even matter now. Because whatever the truth is, it is more than clear that este hombre nunca te mereci\u00f3<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Because what is important is that you should actually be thankful to this guy for leaving you, even though you don\u2019t see it now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que el que te dejara fue lo mejor que te pudo pasar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEres consciente de que este tipo te salv\u00f3 cuando se alej\u00f3 de ti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfEres consciente de que deber\u00edas alegrarte de que esto haya ocurrido ahora, antes de que fuera demasiado tarde? \u00bfEres consciente de que esquivaste una bala cuando te dej\u00f3?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because if he hadn\u2019t, you would be spending the rest of your life with someone who doesn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00edas compartiendo tu futuro con alguien que nunca te apreciar\u00eda lo suficiente y con alguien a quien nunca le importar\u00edan tus sentimientos.<\/p>\n

You would be spending the rest of your life without love and respect. Without being someone\u2019s priority and with a man who isn\u2019t worthy of you. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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