{"id":22039,"date":"2018-08-20T08:44:49","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T08:44:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22039"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:36:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:36:43","slug":"una-carta-de-agradecimiento-al-hombre-que-vio-mas-alla-de-mi-adiccion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-de-agradecimiento-al-hombre-que-vio-mas-alla-de-mi-adiccion\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta de agradecimiento al hombre que vio m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de mi adicci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tuve un problema de adicci\u00f3n. Vaya, no puedo creer que diga esto tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is that it feels so liberating to say it out loud, taking into account that I\u2019ve spent years trying to run away from it and trying to deny it.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s especially liberating to be able to talk about it in the past tense. To be able to say that I had this problem but that I don\u2019t have it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>But the truth is that I\u2019ve had a problem with addiction for years.<\/p>\n<p>Y s\u00e9 que mucha gente me juzgar\u00e1 cuando se entere de esto. S\u00e9 que muchos dir\u00e1n que me lo merec\u00eda y que mi adicci\u00f3n fue exclusivamente culpa m\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>And I\u2019m not trying to deny it. I\u2019m not trying to run away from responsibility\u2014my addiction really was my fault and I shouldn\u2019t blame anyone for it.<\/p>\n<p>But nobody should judge me for it either. Because nobody knows everything I\u2019ve been through in life.<\/p>\n<p>Nadie sabe qu\u00e9 me llev\u00f3 a esto y nadie sabe qu\u00e9 o qui\u00e9n influy\u00f3 en que me convirtiera en adicto.<\/p>\n<p>Pero no estoy aqu\u00ed para hablarte de eso.<\/p>\n<p>No estoy aqu\u00ed para contarles la historia de c\u00f3mo me convert\u00ed en adicto o c\u00f3mo viv\u00ed mi adicci\u00f3n. Solo voy a decirte que, por suerte, esta parte de mi vida ya ha quedado atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>No estoy aqu\u00ed para hablarte de m\u00ed o de mi vida sin ti. Estoy aqu\u00ed para hablarte de ti.<\/p>\n<p>Because I would never be the person I am today if it wasn\u2019t for you. Because I probably wouldn\u2019t even be alive if it wasn\u2019t for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Estoy aqu\u00ed para hablarle de la manera <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-hombre-salvado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">me salvaste<\/a>sin intentarlo nunca.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u00f3mo me ayudaste a resurgir de mis cenizas y c\u00f3mo eres responsable de que mi vida haya vuelto a empezar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Estoy aqu\u00ed para darle las gracias, aunque ninguna palabra podr\u00eda ser suficiente por todo lo que hizo por m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Puede que te sorprendan estas palabras porque nunca hemos hablado de esto.<\/p>\n<p>Quiz\u00e1 te sorprenda que t\u00fa, de entre todas las personas que hicieron todo lo posible por ayudarme, seas el responsable de mi recuperaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Pues la verdad es que s\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que te hace destacar es el hecho de que fuiste el \u00fanico que vio m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de mi adicci\u00f3n. El \u00fanico que vio m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de mi crisis, m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de mis depresiones y mi ansiedad.<\/p>\n<p>I am not saying that you acted like I wasn\u2019t an addict because you were very much aware of my problem. But you didn\u2019t see me through only my addiction.<\/p>\n<p>You were the only one who never defined me by my addiction and who didn\u2019t see me as an addict, although that was exactly what I was.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, me viste como una persona, con todas mis cualidades e imperfecciones. Me ve\u00edas como una persona que ten\u00eda un problema de adicci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y t\u00fa fuiste el \u00fanico que me demostr\u00f3 que yo era mucho m\u00e1s que un adicto. Que ten\u00eda mucho m\u00e1s que ofrecer y que ten\u00eda mi valor, que no estaba en absoluto relacionado con mi adicci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fuiste el \u00fanico que consigui\u00f3 despertar a la persona que era antes de que mi adicci\u00f3n se apoderara de m\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The only one who talked to me about other things besides my addiction\u2014about my interests and about my future plans.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ahora me doy cuenta de que lo hac\u00edas porque eras el \u00fanico que cre\u00eda que yo ten\u00eda futuro.<\/p>\n<p>Because you were the only one who believed in me, even when everyone else, including myself, gave up on the possibility that I\u2019d ever recover.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora me doy cuenta de que eras la \u00fanica que estaba dispuesta a aceptarme como era realmente, aunque eso significara aceptar mi adicci\u00f3n como parte de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora s\u00e9 que fuiste el \u00fanico que consigui\u00f3 cambiarme, s\u00f3lo porque t\u00fa nunca lo intentaste.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ahora s\u00e9 que fuiste el \u00fanico que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/relationship-didnt-work-didnt-love-real\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">amaba a mi verdadero yo<\/a>. And that is something I\u2019ll always be thankful for.<\/strong>   <!--codes_iframe-->  <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had a problem with addiction. Wow, I can\u2019t believe I am saying this so easily. The truth is that it feels so liberating to say it out loud, taking into account that I\u2019ve spent years trying to run away from it and trying to deny it. 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