{"id":22078,"date":"2018-08-20T12:00:33","date_gmt":"2018-08-20T12:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22078"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:44:08","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:44:08","slug":"10-preguntas-que-nunca-debes-hacer-sobre-el-ex-de-tu-pareja-y-por-que","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-preguntas-que-nunca-debes-hacer-sobre-el-ex-de-tu-pareja-y-por-que\/","title":{"rendered":"10 preguntas que nunca debes hacer sobre la ex de tu pareja y por qu\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hay cosas que es muy importante repasar sobre tus relaciones pasadas porque hay cosas que pueden ayudar a tu pareja y a ti a tener la mejor relaci\u00f3n posible.<\/p>\n

Saber por qu\u00e9 su pareja rompi\u00f3 con su ex<\/a> and what made him wish he never dated her are two very important things because in this way you won’t be making those mistakes.<\/p>\n

But, to be honest, there are so many things that you shouldn’t be asking because they can only be destructive for the both of you.<\/p>\n

Si haces alguna de estas preguntas sabiendo que no deber\u00edas saber la respuesta, puedes acabar destruyendo tu autoestima y haciendo que tu pareja se sienta mal consigo misma.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que saber que ahora est\u00e1 contigo y que todo lo que ocurri\u00f3 en el pasado debe quedarse ah\u00ed, donde debe estar.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, para que nunca cometas los mismos errores que yo, estas son las preguntas que nunca debes hacer a tu pareja sobre sus ex<\/a> y todas las razones.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCon qu\u00e9 frecuencia manten\u00edas relaciones sexuales?<\/h2>\n

Why would you even want to know that? It’s something very personal and very intimate that you shouldn’t know.<\/p>\n

Si su ex ten\u00eda un deseo sexual mayor o menor que el tuyo, puede hacer que salgas de tu zona de confort y te entren ganas de tener tanto sexo como ten\u00edan.<\/a><\/p>\n

What if they didn’t have sex at all? It’s just not something you would want to know because it influences your own perceptions and your own needs.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSus tetas son m\u00e1s grandes que las m\u00edas?<\/h2>\n

Esto tambi\u00e9n se puede aplicar a todas las dem\u00e1s partes del cuerpo. Saber si sus tetas eran m\u00e1s grandes (o su culo) s\u00f3lo hace que te compares con ella y eso no es sano.<\/p>\n

Debemos ser conscientes de que hay tantas formas corporales diferentes que es imposible que todas seamos iguales.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, \u00bfy si su culo fuera m\u00e1s grande? \u00bfQu\u00e9 puedes hacer al respecto?<\/p>\n

Just don’t ask this question.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe lo has dicho?<\/h2>\n

Cuando te est\u00e1 contando una historia importante de su vida, deber\u00edas estar escuchando en lugar de pensar si tambi\u00e9n se la cont\u00f3 a ella.<\/p>\n

Si es algo muy importante para \u00e9l, es muy probable que se lo haya dicho. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 querr\u00edas o\u00edrselo decir?<\/p>\n

Sabes que te doler\u00e1 si no eres la primera a la que se lo ha contado, pero es muy probable que ella tampoco haya sido la primera.<\/p>\n

So don’t stress about that. It’s not worth it.<\/a><\/p>\n

Did you tell her, \u201cI love you\u201d?<\/h2>\n

He cometido este error demasiadas veces. Siempre he preguntado si se quer\u00edan y si en alg\u00fan momento de la relaci\u00f3n se lo hab\u00edan dicho.<\/p>\n

Pero para serte sincero, no hace falta que lo sepamos.<\/p>\n

Incluso si la amaba, ahora est\u00e1 contigo, \u00a1as\u00ed que c\u00e9ntrate en eso!<\/p>\n

\u00bfMe comparas con ella?<\/h2>\n

Chances are that you are the only one in the relationship comparing yourself to her. Sometimes, she might pop up in his mind but it’s only there to remind him of how special you are.<\/p>\n

Pero si empiezas a pensar en eso mientras te est\u00e1 besando entonces las cosas se pueden poner dolorosas en un minuto.<\/p>\n

Don’t stop yourself from enjoying wonderful moments with him simply because you are obsessed with how he might be thinking of her today.<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe hizo llorar?<\/h2>\n

It’s really hard for a man to admit that he got emotional to the point of crying so if he did, it would be a very vulnerable topic to talk about.<\/p>\n

They probably split up in a very dramatic manner, so don’t make it worse for him by reminding him of that.<\/p>\n

\u00bfHizo realidad tus fantas\u00edas?<\/h2>\n

Todos somos muy conscientes de que los hombres tienen sus mentes retorcidas, as\u00ed que puede que se te ocurra preguntarle si hizo realidad esas fantas\u00edas.<\/p>\n

Le aconsejo que no pregunte.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY si dice que s\u00ed? \u00bfPodr\u00eda volver a mirarle a los ojos si supiera lo que hicieron?<\/p>\n

You should be turning your relationship into something unique and authentic. But that can’t happen if you’re trying to do the same things she did.<\/p>\n

\u00bfA tus amigos les gustaba m\u00e1s?<\/h2>\n

No matter whether his friends do or don’t like you that much, you shouldn’t ask how it was with her.
\nMaybe she was a tomboy who they connected with really well over hockey? It’s a random thought but it could be true.<\/p>\n

If his friends liked her more, it doesn’t mean that he does. So, don’t worry about it.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPensaste en casarte con ella?<\/h2>\n

Si era una relaci\u00f3n seria, probablemente s\u00ed. Puede que incluso planearon su boda.<\/a><\/p>\n

But it’s all over now, so why does that mean anything to you?<\/p>\n

\u00bfMe has llevado a lugares donde fuiste con ella?<\/h2>\n

Restaurants, cafes and so on shouldn’t be a problem. He might just like the food or coffee there so don’t stress out about it.<\/p>\n

The world is a huge place to explore and that’s why you will have a much greater chance of experiencing the world with him than she ever did.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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