{"id":22106,"date":"2020-08-23T07:52:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T07:52:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22106"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:42:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:42:07","slug":"si-le-echas-de-menos-y-sabes-que-no-deberias-lee-esto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-le-echas-de-menos-y-sabes-que-no-deberias-lee-esto\/","title":{"rendered":"Si Le Echas De Menos Y Sabes Que No Deber\u00edas, Lee Esto"},"content":{"rendered":"

A\u00fan le echo de menos, a\u00fan deambula por el fondo de mi mente como un hu\u00e9sped no invitado y no puedo evitarlo. Est\u00e1 bien cuando estoy despierta.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier during the day but when the night comes, when I\u2019m left to the mercy of my own thoughts before I go to sleep, he pops in and there is no way I can ahuyentarlo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

There is no way to shut my mind down and find that small part of peace without him that I\u2019m craving so badly.<\/p>\n

So many times I\u2019ve seen a complete stranger on the street and the color of his shirt reminded me of the color of his eyes.<\/p>\n

El olor de un extra\u00f1o inocente me devuelve a los d\u00edas en que \u00e9ramos felices. Todo eso me hace pensar. Todo eso me hace a\u00f1orar el pasado.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m occupying my days just to forget him. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m doing all things possible just to not remember his face, his smell, his walk or his talk. I\u2019m doing everything just to not miss him because I know I shouldn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know I shouldn\u2019t but somehow I can\u2019t not.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

And it doesn\u2019t make any sense really. I should hate him. I should hate the very thought of him, his presence, his everything.<\/p>\n

Y, sin embargo, siempre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed, en el fondo de mi mente, esperando a que derribe mis muros y le deje entrar en mis pensamientos.<\/p>\n

No one really gets it. No one knows how I feel. I just can\u2019t let anyone know. After everything he\u2019s done to me, I have no right to le echo de menos<\/a>S\u00f3lo un loco har\u00eda eso y yo lo hago. As\u00ed que mantengo la boca cerrada y me duele solo.<\/p>\n

Tengo que guard\u00e1rmelo para m\u00ed. Tengo que quedarme callada y pasar por este dolor de ya no tenerlo todo para m\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard now to let go of him. I know that nothing ever goes away overnight but I don\u2019t get just one thing.<\/p>\n

The rational part of me keeps yelling to forget about him. It keeps reminding me what horrible things he did to me. It keeps telling me that he never changed, even after so many chances given and that this time it wouldn\u2019t be any different.<\/p>\n

But the emotional part of me, the \u2018insane\u2019 part, keeps bringing him back. It keeps showing flashes of his smiling face. It keeps provoking empathy and craves him back, although it shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

La verdad es que s\u00f3lo recuerdo las cosas buenas.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Recuerdo c\u00f3mo me hac\u00eda re\u00edr tanto que me dol\u00eda el est\u00f3mago. Recuerdo c\u00f3mo se pon\u00eda en rid\u00edculo solo para arrancarme una peque\u00f1a sonrisa.<\/p>\n

Recuerdo todas las locuras que hac\u00edamos juntos, lo felices que \u00e9ramos sin una sola preocupaci\u00f3n en el mundo.<\/p>\n

Cre\u00edamos que el amor era as\u00ed de sencillo. Hab\u00eda problemas y decidimos ignorarlos. Hicimos como si no pasara nada hasta que volvieron a surgir y una vez fue demasiado.<\/p>\n

Todas las cosas que escond\u00edamos bajo la alfombra volvieron y nos golpearon en la cara. No hab\u00eda vuelta atr\u00e1s.<\/em><\/p>\n

Un d\u00eda lo ten\u00eda, y al siguiente, era un completo extra\u00f1o. Se hab\u00eda ido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And I can\u2019t force myself to forget him. I can\u2019t stop missing him. And I know I should.<\/em><\/p>\n

Underneath it all, I know that he doesn\u2019t deserve to be missed. I know that I\u2019m a complete idiot for being stuck in those happy memories we had together. I know that I\u2019m the only one.<\/p>\n

Mientras me revuelvo en la cama por la noche intentando apartarle de mis pensamientos, s\u00e9 que duerme perfectamente quieto.<\/p>\n

I know that he doesn\u2019t miss me and that he doesn\u2019t think about me.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Then, I\u2019m angry at myself. I\u2019m angry because I\u2019m stuck on him and he let me go a long time ago.<\/em><\/p>\n

He was the one who called it quits on us. He was the one who didn\u2019t want to fight anymore.<\/p>\n

I wanted us to work but he didn\u2019t care enough to try.<\/p>\n

I kept giving him the time and space to turn things around but he didn\u2019t see it that way. I guess I was just something casual he ran into along the way and I thought we would last much longer.<\/p>\n

Me equivoqu\u00e9.<\/p>\n

But you know what I\u2019ve learned?<\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather miss him the way I remember him. I\u2019d rather miss the good sides of him.<\/p>\n

So, I know it\u2019s for the best because I know that I would be miserable if we had stayed together.<\/p>\n

So I\u2019d rather miss him than be with him.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Still I miss him, still he wanders around at the back of my mind like an uninvited guest and I can\u2019t help myself. It\u2019s fine when I\u2019m awake. It\u2019s easier during the day but when the night comes, when I\u2019m left to the mercy of my own thoughts before I go to sleep, he pops…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":107882,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/If-You-Miss-Him-And-You-Know-You-Shouldnt-Read-This.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22106","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22106"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22106\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22106"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22106"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22106"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}