Primero dijimos amistad; el resto no es tan importante. Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo puede doler as\u00ed algo sin importancia? \u00bfPuede la amistad romperte el coraz\u00f3n?<\/p>\r\n
It can\u2019t. It shouldn\u2019t. But it did. Something that I called all sorts of names \u2013 friends, more than a friend less than a boyfriend, no strings attached, amigos con derecho a roce<\/a>, etc. \u2013 but it turned out to be nothing more than a situationship .<\/p>\r\n A situationship that made such a mess out of my life and emotions that I still feel lost. It’s not something I wanted to go through and it’s not something you should have to either.<\/p>\r\n So, continue reading below and you\u2019ll get to the bottom of what situationship really is so you\u2019ll know just how to avoid it.<\/p>\r\n You know you\u2019re more than a booty call to him. It’s way deeper than that.<\/p>\r\n Compartes tus pensamientos con \u00e9l. Te abres, le dejas entrar. Conf\u00edas en \u00e9l y \u00e9l conf\u00eda en ti. Os re\u00eds de las mismas tonter\u00edas. Cocin\u00e1is juntos. Os acurruc\u00e1is en el sof\u00e1 y veis Netflix .<\/p>\r\n Vives para esos peque\u00f1os momentos de pura felicidad.<\/p>\r\n Sadly, they come with a price. By spending time together, by sharing moments, you create memories that can never be forgotten. You create memories that\u2019ll hurt so much when it all goes down in flames.<\/p>\r\n And, it will go down in flames. It can\u2019t be avoided. It will burn to the ground without the chance of ever growing into a real relationship .<\/p>\r\n Every time you hear them introducing you to somebody as their friend, it\u2019ll hurt. The same pain will be present when you have to say he is just a friend, or your best friend, when you want to scream he is more than that.<\/p>\r\n You\u2019ll feel isolated from his life. You\u2019ll start to wonder why you aren\u2019t good enough to be his girlfriend, why you don\u2019t know any of his friends, why you have a life with him that only exists between the four walls of your studio apartment.<\/p>\r\n You never know where you stand with him regarding anything. It’s all about guessing and interpreting his actions and feelings.<\/p>\r\n Future is a taboo topic you never bring up. Your feelings stay hidden. You dodge DTR (define the relationship) talk like it’s toxic.<\/p>\r\n Your head is full of questions \u2013 questions you\u2019re too afraid to ask<\/a> porque eso podr\u00eda significar perderlo por completo.<\/p>\r\n Por ahora, te conformar\u00edas con cualquier cosa antes que vivir sin \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n For now, you will stay, but little by little you\u2019ll get tired of it. You\u2019ll hate the situationship you\u2019re in.<\/p>\r\n No matter what lies you try to tell it, it won\u2019t believe you. A heart doesn\u2019t listen to reason. Your emotions awaken, no matter how much you want them to stay dormant.<\/p>\r\n Te abrazas, te beso <\/a> , you make love, you hold hands, you hug, you get used to texting daily, you even leave a toothbrush at each other’s place\u2026 Your feelings grow.<\/p>\r\n You bond. You do all of the things only couples do, but you\u2019re not in a real relationship . You fall more and more for them with every second. It\u2019s unavoidable.<\/p>\r\n Tu coraz\u00f3n reconoce una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica, pero la realidad de la pseudo-relaci\u00f3n en la que te encontraste lo est\u00e1 haciendo pedazos poco a poco.<\/p>\r\n You\u2019ve sworn off all other men even if you are still “officially” single. You know you\u2019re not in an official relationship; there\u2019s no definite label .<\/p>\r\n The signs are right there: he\u2019s never called you his girlfriend, there\u2019s no trace of the two of you being an item on either of your social media accounts, and what\u2019s more, you agreed to keep what you two have a secret.<\/p>\r\n You know you don’t owe him loyalty. You know you should keep your options open. But you can’t force yourself to even look at other men because you are too hooked on him.<\/p>\r\n You have everything with him. You have his attention and affection, you have relationship benefits, but at the end of the day, you know you\u2019re not in a committed relationship .<\/p>\r\nIt’s more than just a plain hookup<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\nIt’s an undefined relationship you’ve accidentally fallen into<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\nYou have real emotions for someone you\u2019re not in a real relationship with<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\nThe heart gets attached even if you agree that you are “just friends”<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\nIt’s all unofficial<\/a>pero sigues siendo leal<\/h2>\r\n
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<\/p>\r\nYou will want more and he won\u2019t be able to give you that<\/h2>\r\n
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