{"id":22153,"date":"2020-09-23T11:33:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T11:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22153"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:41:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:41:29","slug":"si-tienes-que-renunciar-a-estas-cosas-por-el-no-es-el-indicado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-tienes-que-renunciar-a-estas-cosas-por-el-no-es-el-indicado\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tienes que renunciar a estas cosas por \u00e9l, no es el indicado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We do some crazy things when we are in love. Don&#8217;t we?<\/p>\n<p>El amor que sentimos nos consume hasta tal punto que a veces olvidamos lo que queremos decir porque nos perdemos en el momento.<\/p>\n<p>Pero ese mismo amor tambi\u00e9n puede hacernos ciegos ante muchas cosas. Intentamos encontrar formas de justificar el comportamiento de nuestra pareja y perdonamos con demasiada facilidad.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, damos mucho de nosotros mismos sin darnos cuenta hasta que es demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we all have to realize that, as women, we should never give up on certain things in our life simply to please someone else.<\/p>\n<p>Aprender\u00e1 que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/i-chased-you-but-now-i-see-you-were-not-worth-it\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nadie es digno de que te rindas<\/a> estas cosas.<\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Tu libertad<\/p>\n<p>This is the most obvious one but you wouldn&#8217;t believe how many women I have come to meet who were completely devoted to their boyfriend to the point where they didn\u2019t have their freedom anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Estoy seguro de que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n acabas de pensar en uno de tus amigos.<\/p>\n<p>A man shouldn&#8217;t pressure you into thinking that a certain piece of clothing isn&#8217;t &#8216;allowed&#8217; or that you can&#8217;t talk to your guy friends or co-workers who happen to be male.<\/p>\n<p>You have the right to do whatever you want, as long as you are not hurting anyone. So don&#8217;t give up your freedom.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123492 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer sentada en la hierba con una hoja en la mano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-holding-a-leaf-in-her-hand-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline\">Su<strong> sue\u00f1os<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todos tenemos sue\u00f1os y deseos que esperamos hacer realidad alg\u00fan d\u00eda. Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 nos permitimos renunciar a ellos?<\/p>\n<p>Un hombre que te quiere de verdad nunca te pedir\u00eda que renunciaras a algo que quieres conseguir o a algo en lo que crees.<\/p>\n<p>Si te quiere de verdad, lo entender\u00e1 y<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/novio-no-trata-con-respeto\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> respetarte<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline\">Sus amigos y familiares<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez esto no haga falta decirlo, pero nunca dejes que un hombre te convenza de que tienes que renunciar a tu familia y amigos por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Esas personas deber\u00edan estar antes que \u00e9l en tu escala de importancia, \u00a1porque han existido durante mucho m\u00e1s tiempo que \u00e9l!<\/p>\n<p>Esas son las personas que te comprenden y te quieren incondicionalmente, y no hay hombre en este mundo que pueda pedirte algo tan est\u00fapido como renunciar a alguien muy importante para ti.<\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline\"><strong>Sus necesidades<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yes, it&#8217;s the truth. Women give themselves away too much in relationships and we are all aware of that.<\/p>\n<p>Por ello, debemos darnos cuenta de que nadie deber\u00eda sacrificar sus propios deseos o necesidades para satisfacer los de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Que renuncies a tus propios deseos y necesidades significa que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n con un narcisista que s\u00f3lo ve la relaci\u00f3n como una forma de conseguir lo que quiera.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123493 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer sentada junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/a-woman-sitting-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a1Eres mucho mejor que eso!<\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline\"><strong>Su moral<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Todo el mundo tiene su propio c\u00f3digo moral, al que debemos atenernos pase lo que pase. Si tu hombre intenta que renuncies al tuyo, yo me replantear\u00eda de verdad vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>What if you decided that you want to stay a virgin until marriage and you don&#8217;t want to be touched before then?<\/p>\n<p>Why would you ever want to give up that moral code of yours for someone who isn&#8217;t even worthy of that one special moment?<\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline\"><strong>Tu felicidad<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>El amor puede hacernos realmente ciegos, porque acabamos viendo s\u00f3lo con el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, \u00bfy si tu relaci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo es t\u00f3xica para ti y lo \u00fanico que haces es llorar durante d\u00edas por su culpa?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s obviously not the relationship for you.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let yourself get stuck in an unhappy relationship just because it&#8217;s convenient.<\/p>\n<p class=\"numbered-headline\"><strong>Su poder de decisi\u00f3n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever, and I really mean EVER, let your partner make decisions for you.<\/p>\n<p>Usted es un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/7-cosas-que-debes-saber-sobre-una-mujer-fuerte-e-independiente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">persona fuerte e independiente<\/a> y sabes lo que quieres conseguir en la vida. Si quiere formar parte de ello, hazle ver que de ninguna manera vas a dejar que tome todas las decisiones por ti.<\/p>\n<p>You should be able to always make decisions for yourself, no matter how close you and your partner are. But this doesn&#8217;t apply to decisions that involve the both of you!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123490 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si tienes que renunciar a estas cosas por \u00e9l, no es el indicado\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We do some crazy things when we are in love. Don&#8217;t we? We become so consumed by the love that we feel, to the point where we sometimes even forget what we want to say because we get lost in the moment. But that same love can also make us blind to a lot of&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":123489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/If-You-Have-To-Give-Up-These-Things-For-Him-He-Is-Not-The-One-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22153","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22153"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22153\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22153"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22153"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22153"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}