{"id":22162,"date":"2020-08-23T11:19:18","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T11:19:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22162"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:29:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:29:35","slug":"lo-que-se-siente-cuando-tu-casi-amor-elige-a-otra-persona","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lo-que-se-siente-cuando-tu-casi-amor-elige-a-otra-persona\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 se siente cuando tu casi amor elige a otra persona"},"content":{"rendered":"

'\u00bfQu\u00e9 ha cambiado?' es el pensamiento que resuena en tu mente y no puedes acallar. Hace s\u00f3lo unos meses, no estaba preparado para una relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t want to hear the word commitment, let alone fully be in one.<\/p>\n

However, he is ready now. He is ready for it all with her, like he never was with you and it\u2019s making you nauseous just thinking about it. It just doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

Quieres una explicaci\u00f3n. Intentas entenderlo todo, pero siempre fracasas.<\/p>\n

The questions keep multiplying but the answers are what\u2019s missing and you seem unable to find them.<\/p>\n

You feel like you have been doubled-crossed and it\u2019s making you mad.<\/b><\/p>\n

You spent so much time with him, giving him all the boyfriend benefits and never once did you hear him call you his girlfriend. He wasn\u2019t en etiquetas <\/a> , he just wasn\u2019t that type.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

De repente, no tiene problemas con las etiquetas. No tiene problema en publicar fotos con ella en las redes sociales. No tiene problema en cogerla de la mano y gritar que es suya.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know what to do or how to behave. <\/b><\/p>\n

Sientes que deber\u00edas llamarle y desahogar tu rabia y decepci\u00f3n. Pero algo te lo impide. Nunca has sido oficialmente nada. No tienes derecho a reproch\u00e1rselo.<\/p>\n

Quieres enviarle un largo mensaje, exigi\u00e9ndole una explicaci\u00f3n, dici\u00e9ndole lo mal que te sientes y lo mucho que te duele esta situaci\u00f3n. Pero antes de darle al bot\u00f3n de enviar, cambias de opini\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve to know how much damage his behavior has caused. He doesn\u2019t need to know that he has the power to hurt you that much.<\/p>\n

Recuerdas todos los momentos importantes que pasaste con \u00e9l. <\/b><\/p>\n

The memories just don\u2019t leave you be. You have this vivid picture in your mind of every time you were close, of every nice thing he did, of every kiss and every hug and you are making things worse on yourself.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You go even further and analyze his texts and every word he ever mumbled. It\u2019s like you are in self-destruct mode and you have no power to put a stop to it.<\/p>\n

Intentas encontrar sentido donde no lo hay. <\/b><\/p>\n

What does she have that you don\u2019t? What is it inside of her that made him change his mind? What made him want a real relationship with her when he wanted something casual with you?<\/p>\n

You were there for him. You did everything right. You didn\u2019t suffocate him, you gave him space, you were never pegajoso <\/a> and he still chose her over you. It just doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/p>\n

Sientes que ella ocup\u00f3 tu lugar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Te sientes como si te hubieran robado. Despu\u00e9s de todo el tiempo que pasaste con \u00e9l, t\u00fa eras a quien deber\u00eda haberse llevado de vacaciones, t\u00fa deber\u00edas haber sido la que sonr\u00ede mientras te besa la mejilla en esa foto.<\/p>\n

You feel like the life you were entitled to was taken away from right under your nose and you can\u2019t do anything about it. You feel powerless and deprived. Sadness consumes you.<\/p>\n

Finalmente, llega ese momento de claridad. <\/b><\/p>\n

You realize that it couldn\u2019t be you. Your place was never beside him because he never made room for you. He always held you at arm’s length.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Siempre te dio migajas, pero nunca todo. Nunca dijo que tendr\u00edais una relaci\u00f3n de verdad. S\u00f3lo se apunt\u00f3 a casi. S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda un peque\u00f1o papel en tu vida y nunca un papel principal.<\/p>\n

Sabes que esto ten\u00eda que pasar y que no ten\u00eda nada que ver contigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t blame him. You don\u2019t blame that other woman. Lastly, you don\u2019t blame yourself either. Things happened because you let them happen. He was something you needed.<\/p>\n

He was someone you needed in that chapter of your life. But it\u2019s time now to write some new ones. He made you see that you were never an almost relationship type of girl.<\/p>\n

Te hizo darte cuenta de que necesitas m\u00e1s. Que necesitas a alguien que est\u00e9 seguro de querer estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Alguien que te tome de la mano y te lleve a su vida sin que tengas que ped\u00edrselo.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Hay claridad y paz en tu vida que necesitabas desde hace tanto tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t even realize how that unsteady relationship you had with him was bad for you. You never knew where you stood.<\/p>\n

Estabas agobiado.<\/p>\n

Usted sigue esperando <\/a> para que las cosas fueran m\u00e1s reales. Quer\u00edas m\u00e1s. No ten\u00edas paz y la felicidad era una noci\u00f3n que cambiaba debido a los d\u00edas buenos y malos que pasabas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You are calm at last. The hoping has stopped. You know that you were never meant to be. You know he wasn\u2019t right for you.<\/p>\n

You know that it\u2019s up to you to create your happiness. Now you know that next time you enter into a relationship, it will be real and never again almost.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Qu\u00e9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u2018What changed?\u2019 is the thought that\u2019s echoing in your mind and cannot be silenced. Just a few months back, he wasn\u2019t ready for a relationship. He didn\u2019t want to hear the word commitment, let alone fully be in one. However, he is ready now. He is ready for it all with her, like he never…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":110504,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22162","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/What-It-Feels-Like-When-Your-Almost-Love-Chooses-Someone-Else-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22162","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22162"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22162\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110504"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}