{"id":22171,"date":"2020-08-23T11:48:27","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T11:48:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22171"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:27:15","slug":"esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-aceptar-la-disculpa-que-nunca-recibiste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esto-es-lo-que-se-siente-al-aceptar-la-disculpa-que-nunca-recibiste\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como se siente uno al aceptar las disculpas que nunca recibi\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nunca te has considerado perfecto. Siempre has sabido que ten\u00edas muchos defectos e imperfecciones.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019ve always known that sometimes, you make mistakes.<\/p>\n

That sometimes you hurt people without even wanting to and that you probably even broke someone\u2019s heart without the intention of doing so.<\/p>\n

Pero incluso cuando haces algo da\u00f1ino, tienes la capacidad de darte cuenta despu\u00e9s. Y te sientes fatal contigo mismo hasta que haces las cosas bien.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve always been someone who knew when it was time to apologize and to do whatever it took just to make the other person understand how really sorry you were.<\/p>\n

And at the same time, you\u2019ve always tried to encontrar la fuerza para perdonar<\/a> a los que te hicieron da\u00f1o. Y cuando eras m\u00e1s joven, asum\u00edas que todo el mundo era como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Asum\u00edas que la gente nunca ten\u00eda intenci\u00f3n de hacerte da\u00f1o e incluso cuando lo hac\u00edan, lo hac\u00edan sin pensar en las consecuencias de sus actos.<\/p>\n

Pero la vida te ha ense\u00f1ado otra cosa. Te ha ense\u00f1ado que no todo el mundo es como t\u00fa. Que simplemente existen personas mezquinas y malvadas cuyo \u00fanico objetivo es causar dolor emocional a los dem\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Que hay gente que disfruta viendo a los dem\u00e1s desgraciados y que disfruta haciendo llorar a los dem\u00e1s por ellos.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ve learned that there are people who refuse to take responsibility for their actions, even when they are clearly wrong.<\/p>\n

That there are people who wouldn\u2019t admit that they were wrong, even if it was the last thing they did.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve learned that there are people who don\u2019t care if they do you some harm. And people who simply don\u2019t want to or don\u2019t know how to say they are sorry, even if they are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La vida te ha ense\u00f1ado que, a veces, s\u00f3lo tienes que aceptar las disculpas que nunca recibiste. Pero nadie te ha dicho nunca c\u00f3mo hacerlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo dejar de aferrarse a algunas experiencias dolorosas del pasado. How to forgive someone who doesn\u2019t want to be forgiven.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How to make yourself forget everything you\u2019ve been through when the person who has done you harm never showed the slightest sign of regret.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo dejar de estar enjaulado por la amargura que esa persona te hizo sentir cuando te decepcion\u00f3 o abandon\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

How to set yourself free from all the hatred you feel, although you know you shouldn\u2019t feel it. How to really let go of the resentment that has been eating you up from the inside out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And how to do all of this when you know very well that this person doesn\u2019t deserve anything good from you. When you know that the last thing they deserve is your forgiveness.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014I am not advising you to forget about everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

Y definitivamente no te estoy aconsejando que permitas que esas personas que te han hecho da\u00f1o vuelvan a tu vida porque eso significar\u00eda que les est\u00e1s dando permiso para hacerte da\u00f1o de nuevo.<\/p>\n

But you shouldn\u2019t let this define you. You shouldn\u2019t let resentment and el dolor te define<\/a> because that would mean they\u2019ve won.<\/p>\n

Eso significar\u00eda que todo lo que te hicieron fue fruct\u00edfero y que consiguieron hacerte prisionero de sus palabras y acciones.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And that is why you shouldn\u2019t have doubts about forgiving anyone who has hurt you in the past. But don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not telling you to do it for their sake.<\/p>\n

Te digo que lo hagas por el bien de tu salud emocional y mental. Que lo hagas por ti y por nadie m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9sta es la \u00fanica manera de liberarte. La \u00fanica manera de aceptar todo lo que te ha pasado pero dej\u00e1ndolo en el pasado, donde pertenece.<\/strong><\/p>\n

La \u00fanica manera de dejar de permitir que estas cosas da\u00f1inas y personas a\u00fan m\u00e1s da\u00f1inas del pasado tengan un impacto en tu presente y en tu futuro.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica manera de cortar realmente con ellos y que pierdan un lugar en tu mente, tu coraz\u00f3n y tu vida.<\/p>\n

Because let\u2019s face it\u2014all of this consumes you even when you\u2019ve physically removed yourself from those who have caused you pain.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the only way to dejar ir la negatividad y seguir adelante<\/a> con tu vida y la \u00fanica forma de derrotarlos de una vez por todas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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