{"id":22181,"date":"2020-08-23T12:16:23","date_gmt":"2020-08-23T12:16:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22181"},"modified":"2022-01-25T09:08:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-25T09:08:42","slug":"despues-de-que-me-rompio-me-hizo-no-disponible-para-los-demas-tambien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/despues-de-que-me-rompio-me-hizo-no-disponible-para-los-demas-tambien\/","title":{"rendered":"Despu\u00e9s de que me rompiera, tambi\u00e9n me hizo indisponible para los dem\u00e1s"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m sure you’ve heard stories about girls who change emotionally after they get hurt. About girls who become guarded and more careful.<\/p>\n

Sobre chicas que dejan de creer en el amor y que se convierten en asustado de amar<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard stories about girls who become heartless after they have their heart broken.<\/p>\n

Que construyen muros a su alrededor y que se blindan despu\u00e9s de que alguien a quien sol\u00edan amar los derribara por completo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard stories about chicas que se vuelven inaccesibles<\/a> para otros despu\u00e9s de que ciertos tipos los hagan pedazos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bueno, si lo has hecho, lo sabes todo sobre m\u00ed porque soy una de esas chicas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Soy una de las chicas que am\u00f3 al hombre equivocado<\/a> con todo mi coraz\u00f3n. Una chica que le dio todo lo que ten\u00eda y una chica que pens\u00f3 que \u00e9l la merec\u00eda.<\/p>\n

I was a girl who put the effort into a relationship which had no future and a girl who was ready to sacrifice herself for this man\u2019s sake.<\/p>\n

Pero tambi\u00e9n fui una chica a la que hirieron. Una chica a la que se dio por sentada y cuyas vulnerabilidades y amor se utilizaron en su contra.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And after I finally ended things with this man, I changed drastically. I stopped believing in people and I thought everyone\u2019s only intention was to hurt me and to romperme el coraz\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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I started thinking that all men were the same and I wasn\u2019t even ready to give some guy a chance because I thought I would just end up heartbroken, like I was in the past.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que estaba dispuesta a hacer lo que hiciera falta para impedirlo. Levant\u00e9 la guardia y constru\u00ed gruesos muros emocionales alrededor de mi coraz\u00f3n, lo bastante fuertes como para mantener alejados a todos los intrusos.<\/p>\n

And yes, I\u2019ve become an mujer emocionalmente no disponible<\/a>. Or some might say that I\u2019ve become emotionally damaged as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, probablemente este modo de vida me ha privado de mucho amor.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve probably missed out on meeting some extraordinary people and it is possible that I\u2019ve failed to let in some amazing guys who deserved to have a chance.<\/p>\n

Y podr\u00eda decirse que esto no tiene nada de bueno.<\/p>\n

But the truth is that although I\u2019ve become unavailable for others to love me, I\u2019ve also guarded myself from every possible emotional pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve also become unavailable for anyone else to hurt me. I\u2019ve prevented my heart from getting broken again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve saved myself from any potential tears and disappointments. I\u2019ve saved myself from wasting my time and energy on someone who isn\u2019t worthy of me lifting a finger.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve saved myself from getting my hopes up and planning a future with someone who has been manipulating me all along. From falling in love with someone who just wants to get into my pants.<\/p>\n

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I\u2019ve saved myself from being emotionally or maltrato f\u00edsico<\/a>de ser enga\u00f1ada y de ser humillada.<\/p>\n

De ser culpado por cada peque\u00f1a cosa que sale mal y de que alguien me diga que no soy digno de su amor o atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve saved myself from being taken advantage of, from being led on and from being taken for granted.<\/p>\n

De preguntarme por qu\u00e9 un hombre al que amo tanto nunca puede amarme lo suficiente y por qu\u00e9 nunca puede ser s\u00f3lo m\u00edo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve saved myself from hours and hours of staring at a blank phone screen, waiting for him to call me or to answer my text.<\/p>\n

From falling asleep all dressed up, waiting for him to pick me up. I\u2019ve saved myself numerous sleepless nights and from an ocean of tears.<\/p>\n

De rogarle a un hombre que me elija y me ame. De rogarle que se comprometa conmigo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve saved myself from questioning my worth and wondering why I was never enough. From asking myself if there was something more I could have done to make the man I love love me more.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t know if that was the best thing I could have done. I don\u2019t know if I could have chosen another way to deal with my abandonment trauma and with my heartbreak.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero lo que s\u00ed s\u00e9 es que era lo \u00fanico que sab\u00eda hacer. Y que, por aquel entonces, ve\u00eda este camino como la \u00fanica forma de curarme y de ayudarme a m\u00ed misma.<\/strong> <\/p>\n

\"Despu\u00e9s<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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