{"id":22291,"date":"2020-08-27T12:06:47","date_gmt":"2020-08-27T12:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22291"},"modified":"2022-01-09T19:42:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T19:42:48","slug":"5-movimientos-de-poder-que-una-mujer-deberia-hacer-si-quiere-una-relacion-de-verdad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-movimientos-de-poder-que-una-mujer-deberia-hacer-si-quiere-una-relacion-de-verdad\/","title":{"rendered":"5 movimientos de poder que una mujer deber\u00eda hacer si quiere una relaci\u00f3n de verdad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t you just wish you were born in an era of that old-fashioned love? It seems like it was all easier back then. If nothing else, everything was more genuine and honest.<\/p>\n

Hoy en d\u00eda, salir y encontrar el amor es un l\u00edo. El arte del cortejo y los largos periodos de noviazgo han sido sustituidos por salir y enrollarse, lo que ha desordenado enormemente nuestra vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

Terminamos en mediocre, mediocre situaciones<\/a> instead of being in a real relationship. And it isn\u2019t like we don\u2019t want something meaningful. It\u2019s just that it is hard to come by.<\/p>\n

It’s hard but it is not impossible, especially if we know what to do. There are 5 power moves a woman can pull if she wants a real relationship:<\/p>\n

Borra inmediatamente todas las aplicaciones de citas gratuitas<\/h2>\n

\"por<\/p>\n

Seguro que conoces a alguien, o conoces a alguien que conoce a alguien, que encontr\u00f3 el amor a trav\u00e9s de aplicaciones de citas. Pero esas personas son realmente raras. Son excepciones.<\/p>\n

Si usas Hinge, Tinder o algo similar, te habr\u00e1s dado cuenta de todos los cretinos que hay por ah\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Si hay alguien decente por ah\u00ed, est\u00e1 siendo eclipsado por todos aquellos que est\u00e1n tratando de echar un polvo o simplemente est\u00e1n matando el tiempo y en el proceso, perdiendo el tuyo.<\/p>\n

So if you are serious about finding real love, chances are these apps won’t help you. They will just steal your time and exhaust your efforts.<\/p>\n

Don’t settle for fake, last minute, mediocre dates<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

\u201cI have nothing better to do, so I might as well hang out with her.\u201d is not the date you are supposed to go on. You don\u2019t need someone calling you out of the blue just because it\u2019s convenient for them.<\/p>\n

Make sure to tell them it\u2019s not convenient for you, and that they should have asked you earlier. You are not one who sits by the phone and jumps as soon as it ringsl\u2014at least you shouldn\u2019t be.<\/p>\n

Dates should be preplanned, thought of and give you something to look forward to. They don\u2019t have to be luxurious or expensive\u2014that\u2019s not the point.<\/p>\n

The point is that you see he put some thought into it and that he can\u2019t wait to see you. Only a man who makes an effort is worthy of your time.<\/p>\n

Su esfuerzo en la primera cita te dir\u00e1 mucho.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him cross the doorstep of your home too soon<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go to his place either. It\u2019s a trap. Most of us are prone to chilling and spending time in the comfort of our homes.<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de nosotros cometemos el error de invitar a alguien a esa zona de confort demasiado pronto.<\/p>\n

This makes people subconsciously think that by doing, we are up for a more laid back and casual relationship. It\u2019s not just about no tener relaciones sexuales demasiado pronto<\/a>. It\u2019s about turning the date into hanging out.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give all the boyfriend benefits to someone who is not your boyfriend.<\/p>\n

Es mejor mantenerlo alejado del sof\u00e1 al menos durante las primeras semanas, hasta que lo conozcas mejor. Ya habr\u00e1 tiempo para sof\u00e1s, mimos, Netflix y relax m\u00e1s adelante.<\/p>\n

4. D\u00e9jale bajar suavemente si empieza a jugar<\/h2>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

By now, you can spot a player from a mile away. He will play texting games. One minute he\u2019ll be there and the next nowhere to be found. He will lead you on in all the ways possible.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t put up with that. Been there, done that. There is no point in going through it again. That\u2019s why you have to send that text you don\u2019t really want to send, but you know you have to.<\/p>\n

Puede ser algo as\u00ed:
\n\u201c Hi there. I don\u2019t like beating around the bush so I\u2019ll be honest with you. I am not into casual hookups. I like real dates and I believe men who make efforts are extremely hot. I need time to get to know someone better in order to jump into bed with them and only them. If you don\u2019t share my opinion that\u2019s ok. I like to let people know where they stand with me.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

Know what you want and don\u2019t be afraid to say it<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Solemos mentirnos a nosotros mismos. Nos metemos en algo con alguien que no implica compromiso alguno para evitar parecer demasiado necesitado al principio<\/a>.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera ese comienzo se prolonga, y acabamos en una relaci\u00f3n casi sin quererlo. Y lo \u00fanico que hacemos es magullarnos el coraz\u00f3n y perder el tiempo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let somebody put words in your mouth that aren\u2019t yours. Don\u2019t say you are not into labels and that you don\u2019t mind keeping things casual if instead, you truly want to be somebody\u2019s girlfriend.<\/p>\n

So be honest with yourself first, and be honest with the person you are dating. Determine your boundaries, and don\u2019t drift far away from sus normas<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you want a real relationship with someone who is not afraid to be in one and who is willing to match all your efforts, don\u2019t settle for anything less.<\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t you just wish you were born in an era of that old-fashioned love? It seems like it was all easier back then. If nothing else, everything was more genuine and honest. Nowadays, dating and finding love is messy. The art of courtship and long dating periods has been replaced by hanging out and hooking…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":109461,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/5-Power-Moves-A-Woman-Should-Pull-If-She-Wants-A-Real-Relationship-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22291\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}