{"id":22325,"date":"2020-08-28T11:20:26","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T11:20:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22325"},"modified":"2022-08-21T10:27:02","modified_gmt":"2022-08-21T10:27:02","slug":"si-hace-estas-7-cosas-estas-en-una-relacion-falsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-hace-estas-7-cosas-estas-en-una-relacion-falsa\/","title":{"rendered":"Si hace estas 7 cosas, est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n falsa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQu\u00e9 es una relaci\u00f3n falsa?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a relationship that has no future. It\u2019s a relationship you\u2019re staying in because either you\u2019re afraid of being alone and moving on, or you\u2019re convinced that things are va a cambiar<\/a>pero no lo har\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Many of us don\u2019t even know that we are in fake relationships. It\u2019s hard to explain why that is so but one guess would be that we simply refuse to open our eyes and consider a change.<\/p>\n

Change is difficult and not many people welcome it. No matter whether it\u2019s good or bad, at the time when you have to make a decision that you know is going to make things different, change is just hard.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re letting go of everything you know and starting something completely different.<\/p>\n

That future that awaits you is scary because, naturally, you don\u2019t know what is going to happen.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why some of us choose to believe that our relationship is the right one.<\/p>\n

Because it\u2019s easier to live believing that the problems between you and your partner are just temporary.<\/p>\n

Si no, lo \u00fanico que te queda es aceptar que est\u00e1s en una relaci\u00f3n falsa.<\/p>\n

To make things easier for you and to make you open your eyes and embrace what\u2019s coming next, here are the things he does that actually show you are in a fake relationship which has no future. You\u2019re just prolonging the inevitable.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t talk to you<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Donde no hay comunicaci\u00f3n, no hay amor. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Because, if your partner doesn\u2019t talk to you, if he doesn\u2019t share his thoughts and his feelings with you, how are you supposed to know this person?<\/p>\n

Maintaining communication doesn\u2019t mean you have to call each other or text each other every second but when you get home from work, it would be great if you talked a bit about how your day went or how you\u2019re feeling, just to keep up with things.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, how would you know what\u2019s going on in your partner\u2019s life? Communication is the key.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t talk to you, you won\u2019t know what\u2019s bothering him.<\/p>\n

Y reprimir los sentimientos s\u00f3lo puede causar problemas a largo plazo.<\/p>\n

When he leaves, you don\u2019t know where he\u2019s going<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

He is being a bit secretive about where he\u2019s going and when he\u2019s coming back.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just saying, you are not compiling a police report and you don\u2019t have to know all the details but it would be nice if he\u2019s going out just to tell you where or with whom?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that tienes problemas de confianza<\/a>, but if he acts this way all the time, you\u2019re going to develop trust issues.<\/p>\n

Y una vez que dejes de confiar en \u00e9l, no tiene sentido seguir en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

The fact alone that he doesn\u2019t want to tell you where he\u2019s going is very suspicious and it can only show you that he doesn\u2019t take your relationship seriously and probably isn\u2019t even planning on staying for much longer.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just a plan de respaldo<\/a> hasta que encuentre algo mejor. Eso es definitivamente una relaci\u00f3n falsa.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s all over you in public<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Se podr\u00eda pensar que una PDA es algo bueno, pero como todo, demasiado de algo puede ser muy sospechoso y perjudicial.<\/p>\n

If he is all over you in public and you\u2019re playing along with his charade, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n

He is probably trying to prove to others that he is happy and by doing the same you’re just helping him.<\/p>\n

When you get home, he\u2019ll turn into the cold shadow that he was before. That is anything but a real relationship.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to prove your love to anyone. If he has the need to do it excessively, then you\u2019re definitely in a fake relationship.<\/p>\n

Las razones para mantener una relaci\u00f3n falsa pueden ser numerosas, pero sean cuales sean, hazte un favor y m\u00e1rchate inmediatamente, antes de que te hagan mucho da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always the one starting the conversation<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo te hablar\u00e1 cuando necesite algo de ti. Eso significa que es consciente de lo que hace y del tipo de relaci\u00f3n que mantiene.<\/p>\n

Significa que este tipo de escenario le funciona en este momento.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him use you and just break it off. You\u2019ve tried enough and you\u2019ve started so many conversations which were all a one-way street.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve pulled the words out of him and it never ended well.<\/p>\n

That man simply doesn’t want to open up to you. Maybe you\u2019re not that interesting to him, or he just has different plans.<\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, t\u00fa eres la v\u00edctima aqu\u00ed y definitivamente tienes que dejar esta falsa relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00fanico que ten\u00e9is es qu\u00edmica sexual<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Sex is great and it\u2019s super that you have that kind of chemistry between the two of you.<\/p>\n

But there is something you shouldn\u2019t disregard so easily. Sex is great but it\u2019s not the most important thing in a relationship.<\/p>\n

If the only thing you have left is sex, then you\u2019re in a fake relationship. You can’t just communicate through passion. For a true relationship, you need much more.<\/p>\n

Al principio de una relaci\u00f3n, el sexo desempe\u00f1a un gran papel en vuestras vidas.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just getting to know each other and you\u2019re exploring each other, but after some time, things have to grow into something bigger and more serious.<\/p>\n

Si nunca lo hacen, esa relaci\u00f3n es ...para fracasar.<\/a><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t share great moments together<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Your relationship is actually boring. You\u2019re stuck in a rut where you do one thing again and again.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s atrapado en una rutina que es cualquier cosa menos divertida o creativa. Las relaciones tienen que ser divertidas y turbulentas.<\/p>\n

You have to experience a lot of things together. You have to be able to remember all the crazy, goofy, romantic or sad moments you\u2019ve lived together. You have to have them to remember them.<\/p>\n

If this is lacking in your relationship, it means that the relationship you\u2019re in is not a real one. It\u2019s a try which was worth it for a while but it failed.<\/p>\n

Su ego es demasiado grande<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Las relaciones se basan en el compromiso, y si una persona tiene que tener siempre la raz\u00f3n, es que hay algo que no funciona.<\/p>\n

Si insiste en que las cosas se hagan siempre a su manera, significa que su relaci\u00f3n no tiene amor.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you\u2019ll show him that by letting go from time to time. Even if you think you\u2019re one hundred percent right, you\u2019re going to listen to your partner.<\/p>\n

Nunca lo hace. Cree que tiene raz\u00f3n e incluso si en realidad la tienes t\u00fa y no \u00e9l, no va a admitirlo. Su ego es demasiado grande para aceptar que cometi\u00f3 un error.<\/p>\n

That is not a relationship. That\u2019s a crock.<\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What is a fake relationship? It\u2019s a relationship that has no future. It\u2019s a relationship you\u2019re staying in because either you\u2019re afraid of being alone and moving on, or you\u2019re convinced that things are going to change, but they will not. Many of us don\u2019t even know that we are in fake relationships. It\u2019s hard…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":105503,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/If-He-Does-These-7-Things-Youre-In-A-Fake-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22325"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22325\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/105503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}