{"id":22365,"date":"2020-08-29T06:39:59","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T06:39:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22365"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:02:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:02:24","slug":"se-lo-suficientemente-valiente-para-romper-tu-propio-corazon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/se-lo-suficientemente-valiente-para-romper-tu-propio-corazon\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00e9 lo bastante valiente para romperte el coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando se trata de nuestras emociones, todos tenemos un objetivo com\u00fan. Todos queremos hacer lo que sea para evitar que nos rompan el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Y cada persona utiliza estrategias diferentes para proteger su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos optan por actuar sin coraz\u00f3n con todos los que les rodean, para que nadie tenga siquiera la oportunidad de hacerles da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos toman la decisi\u00f3n de no enamorarse nunca y no dejar entrar a nadie, pensando que eso les ayudar\u00e1 a protegerse.<\/p>\n<p>En cualquier caso, todos tenemos el objetivo de mantenernos alejados de todos y de todo lo que pueda rompernos el coraz\u00f3n, porque todos sabemos lo dolorosa que es esta experiencia.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter if you had your heart broken in the past or you saw someone close to you going through this. The point is the same\u2014this is the last thing you wish to happen to yourself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110013\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste de mente profunda sentada en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-woman-in-deep-minds-sitting-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Y sin duda, curar un coraz\u00f3n roto requiere mucha fuerza y valent\u00eda. Nunca ocurre de la noche a la ma\u00f1ana, y siempre es un proceso dif\u00edcil que no todos pueden soportar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ocurre cuando eres t\u00fa quien tiene que romper su propio coraz\u00f3n?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00bfCuando sabes que tienes que tomar una decisi\u00f3n que objetivamente es la correcta? \u00bfPero sabes que esa decisi\u00f3n te har\u00e1 pedazos?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando quieres a alguien hasta la m\u00e9dula pero sabes que no es la persona adecuada para ti?<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone, but you know that the two of you are not compatible and that you\u2019ll never get along? When you know that you\u2019ll never have a future with this person?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO cuando amas a alguien que ya est\u00e1 tomado y prohibido para ti, y sabes que estar con \u00e9l est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que mal?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110014\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window.jpg\" alt=\"mujer atenta mirando a lo lejos por la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/mindful-woman-looking-at-distance-through-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa cuando amas a alguien que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-lado-feo-de-darse-cuenta-de-que-nunca-me-amara-lo-suficiente\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">doesn\u2019t love you enough<\/a>\u00bfY sabes que tienes que alejarte de ellos por tu propio bien?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfO cuando est\u00e1s locamente enamorado de alguien, pero simplemente sabes que debes alejarte de \u00e9l si quieres salvarte?<\/p>\n<p><strong>In these scenarios, you are very well aware that you\u2019ll break your own heart whatever you do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>If you stay with this person, knowing that you shouldn\u2019t and knowing that this is a bad idea, you know you\u2019ll make yourself miserable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>On the other hand, if you leave them, you know you\u2019ll suffer without them and miss them, even though that was the best choice you could ever make.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You know you\u2019ll go through an enormous amount of emotional pain and that you\u2019ll be the one who caused your own misery.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110015\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow.jpg\" alt=\"joven triste abrazando una almohada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-young-woman-hugging-pillow-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And whatever you do, you\u2019ll know that there will come a time when you\u2019ll probably blame yourself for everything. That you\u2019ll feel guilty for causing yourself this much suffering.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero a veces, todo esto simplemente hay que hacerlo. A veces, hay que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/deja-de-romper-tu-propio-corazon-el-no-va-a-cambiar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rompe tu propio coraz\u00f3n<\/a> por tu propio bien.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014doing this takes more courage than you might think, and it is everything but easy. In fact, it is probably one of the bravest things you\u2019ll ever do in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Pero hay momentos en los que algo as\u00ed simplemente hay que hacerlo y en los que no tienes otra salida si quieres salvarte.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hay momentos en los que tienes que hacerte da\u00f1o ahora por el bien de tu felicidad futura. Cuando el \u00fanico camino para sanar tu coraz\u00f3n es rompi\u00e9ndolo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And trust me\u2014although in the beginning you might even regret making this decision, eventually, you\u2019ll see that it was the right one.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, you\u2019ll see that it payed off.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110016\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de mente triste sentada sola en el sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-alone-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you\u2019ll thank yourself for doing what needed to be done.<\/p>\n<p>But most of all, you\u2019ll be proud of yourself. Whenever you look back, you\u2019ll be proud of yourself and of your bravery.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll be proud of the fact that you had enough courage to do the thing which you knew would hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>Orgullosa de haber sido lo bastante fuerte para proteger tu coraz\u00f3n y a ti misma a tiempo, antes de que fuera demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y ver\u00e1s que cada sacrificio emocional que hiciste vali\u00f3 la pena.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-110018\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"S\u00e9 lo bastante valiente para romperte el coraz\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to our emotions, we all have one common goal. We all want to do whatever it takes just to prevent our hearts from getting broken. And different people use different strategies to protect their hearts. Some choose to act heartless to everyone around them, so nobody even gets a chance to hurt&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":110017,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22365","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Break-Your-Own-Heart-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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