{"id":22458,"date":"2020-08-31T13:10:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T13:10:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22458"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:43:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:43:42","slug":"al-hombre-que-dijo-que-no-estaba-listo-hasta-que-me-fui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-hombre-que-dijo-que-no-estaba-listo-hasta-que-me-fui\/","title":{"rendered":"Al hombre que dijo que no estaba preparado (hasta que me fui)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cPlease understand me, I need time to commit. I don’t think I’m ready yet.\u201d<\/p>\n

Esas eran las palabras que ten\u00eda que escuchar cada vez que intentaba hablar seriamente de nuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Al cabo de un tiempo, incluso hab\u00eda perdido la cuenta de cu\u00e1ntas veces me hab\u00edas dicho esa misma frase.<\/p>\n

I must tell you that I still think about what might have happened if I had stayed. If I had waited for you to ‘be ready’ for a relationship.<\/p>\n

Tal vez las cosas ser\u00edan diferentes. Quiz\u00e1 hoy vivir\u00edamos juntos, pasar\u00edamos los d\u00edas am\u00e1ndonos incondicionalmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Or maybe I would still be chasing you and trying to find a way to get to your heart, breaking those walls you\u2019d built up.<\/p>\n

Todo ese tiempo que pas\u00e9 esperando se tradujo en interminables enso\u00f1aciones sobre t\u00fa y yo.<\/p>\n

Pod\u00eda ver claramente el momento en que te acercabas a m\u00ed, dici\u00e9ndome que me quer\u00edas y que me querr\u00edas por el resto de los tiempos.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

So\u00f1aba con nosotros, paseando de la mano por las calles de nuestra peque\u00f1a ciudad, mientras habl\u00e1bamos de todas las cosas por las que hab\u00edamos pasado y hac\u00edamos planes para el futuro.<\/p>\n

That is what I wanted to see, that is the life I wanted to live with you. Instead, all I got was months filled with expectations, constant breakdowns and you… always you.<\/p>\n

Con tu falta de voluntad, escuchaste lo que ten\u00eda que decir. Con usted tratando de decirme que estaba bien para ver a otras personas, pero si un hombre me envi\u00f3 un mensaje de texto, que har\u00eda una rabieta.<\/p>\n

No hab\u00eda nada que pudiera haberte dicho que te hubiera hecho cambiar de opini\u00f3n en ese momento y yo estaba tan dispuesta a quererte.<\/p>\n

En realidad te quer\u00eda mucho, pero t\u00fa nunca sentiste lo mismo, dici\u00e9ndome que necesitabas m\u00e1s tiempo para resolver tu vida.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo necesita un hombre para eso? \u00bfY por qu\u00e9 se incluye tanto desamor en eso?<\/p>\n

Si ahora te preguntas por qu\u00e9 me fui cuando lo hice, d\u00e9jame decirte que me cans\u00e9 de ti... <\/b>hablando de los culos de las mujeres<\/b><\/a> que encontraste.<\/b><\/p>\n

I got sick of you telling me about the women you texted and telling me that it meant nothing because you didn’t want anything serious with them.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Mi coraz\u00f3n se romp\u00eda d\u00eda a d\u00eda, cada vez un poco m\u00e1s, cada vez me dol\u00eda m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

El dolor en el pecho me recordaba cada d\u00eda lo equivocado que estaba todo lo que ten\u00edamos y que ten\u00eda que encontrar la manera de quedarme hasta que estuvieras lista para una relaci\u00f3n de verdad.<\/b><\/p>\n

Gladly, I am not like you. I am not someone who will make lame excuses and try to convince you that everything I did had a reason you couldn’t understand.<\/p>\n

Creo que entiendes por qu\u00e9 Tuve que alejarme de ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You saw me breaking into pieces and breaking apart every single day and you still didn’t do anything to make it even a bit easier for me.<\/p>\n

Cuando por fin me di cuenta de lo que val\u00eda, cuando por fin llegu\u00e9 al punto en el que decid\u00ed que lo que yo merec\u00eda era mucho m\u00e1s de lo que t\u00fa me estabas dando, me eleg\u00ed a m\u00ed misma.<\/p>\n

La raz\u00f3n por la que tard\u00e9 tanto fueron tus promesas vac\u00edas que segu\u00ed creyendo porque quer\u00eda que me abrazaras y me dijeras que nunca te ibas a ir.<\/p>\n

La manipulaci\u00f3n que soport\u00e9<\/a> was way worse than you could ever imagine and I don’t want you to do that to any other girl ever.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I just hope that you got the time you needed and that the next woman in your life won’t be broken apart like I was.<\/p>\n

I wish all the best for you, as long as you’re far, far away from me.<\/b><\/p>\n

And if you were wondering (but I guess you’re not) I am doing all right. Sometimes I remember you but I think that with this letter I will get the closure I so desperately need.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY t\u00fa? Espero que entiendas que nunca volver\u00e9 a ti. Veo esos mensajes, veo esas llamadas, pero elijo ignorarlas.<\/p>\n

I try to avoid all the places that I know you\u2019ll be simply because I don’t want to go back to that part of my life ever again.<\/p>\n

The next time you’re alone, drunk and horny, just remember that you lost me forever. So that maybe one day you’ll stop calling and texting, saying that you want me back.<\/b><\/p>\n

I never even had you, so I don’t have anywhere to go back to.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Al<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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