{"id":22684,"date":"2018-09-03T13:03:02","date_gmt":"2018-09-03T13:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22684"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:04:59","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:04:59","slug":"asi-es-como-perderas-a-una-chica-con-una-mente-ansiosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-perderas-a-una-chica-con-una-mente-ansiosa\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como perder\u00e1s a una chica con una mente ansiosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando la miras, \u00bfqu\u00e9 ves? Ves sus ojos muy abiertos, como si buscaran algo, pero no deja de sorprenderte lo hermosos que son.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ves c\u00f3mo su sonrisa desaparece demasiado deprisa de su rostro porque ha pensado en algo que la ha asustado y la ha hecho sentirse inc\u00f3moda. La oyes tartamudear de vez en cuando, su respiraci\u00f3n se hace m\u00e1s fuerte y la miras mientras vuelve a ponerse p\u00e1lida.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, es la chica ansiosa de la que te enamoraste. Por muy seguro que est\u00e9s de tu relaci\u00f3n y de su amor por ti, nunca la des por sentada, porque un paso en falso y la perder\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Y nunca la recuperar\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

Usted <\/span>perder a una chica ansiosa<\/span><\/a> the moment she starts feeling like a burden to you. She can read your body language better than anyone! She sees the way you’re looking at her when she is too quiet, she hears you sigh when she doesn’t know what to say.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose an anxious girl when you start calling her out. She can’t control her red cheeks and the way she keeps on asking you millions of questions simply to make sure that you still love her. Don’t get annoyed by the way she cries over something that went through her mind, she isn’t in control of that.<\/b><\/p>\n

There is no way of telling how she will react when you try to force her to talk to people she doesn’t like or even make her get to know your friends. She isn’t trying to make you mad, she isn’t trying to get on your nerves, she simply doesn’t know another way to respond.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is shy, introverted, and her mind doesn’t allow her to feel comfortable with people around her, so if you try to change any of those things about her by force, she will freak out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her the moment she doesn’t feel safe with you anymore. Yes, necesita que la tranquilicen constantemente<\/a>, yes, she’ll ask the weirdest questions ever, she might even cry for no particular reason. But the way you <\/span>reaccionar a su ansiedad<\/span><\/a> es lo que la hace sentir segura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because if you tell her that she is ‘overreacting’ or ‘overthinking’ she will only feel bad about herself once more and you will end up with no goodnight kiss, looking at her face that\u2019s flooded with tears.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si la amas, nunca hagas que lo olvide, nunca dejes que crea lo contrario porque eso es lo m\u00e1s importante si no quieres perderla. Aseg\u00farese de que ella sabe lo mucho que significa para usted, o la pr\u00f3xima mujer hermosa que dice hola a usted ser\u00e1 la muerte de ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her by assuming that you two are the same, because you are not. Her brain is much more complex and the cold sweat that’s rushing out of her is unique to her. You will never understand a brain like hers, because it’s too crowded\u2014even for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Con todos sus demonios dentro de su mente, con todas esas razones para no sentirse a gusto por la noche, \u00bfde verdad crees que tiene energ\u00eda para ir a esa fiesta ma\u00f1ana por la noche? \u00bfDe verdad crees que se divertir\u00e1 sintiendo que todos esos ojos la miran?<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her when you try to relate to her, because you can’t. You do not understand the pain she is going through when her anxiety acts up even in front of her best friend, her sister, you. Her anxiety doesn\u2019t allow her to speak to the people closest to her.<\/b><\/p>\n

La perder\u00e1s poco a poco, porque ella siempre te dar\u00e1 otra oportunidad. Siempre intentar\u00e1 arreglar las cosas e ir a esas fiestas contigo. <\/span>Pensar\u00e1 demasiado<\/span><\/a> vuestra relaci\u00f3n hasta el punto de que siempre te elegir\u00e1 a ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que llega un d\u00eda, hasta que siente que nunca la entender\u00e1s ni la aceptar\u00e1s del todo por lo que es. Lo \u00fanico que te pide de verdad es que aceptes su ansiedad como parte de ella y que la quieras a pesar de ella.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quiere que sepas que es <\/span>una mujer fuerte<\/span><\/a>, a fighter, fighting her own battles every single day and the moment you see her as weak… you will lose her.<\/span><\/p>\n

La perder\u00e1s en el momento en que empieces a verla como una v\u00edctima, porque es mucho m\u00e1s que eso. La perder\u00e1s exactamente por la forma en que ni siquiera quieres comprenderla.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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