{"id":22690,"date":"2020-08-04T06:35:34","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T06:35:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:15:22","slug":"soy-lo-suficientemente-fuerte-como-para-esperar-al-hombre-adecuado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/soy-lo-suficientemente-fuerte-como-para-esperar-al-hombre-adecuado\/","title":{"rendered":"Soy lo suficientemente fuerte como para esperar al hombre adecuado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aunque no me guste estar soltero, en la mayor\u00eda de las situaciones elijo exactamente eso porque el mundo de las citas est\u00e1 totalmente jodido.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody can wait to get an opportunity to cheat on their partner and love for them doesn\u2019t have any value anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Ya no es puro y limpio. Y para m\u00ed eso no es amor verdadero.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes llamarme loca, pero en este mundo de caos, sigo creyendo en el amor eterno. Sigo creyendo que hay una pareja perfecta para cada uno de nosotros, nuestra alma gemela, nuestra media naranja, nuestro mejor amigo y amante, todo en uno.<\/p>\n<p>Esa es la persona a la que quiero esperar.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be with someone just to avoid being single. I don\u2019t want to play with someone\u2019s feelings because I wouldn\u2019t like if someone did that to me.<\/p>\n<p>And I am not saying that being with someone doesn\u2019t have some pros. It is great to wake up in someone\u2019s arms.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-115408\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer con el pelo encrespado camina por la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pero quiero asegurarme de que los brazos del hombre en el que me despierto son los brazos de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/te-acuestas-con-tu-alma-gemela-12-maneras-de-saberlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mi alma gemela<\/a>. It is great to open up to someone but I want to make sure that he is the one and that he won\u2019t spread my secrets like they are nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Estar con alguien que te comprende, que te valora y te acepta tal y como eres es el mejor regalo que el cielo puede hacerte.<\/p>\n<p>Estar con un hombre que conoce toda tu historia, que sabe que has estado rota y que tienes equipaje y aun as\u00ed te elige es un hombre que realmente es lo suficientemente fuerte como para soportar cualquier cosa.<\/p>\n<p>And that kind of man I want to wait for. I know that he won\u2019t come tomorrow or in a week but he will come eventually.<\/p>\n<p>Y cuando eso ocurra, lo sabr\u00e9. Mi coraz\u00f3n sentir\u00e1 que \u00e9l es el que he estado esperando durante tanto tiempo. Y todo este tiempo sin \u00e9l valdr\u00e1 la pena.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras le espero, me asegurar\u00e9 de trabajar en m\u00ed misma. Aprender\u00e9 cosas nuevas para poder compartirlas con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Aprovechar\u00e9 cada momento para conocerme mejor, para aprender a controlarme y a mantenerme positiva, aunque la vida me abofetee una y otra vez.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115409 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer camina por la calle y se r\u00ede\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 lo fuerte que soy, as\u00ed que aunque aparezca tarde, nunca ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde para m\u00ed. Ser\u00e9 paciente y le esperar\u00e9 porque la espera merece la pena.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t be with someone just to avoid being alone. Because if I do it now, I will feel the consequences later.<\/p>\n<p>Esa persona nunca ser\u00e1 mi persona. Nunca podr\u00e9 relajarme y ser yo misma con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Y mientras viva con \u00e9l, nada cambiar\u00e1. Ser\u00e1 normal, porque as\u00ed es como se ve todo cuando no est\u00e1s con el hombre adecuado.<\/p>\n<p>Todo es suficientemente bueno pero nunca perfecto. Todo es sentirse bien pero nunca sentirse genial.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando te conformas con menos de lo que mereces, cuando eliges al equivocado s\u00f3lo por tener a alguien, nunca ser\u00e1s feliz. Nunca sentir\u00e1s mariposas en el est\u00f3mago y \u00e9l nunca podr\u00e1 hacerte <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/quedate-soltero-hasta-que-conozcas-a-la-persona-que-te-haga-reir-tanto-que-te-duela-el-estomago\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">r\u00ede como un loco<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>With the wrong one, nothing will ever be fine and there will always be something missing. You simply won\u2019t feel the warmth around your heart when you are with him.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso no es algo que yo quiera para m\u00ed. Estar con alguien a quien amas medianamente no es el verdadero negocio.<\/p>\n<p>And since there are so many mediocre things in life, at least love shouldn\u2019t be one of them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115411 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de espaldas en la calle\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I need to wait. I will wait even if it takes a long time.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e9 que soy lo suficientemente fuerte como para esperar a la persona adecuada. Fui al infierno y volv\u00ed y si pude lidiar con cosas as\u00ed en mi vida, podr\u00e9 lidiar con algo como esto.<\/p>\n<p>Si me mantuve en pie cada vez que la vida me abofete\u00f3, ser\u00e9 lo suficientemente fuerte como para esperar a que el hombre perfecto llegue a mi vida. No digo que vaya a ser f\u00e1cil dormir sola, sentirme desprotegida a veces y manejar las cosas por mi cuenta, pero s\u00e9 que soy capaz de hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>Soy fuerte porque s\u00e9 que valdr\u00e1 la pena. Cuando llegue la persona adecuada, todo tendr\u00e1 sentido.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando \u00e9l entre en mi vida, por fin me sentir\u00e9 completa. Sentir\u00e9 la paz en mi coraz\u00f3n que nunca antes sent\u00ed pero que anhel\u00e9 todo este tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando llegue la persona adecuada, borrar\u00e1 todas mis inseguridades, todo mi dolor, todas mis l\u00e1grimas. Me har\u00e1 sentir que soy especial y \u00fanica tal y como soy.<\/p>\n<p>Y gracias a \u00e9l, me sentir\u00e9 la mujer m\u00e1s feliz del mundo. Su amor curar\u00e1 mi coraz\u00f3n roto.<\/p>\n<p>Sus palabras me dar\u00e1n la esperanza que perd\u00ed hace mucho tiempo. Me aceptar\u00e1 tal como soy y nunca intentar\u00e1 completarme, sino aceptarme por completo.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Con el adecuado, el amor se sentir\u00e1 como debe sentirse.<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/wait-man-whose-love-feels-like-home\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Se sentir\u00e1 como en casa<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-115406\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Soy lo suficientemente fuerte como para esperar al hombre adecuado\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even if I don\u2019t like being single, in most situations I choose exactly that because the dating world is totally fucked up. Nobody can wait to get an opportunity to cheat on their partner and love for them doesn\u2019t have any value anymore. It is not pure and clean anymore. And for me that is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":115404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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