{"id":22722,"date":"2018-09-04T10:58:12","date_gmt":"2018-09-04T10:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22722"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:20:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:20:06","slug":"ha-dejado-de-esforzarse-en-una-relacion-condenada-al-fracaso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ha-dejado-de-esforzarse-en-una-relacion-condenada-al-fracaso\/","title":{"rendered":"Ya no se esfuerza en una relaci\u00f3n condenada al fracaso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>\u00bfHas tenido alguna vez una relaci\u00f3n que sab\u00edas que nunca llegar\u00eda a buen puerto? \u00bfHas estado alguna vez en una relaci\u00f3n que no era m\u00e1s que un desastre desde el primer d\u00eda? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00bfAlguna vez has amado a un hombre que sab\u00edas que no te conven\u00eda y que s\u00f3lo te traer\u00eda problemas? \u00bfTe has esforzado alguna vez en algo que sab\u00edas que nunca dar\u00eda sus frutos?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Pues esta chica s\u00ed. Y fue una de las experiencias m\u00e1s dolorosas de su vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">But please don\u2019t judge her for doing this. <\/span><b>Don\u2019t judge her for giving her entire self to the person she shouldn\u2019t have let into her life in the first place. Because she has learned her lesson and because now, she knows better than to repeat her mistake.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Y porque podr\u00edas convertirte f\u00e1cilmente en ella.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Don\u2019t think that this girl was foolish or stupid enough to get herself involved in this relationship, even though she knew it would fail. Don\u2019t think that she lied to herself, believing that things would eventually work out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">No, ella siempre ha sido muy inteligente y siempre supo que no ten\u00eda futuro con este hombre a su lado. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Deep down, despite all the love she felt for him, she was very well aware that he wasn\u2019t right for her. That she was settling for less just by being with this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ella sab\u00eda que \u00e9l nunca podr\u00eda darle todo lo que ella quer\u00eda. Ella sab\u00eda que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/senales-de-que-no-esta-listo-comprometerse-simplemente-no-quieren-ver\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">nunca podr\u00eda cometer<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> a ella y nunca pudo darle el amor que se merec\u00eda.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pero sigui\u00f3 adelante de todos modos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sigui\u00f3 d\u00e1ndole infinitas segundas oportunidades porque pensaba que su amor le har\u00eda darse cuenta de que deb\u00eda cambiar de actitud. Porque pensaba que el amor que sent\u00eda por \u00e9l era m\u00e1s fuerte que todo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>And after years of putting effort into something that was doomed to fail, she\u2019s had enough. After years of giving her entire self to something that will obviously never succeed, she is finally done.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ya est\u00e1 harta de ser la \u00fanica que lo intenta. De ser la \u00fanica que se preocupa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/problema-im-siempre-uno-ama\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">el que m\u00e1s ama<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. La que da todo de s\u00ed misma por el bien de esta relaci\u00f3n. Ser la que hace todos los sacrificios y todos los compromisos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s done putting an effort into this relationship and into this guy, when he has never done the same.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Cuando s\u00f3lo era un gilipollas ego\u00edsta que nunca pensaba en sus necesidades o deseos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done putting herself down so this man wouldn\u2019t be intimidated by everything she can accomplish. Done holding herself back for someone who never saw her true value.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done pushing this man forward when he never for a second believed in her and when he did nothing but make her feel bad about herself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being this man\u2019s shoulder to cry on. Done being the person he can always rely on and done being his biggest support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being his safe haven, when she could never count on him being there for her when she needed him. She\u2019s done <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/una-carta-abierta-a-la-chica-que-ama-incondicionalmente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">am\u00e1ndole incondicionalmente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">sin hacer preguntas, cuando \u00e9l nunca la am\u00f3 lo suficiente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ha terminado de elegir a este hombre por encima de s\u00ed misma. De amarlo m\u00e1s de lo que se amaba a s\u00ed misma y de anteponer sus necesidades a las suyas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ha dejado de sentirse d\u00e9bil e impotente por su culpa.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Done thinking that she wouldn\u2019t make it without him by her side. She is done feeling guilty for abandoning him. Done blaming herself for everything wrong that went on between the two of them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Est\u00e1 harta de pensar que este hombre es su otra mitad y de pensar que ella sola no es un individuo completo.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Est\u00e1 harta de creerle que no sirve para nada y que deber\u00eda estarle agradecida por el simple hecho de estar con ella. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ha dejado de permitir que esta relaci\u00f3n y el dolor que ha sentido la definan. De pensar que necesita un hombre para ser una mujer de verdad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ya no se conforma con menos y est\u00e1 m\u00e1s que dispuesta a retomar las riendas de su vida.<\/b>   <!--codes_iframe-->  <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been in a relationship which you knew would never succeed? Have you ever been in a relationship which was nothing more than a disaster waiting to happen from day one? Have you ever loved a man who you knew was wrong for you and who would only bring you trouble? Have you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22723,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/alexandre-croussette-801817-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22722"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22722\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}