Las mujeres que permanecen solteras durante m\u00e1s tiempo acaban siendo m\u00e1s felices consigo mismas, con su vida y sus relaciones y, por defecto, con sus matrimonios.<\/p>\n
Tienen tiempo para ver las cosas con m\u00e1s claridad; cosas que la gente de su entorno hace y que ellos har\u00edan de otra manera dada la misma situaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n
They learn from other people’s mistakes as well as from their own, and they lead more productive lives. They have had the chance to really get to know themselves and take some valuable lessons along with them.<\/p>\n
Hablo por experiencia. Una vez fui uno de esos \u201cforever single women\u201d<\/a>. We really do thrive in life and love. And it\u2019s mostly because of things that we have learned while everyone else was getting married:<\/p>\n The single life has its perks, but it can also get really lonely. It\u2019s easy to fall into the trap of settling for just anybody because of it. Our desire for closeness and connection can be really strong.<\/p>\n But we should wait and look at things more rationally. It\u2019s better to be alone than in bad company. It\u2019s better to live in peace than taking a ride on an emotional rollercoaster.<\/p>\n We shouldn\u2019t settle for mediocre relationships and half-assed commitment just because we are tired of being alone. We will only make everything worse and essentially hurt more in the long run.<\/p>\n Meeting a good, decent guy these days is like hitting the jackpot. Those guys have become so rare that it\u2019s almost like they are an endangered species.<\/p>\n En mi colorida vida de citas, conoc\u00ed a muchos chicos que no merec\u00edan mi tiempo. Me hac\u00edan perder el tiempo, me enga\u00f1aban y, a veces, me daban ganas de renunciar a las citas.<\/p>\n However, they also taught me valuable lessons. They taught me what I don\u2019t want and what I shouldn\u2019t tolerate. They taught me I should wait for something better than them.<\/p>\n1. Don\u2019t ever settle<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n
2. Las citas modernas son lo peor, pero tambi\u00e9n te ense\u00f1an mucho<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n