{"id":22875,"date":"2020-09-06T12:00:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-06T12:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22875"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:47:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:47:50","slug":"7-rasgos-narcisistas-que-quiza-no-reconozca-de-inmediato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-rasgos-narcisistas-que-quiza-no-reconozca-de-inmediato\/","title":{"rendered":"7 rasgos narcisistas que quiz\u00e1 no reconozca de inmediato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ninguno de nosotros pens\u00f3 nunca que acabar\u00edamos con un pareja narcisista<\/a>. Because when you dream about your dream guy, you surely don\u2019t picture him as a narcissist.<\/p>\n

But in some cases, it turns out that our dream man is actually a narcissist in disguise. Maybe at first you won\u2019t be aware of some traits that he has, but if you just pay a bit more attention to him, you will see that he is not as great as he pretends to be.<\/p>\n

Here are some of the most common narcissistic traits that many women don\u2019t recognize at first but that turn out to be a problem in the relationship later.<\/p>\n

1. Miente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014it is okay to lie sometimes. Nobody died because of a couple of white lies.<\/p>\n

Pero el problema viene cuando tu pareja te miente todo el tiempo. Es un problema cuando no est\u00e1s seguro de si lo que dice es verdad o no.<\/p>\n

And it is obvious that you can\u2019t live with a man like that. You can\u2019t live in fear that he does some bad things to you, and when he is with you, he pretends that he is an angel.<\/p>\n

\u00c9ste es uno de los rasgos narcisistas m\u00e1s comunes, pero la gente suele darse cuenta demasiado tarde. As\u00ed que, si ves que tu hombre no es totalmente sincero contigo, considera que es una bandera roja<\/a> que algo va mal.<\/p>\n

And whatever you do, don\u2019t let him make a fool out of you.<\/p>\n

2. Manipula<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you are in love, you consider your loved one to be an angel who would never hurt you. But behind the mask of an angel, there can often be hidden the face of a devil\u2014devil who knows how to get what he wants using your feelings and your love toward them. <\/p>\n

Los narcisistas usan esto abuso narcisista<\/a> t\u00e9cnica muy tramposamente. Cuando quieran manipularte, lo har\u00e1n para que nunca te des cuenta.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that they love you and that they need you to do something for them. In that way, they will get all they want, and they won\u2019t feel any remorse for hurting you.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, si usted nota algunos signos de manipulaci\u00f3n<\/a>Si te enamoras, c\u00f3rtalo a tiempo porque puede que sea demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

3. Carece de empat\u00eda<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you first start a relationship with someone, you can\u2019t see their real face. Only when you spend some time with them, you will be able to get to know them better.<\/p>\n

Si ves que a tu chico le falta empat\u00eda al principio de vuestra relaci\u00f3n, quiz\u00e1 s\u00f3lo pienses que le han hecho da\u00f1o demasiadas veces y que intenta protegerse.<\/p>\n

But if that continues later on and if he doesn\u2019t even show any empathy for you and your problems, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n

Obviamente, tu chico finge que tiene problemas para que te compadezcas de \u00e9l. Eso es t\u00e1ctica com\u00fan que todos los narcisistas utilizan<\/a> convencer a sus v\u00edctimas de que han tenido una vida dura y que tienen que ocultar sus sentimientos para evitar que les vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

4. Nunca tuvo una relaci\u00f3n real<\/span><\/h2>\n

Si tu chico dice que nunca ha tenido una relaci\u00f3n de verdad porque nadie pod\u00eda entenderle, deber\u00edas saber que algo va mal.<\/p>\n

I mean it can happen that one person doesn\u2019t understand you, but if more of them think the same about you, then the problem is in you and not in them.<\/p>\n

Significa que tu chico can\u2019t make a firm relationship with anyone because of his narcissistic traits<\/a> que siempre le hacen parecer una v\u00edctima, el especial que m\u00e1s ayuda necesita.<\/p>\n

A man like that will never understand your problems nor will he go the extra mile to make you happy. A man like that loves himself most, and he can\u2019t control it.<\/p>\n

5. Se cree superior<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Maybe you won\u2019t see it right from the start, but a narcissist will always try to show off with things he didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

He will think that he is superior and that you are actually lucky that he chose you to be his partner. He doesn\u2019t understand that we all are the same and that we have the same rights.<\/p>\n

En su cabeza, \u00e9l es el especial, y como tal, merece un trato especial all\u00e1 donde vaya. Y cuando entres en una relaci\u00f3n con un hombre as\u00ed, te perder\u00e1s por completo intentando satisfacerle.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l es de alto mantenimiento, y siempre pedir\u00e1 que sus necesidades sean satisfechas mientras que t\u00fa s\u00f3lo ser\u00e1s alguien que siempre est\u00e1 ah\u00ed para hacer lo que \u00e9l quiera.<\/p>\n

Y ese no es el trato que mereces, especialmente de alguien a quien m\u00e1s quieres.<\/p>\n

6. Es pasivo-agresivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

Todos lo somos a veces pasivo-agresivo<\/a> por las diferentes cosas que nos pasan. Habr\u00e1 momentos en los que sentir\u00e1s que tu mundo se desmorona y reaccionar\u00e1s as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

But if you see your man behaving like this all the time, you should know something is not right. This is not normal behavior, and you shouldn\u2019t put up with his shit just because you love him.<\/p>\n

In fact, if he says that he loves you that much, he should never do that to you. This is something you shouldn\u2019t forgive, and if this starts happening, it will be even worse as time passes.<\/p>\n

You need to know that people like this never change, and even if you ask him to do that for the both of you, he won\u2019t because he simply doesn\u2019t give a damn about anyone.<\/p>\n

7. Es arrogante y abusivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

It happens to all of us that we get arrogant sometimes, especially if we are not in a good mood. But if your guy acts like this every day and if he doesn\u2019t try to change his behavior, then you have a serious problem.<\/p>\n

Imag\u00ednate lo que se sentir\u00eda estar con alguien que est\u00e1 enfadado con el mundo todo el tiempo y que se pone abusivo si las cosas no son tan perfectas como \u00e9l quiere.<\/p>\n

Y lo peor es que es s\u00f3lo cuesti\u00f3n de tiempo que empiece a maltratarte.<\/p>\n

And that is not something you need in your life. You need a loving and caring man\u2014not someone who will use you as a punching bag to help him heal his frustrations.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, si notas se\u00f1ales como estas, deber\u00edas correr tan lejos como puedas porque este tipo de hombre nunca te dar\u00e1 el amor que necesitas.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

None of us ever thought that we would end up with a narcissistic partner. Because when you dream about your dream guy, you surely don\u2019t picture him as a narcissist. But in some cases, it turns out that our dream man is actually a narcissist in disguise. Maybe at first you won\u2019t be aware of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":22883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22875","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/joelvalve-975142-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22875","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22875"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22875\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}