{"id":22894,"date":"2019-09-06T12:31:45","date_gmt":"2019-09-06T12:31:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22894"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:09:45","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:09:45","slug":"prefiero-quedarme-soltera-que-malgastar-mi-vida-con-un-imbecil-inmaduro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/prefiero-quedarme-soltera-que-malgastar-mi-vida-con-un-imbecil-inmaduro\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefiero Quedarme Soltera Que Malgastar Mi Vida Con Un Imb\u00e9cil Inmaduro"},"content":{"rendered":"

La gente suele confundir estar solo<\/a> con estar realmente solo. Piensan que si tienes pareja significa que eres feliz, pero nadie ha dicho nunca que el hecho de tener a alguien signifique que siempre seas feliz con esa persona.<\/p>\r\n

Aprend\u00ed esta lecci\u00f3n en mi propia piel, as\u00ed que s\u00e9 de lo que hablo. Siempre he sido una mujer fuerte, de las que manejan las cosas a su manera. Entonces conoc\u00ed al chico del que me enamor\u00e9 perdidamente. Fue mi primer amor, mi raz\u00f3n de vivir y mi mejor amigo.<\/p>\r\n

Pero como salir con alguien no es algo sencillo y requiere mucho esfuerzo, nos desmoronamos. Nos rompimos en pedazos tan peque\u00f1os que parec\u00eda que nunca hab\u00edamos estado juntos.<\/p>\r\n

Y mientras estaba hecho un l\u00edo, pensando que ahora estoy solo y jodido, algo se me pas\u00f3 por la cabeza.<\/p>\r\n

I figured out that just because I was single didn\u2019t mean that I needed to be sad. That moment was my epiphany, and I realized that breaking up with you was the best thing that could have happened to me.<\/p>\r\n

Me di cuenta de que es mejor estar solo que aguantar a un imb\u00e9cil.<\/strong><\/em>
Es mejor vivir una vida en la que pueda ser yo misma, sin fingir ser otra persona s\u00f3lo para gustarle a mi novio.<\/p>\r\n

If he can\u2019t accept all the bad things about me, he surely doesn\u2019t deserve the best ones as well. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve, and I refuse to be someone\u2019s doll to will play with whenever and however he wants.<\/p>\r\n

Me di cuenta de que soy lo suficientemente fuerte como para esperar al hombre adecuado.<\/strong><\/em>
I have been through hell and back, and I know that life is a bitch. I also know that by speeding things up, I won\u2019t reach my ultimate goal and that this time, I just need to go with the flow.<\/p>\r\n

Tengo que dejar que el destino haga su trabajo y aceptar lo que me traiga. He pasado mucho tiempo creando mis propias reglas del amor, pero nunca han funcionado. As\u00ed que, a partir de ahora, me quedar\u00e9 quieta y dejar\u00e9 que el cielo me env\u00ede a la persona adecuada.<\/p>\r\n

I realized I don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need me.<\/strong><\/em>
I have been dating so many guys until now, and none of them could provide me with the love I craved. Every one of them disappointed me at least once, and that\u2019s why I decided to break up with them.<\/p>\r\n

Because if someone shows that he doesn\u2019t love me, why would I stay with him and beg for his attention? If I had my heart on my sleeve and if I could open up to him, he should have done the same things for me.<\/p>\r\n

But if someone refuses to do that, he simply can\u2019t be at the top of the list of my priorities.<\/p>\r\n

I won\u2019t settle for less than I deserve.<\/strong><\/em>
I only have one life to live, and I surely won\u2019t waste it on a guy who doesn\u2019t love me as much as I love him. I won\u2019t settle for a lack of love, a lack of attention and a lack of respect. I deserve to be loved.<\/p>\r\n

I deserve to be taken care of. I deserve to be chased. And I deserve all of that to happen naturally. And if a man can\u2019t provide me with that, then I don\u2019t need him at all.<\/p>\r\n

Ser\u00e9 mi propia raz\u00f3n de felicidad.<\/strong><\/em>
During my whole life, I searched for men to make me happy, but now I realized I am my own reason for happiness. I realized don\u2019t need a man to complete me. I don\u2019t need him to guide me or show me the right path.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3lo necesito uno que me acepte por completo y me ame incondicionalmente. Pero hasta que llegue, primero me enamorar\u00e9 de m\u00ed misma. Aprender\u00e9 a ser mi propia prioridad y a cumplir mis propios deseos sin necesitar que alguien lo haga por m\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n

Esperar\u00e9 al hombre cuyo amor se sienta como en casa.<\/strong><\/em>
I know that he won\u2019t come tomorrow or in a month, but he will eventually come. And I know that I won\u2019t be with anyone just to avoid being alone. I will wait for someone who is worth the wait.<\/p>\r\n

Lo har\u00e9 esperar al hombre<\/a> que ser\u00e1 mi mejor amigo, mi alma gemela y mi amante al mismo tiempo. Aquel que me perseguir\u00e1 cuando yo ya sea suya, que me amar\u00e1 hasta la luna y que nunca me abandonar\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n

Esperar\u00e9 al hombre cuyo amor se sienta como en casa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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