{"id":22896,"date":"2020-08-06T12:37:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T12:37:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22896"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:46:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:46:29","slug":"no-lastimes-a-una-buena-mujer-solo-porque-tienes-miedo-de-comprometerte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-lastimes-a-una-buena-mujer-solo-porque-tienes-miedo-de-comprometerte\/","title":{"rendered":"No hagas da\u00f1o a una buena mujer s\u00f3lo porque tengas miedo a comprometerte"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 la atrajo a su mundo cuando no ten\u00eda intenci\u00f3n de quedarse? Ella no so\u00f1aba con todos esos mensajes, conversaciones, dulces miradas y c\u00e1lidos abrazos.<\/p>\n

Fue real. T\u00fa estabas all\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Actuaste como si esto fuera a alguna parte. Hiciste esfuerzos. La enamoraste. Todo era genial y luego simplemente la abandonaste. Sin explicaciones reales, sin nada.<\/p>\n

Are you even aware of how much damage you caused? There\u2019s nothing worse than awakening a woman\u2019s feelings without having any intention of loving her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Pero ten\u00edas la intenci\u00f3n. La quer\u00edas en tu vida. Te gustaba. Te gustaba tanto. Pero te asustaste.<\/p>\n

You saw that things between you were getting a bit more serious and you were afraid her love would cage you. You felt like you couldn\u2019t breathe. You felt like you were losing your freedom.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que hiciste lo que mejor sabes hacer, corriste<\/a>. Huiste de ella en lugar de afrontar tus problemas. La dejaste sin pistas y la hiciste preguntarse si hubo algo que ella hizo para que te fueras.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

You made her wonder if there was something wrong with her. You made her question if she was enough. And that\u2019s unforgivable. She didn\u2019t deserve to be treated like that.<\/p>\n

Si quer\u00edas separarte de ella, al menos merec\u00eda una explicaci\u00f3n. Se merec\u00eda una despedida apropiada. Se merec\u00eda tu honestidad.<\/p>\n

But it was easier this way, wasn\u2019t it? You got used to these kinds of scenarios. You pull away every time you get too attached. You freeze your heart when you are in front of the real deal.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You would rather lose her than be vulnerable. You try to convince yourself that she didn\u2019t mean a thing to you when you know that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

Nunca te permites sentir demasiado<\/a>. You try to block those emotions because you think you are safer that way. You keep repeating the same scenario because you feel that you don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n

Pero si alguien te miraba como si fueras el mejor hombre de la tierra, era ella. Te colocaba en un pedestal y en su coraz\u00f3n sab\u00eda que merec\u00edas su amor.<\/p>\n

You were the last one who she thought would hurt her, but you did. She still isn\u2019t herself. The wounds are too deep. But she is fighting and she\u2019s not giving up\u2014that’s what makes her even more special.<\/p>\n

\"fuera,<\/p>\n

By pushing a good woman out of your life, you only end up hurting yourself. You will realize what you had when it\u2019s already too late.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You will wonder what would’ve happened if you had been a bit braver. If you got out of your comfort zone and took the risk, maybe you wouldn\u2019t be so caught up in your thoughts now.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be wondering if there\u2019s anybody in her life who is enjoying her smile like you once did.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be wondering if there is a way back to her heart. You never thought that she would be strong enough to ignore all your calls and texts. You thought she would be waiting for forever.<\/p>\n

But even the best and the kindest of women give up when they exhaust all their strength. When they see that there is no point holding on to somebody who didn\u2019t want to stay.<\/p>\n

If you had enough courage maybe you would see that your fears were misplaced. Maybe you would find out that love doesn\u2019t trap you, it makes you free when you are with the right person.<\/p>\n

Si dejaras de huir y te quedaras en sus brazos para siempre. Ese para siempre con ella te daba tanto miedo y ahora sabes que el para siempre sin ella te da a\u00fan m\u00e1s miedo.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>\n

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Why did you pull her into your world when you had no intention of staying? She didn\u2019t dream all those texts, conversations, sweet gazes, and warm embraces. It was real. You were there. You acted like this was going somewhere. You made efforts. You swept her off of her feet. Everything was great and then…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22896","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22896"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22896\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}