{"id":22914,"date":"2018-09-06T12:53:15","date_gmt":"2018-09-06T12:53:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22914"},"modified":"2022-01-21T21:41:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T21:41:42","slug":"7-cosas-que-me-ensenaron-mis-relaciones-fallidas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-me-ensenaron-mis-relaciones-fallidas\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que me ense\u00f1aron mis relaciones fallidas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Que te rompan el coraz\u00f3n siempre es doloroso, de eso no hay duda. Pero si eres lo bastante listo, puedes convertir cada desenga\u00f1o amoroso en una valiosa lecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

And that was exactly what I did. Instead of lamenting my past relationships, I\u2019ve allowed each one of them to teach me something about romance, love, and life and about myself. Here are 7 things I\u2019ve learned from my failed relationships.<\/p>\n

1. Dejar el pasado en el pasado<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

La primera lecci\u00f3n que aprend\u00ed de mis desamores es que hay que dejar el pasado en el pasado, donde pertenece. Algunas personas y algunas cosas simplemente no est\u00e1n hechas para durar<\/a> y tienes que aceptarlo, por mucho que duela.<\/p>\n

En lugar de pasarte el d\u00eda pensando en c\u00f3mo podr\u00edan haber sido las cosas, tienes que centrarte en sacar lo mejor de hoy. Tienes que centrarte en mejorar tu presente y tu futuro, sin permitir que las cosas o las personas del pasado te retengan.<\/p>\n

2. That I\u2019m the only one who can make myself happy<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sadly, some girls are looking for a relationship which will complete them, thinking that the right guy will miraculously solve all of their problems and make their life better. He won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa eres la \u00fanica que puede hacerte verdaderamente feliz y no hay nadie en este planeta que pueda hacerlo por ti. Y lo mismo ocurre con hacerte infeliz y desgraciada.<\/p>\n

If you choose to focus on everything negative and everything that caused you pain in the past, you\u2019ll never achieve complete happiness.<\/p>\n

3. Ponerme en primer lugar<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Puedes llamarme ego\u00edsta, pero una de las cosas que cada una de mis relaciones anteriores me ha ense\u00f1ado es a ponerme a m\u00ed primero. No hay hombre vivo que deba ser m\u00e1s importante para m\u00ed que yo misma.<\/p>\n

The last thing I\u2019m telling is that you should be self-centered or that you should completely disregard the needs and the desires of the person next to you. Just make sure not to disregard yourself in the process.<\/p>\n

4. That I\u2019m enough<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

When you enter a new relationship, you want to do everything possible for this person to like you more. That doesn\u2019t mean that you should change yourself for their sake or to be more lovable to them.<\/p>\n

What my failed relationships taught me is that I should never change for anyone. I am more than enough the way I am and anyone who can\u2019t accept the true me doesn\u2019t deserve a place in my life.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que perderte por atraer a un chico es lo peor que puedes hacer. Porque si te quiere de verdad, aceptar\u00e1 todos tus defectos y cualidades. Y nunca te har\u00e1 sentir que no eres suficiente.<\/p>\n

5. Que puedo hacerlo por m\u00ed mismo<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Durante mucho tiempo pens\u00e9 que necesitaba a un hombre para completarme. Pensaba que era mejor estar con cualquiera que estar sola.<\/p>\n

Pero tras numerosos fracasos sentimentales, aprend\u00ed que nada de eso es cierto. Aprend\u00ed que puedo arregl\u00e1rmelas sola. Que mi solter\u00eda es una bendici\u00f3n que debo aprovechar de la mejor manera posible.<\/p>\n

I learned that I am an independent woman who can walk through life alone without needing any man to guide me. I learned that it\u2019s way better to be single than with the wrong man. And that I should permanecer soltero hasta que llegue el hombre adecuado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

6. Que soy m\u00e1s fuerte que todo el dolor<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

When you get your heart broken and when the relationship you\u2019ve invested so much in breaks apart, you are positive that you\u2019ll break into pieces as well. But as time goes by, you see that you won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

With time, you see how strong you actually are and you realize everything you are capable of. And this is exactly what each one of my failed relationships has taught me. They made me see my strength and my bravery. They made me understand that there doesn\u2019t exist a man who can break me.<\/p>\n

They taught me that I\u2019m stronger than all the pain and stronger than everything that\u2019s been holding me down. Stronger than my past, stronger than all the men trying to put me down.
\nA veces, incluso me ense\u00f1aron que puedo ser m\u00e1s fuerte que mis propias emociones y m\u00e1s fuerte que yo misma.<\/p>\n

7. Que nadie te querr\u00e1 hasta que te quieras a ti mismo<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Lo \u00faltimo pero no menos importante que me ense\u00f1aron mis relaciones fallidas es la importancia del amor propio. Me hicieron darme cuenta de que desamar a la persona equivocada es un acto de amor propio.<\/p>\n

I grew to understand that sticking around someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you means you don\u2019t love yourself enough. It means that you subconsciously think you deserve this half-assed love you\u2019ve been getting.<\/p>\n

Mis relaciones fallidas me hicieron darme cuenta de que nadie puede apreciarme o respetarme hasta que yo misma lo haga. Que nadie puede quererme como yo quiero que me quieran hasta que aprenda a quererme a m\u00ed misma. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Having your heart broken is always painful, there is no doubt about that. But if you are smart enough, you can turn every heartbreak into a valuable lesson. And that was exactly what I did. Instead of lamenting my past relationships, I\u2019ve allowed each one of them to teach me something about romance, love, and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/brunette-casual-curly-hair-458745.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}