{"id":22932,"date":"2020-04-06T13:01:45","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T13:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22932"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:15:09","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:15:09","slug":"te-aleja-porque-intenta-proteger-su-corazon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/te-aleja-porque-intenta-proteger-su-corazon\/","title":{"rendered":"Te aleja porque intenta proteger su coraz\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No, no es despiadada. S\u00e9 que parece dura. Y la verdad es que es mucho m\u00e1s fuerte de lo que cualquiera podr\u00eda pensar.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, al mismo tiempo, sigue teniendo a esa ni\u00f1a sensible escondida en lo m\u00e1s profundo de su ser.<\/p>\n<p>You know, the truth is that this girl has been through a lot and she isn\u2019t ready to put up with you if you are not the man for her.<\/p>\n<p>She had her heart broken more than once and she was hurt multiple times in the past. But this doesn\u2019t mean she has ever allowed herself to take on the role of a victim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>En lugar de eso, tom\u00f3 cartas en el asunto y decidi\u00f3 que ella es la \u00fanica que puede protegerse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se dio cuenta de que su coraz\u00f3n es lo m\u00e1s preciado del mundo y que ella es la \u00fanica que puede curarlo. La \u00fanica que puede asegurarse de que nunca le vuelvan a hacer da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pero en el fondo, sigue teniendo miedo de que le vuelvan a romper el coraz\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Y esa es la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n por la que ha construido estos gruesos y altos muros a su alrededor. <\/strong><strong>La \u00fanica raz\u00f3n <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/belleza-guardada-chica-caida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">se puso en guardia<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Te aleja porque est\u00e1 aterrorizada. Aterrorizada de amar de nuevo y que su coraz\u00f3n se rompa en pedazos una vez m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89778\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Woman-looking-at-city-from-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer mirando la ciudad desde un balc\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Woman-looking-at-city-from-balcony.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Woman-looking-at-city-from-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Woman-looking-at-city-from-balcony-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She is doing it because she\u2019s used to being on her own. Because life has taught her that she shouldn\u2019t count on anyone and that people will betray her sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>This girl will never give you a place in her life until she sees that you really deserve it. Because she\u2019s done settling for less.<\/p>\n<p>And because she\u2019d rather remain alone, in case you turn out to be a man who isn\u2019t right for her.<\/p>\n<p>You see, she doesn\u2019t plan on wasting years of her life, waiting for you to change. Waiting for you to see her true value and waiting for you to love her for real.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This girl hasn\u2019t lost her faith in love. She just knows it is a risk and you\u2019ll have to try hard and prove it to her that it\u2019s a risk worth taking with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The truth is that deep down, she is afraid of getting too attached because she doesn\u2019t want to end up giving you her entire self while you don\u2019t give her anything back.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to be the only one putting all the effort in while you couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89779\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en el muelle\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-dock-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t letting you in because she doesn\u2019t believe you just yet. Because she is positive that you\u2019ll end up hurting her, the same way every other man in her life did.<\/p>\n<p>That you\u2019ll end up taking advantage of her love and that you\u2019ll just use her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She isn\u2019t showing you the depths of her heart and she isn\u2019t showing you her love because she is afraid that you won\u2019t love her back the way she expects to be loved. The way she deserves to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t showing you her vulnerabilities and insecurities because she\u2019s been keeping them hidden inside for far too long. Because she doesn\u2019t want to give you a chance to use them against her.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t trust you because she had her trust violated multiple times before. She doesn\u2019t rely on you because she learned that she is the only person she can count on.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This girl doesn\u2019t give you her entire heart because she is afraid that she\u2019ll end up losing herself if she does something like this once again.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89780\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg\" alt=\"chica joven en la barra de un caf\u00e9 mirando a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/young-girl-at-coffee-bar-looking-at-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Te est\u00e1 apartando porque intenta defenderse. Intenta proteger sus sentimientos actuando como si no los tuviera.<\/p>\n<p>Tratando de protegerse de todas las l\u00e1grimas y de todo el dolor emocional que podr\u00edas causarle si te lo permite.<\/p>\n<p>She isn\u2019t making you a priority because she is scared that you\u2019ll put her last.<\/p>\n<p>That you\u2019ll start taking her for granted and that you\u2019ll stop trying, the moment you see you have her. That you\u2019ll start thinking that she\u2019ll always stay by your side, no matter what. Because trust me\u2014she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Te dar\u00e1 la espalda en cuanto vea que no eres el hombre que merece tenerla. En el momento en que vea que la est\u00e1s maltratando.<\/p>\n<p>Se alejar\u00e1 de ti en cuanto note falta de aprecio, falta de respeto o falta de amor en esta relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, si <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hasta-que-no-demuestres-que-eres-digno-no-me-acostare-contigo\/\">demu\u00e9strale que eres digno de su amor<\/a> then trust me\u2014this girl will love you like no other. You just have to be patient.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89774\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/She-Is-Pushing-You-Away-Because-She-Is-Trying-To-Protect-Her-Heart-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Te aleja porque intenta proteger su coraz\u00f3n\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/She-Is-Pushing-You-Away-Because-She-Is-Trying-To-Protect-Her-Heart-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/She-Is-Pushing-You-Away-Because-She-Is-Trying-To-Protect-Her-Heart-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, she isn\u2019t heartless. I know she appears to be tough. And the truth is that she is way stronger than anyone might think. But at the same time, she still has this sensitive, little girl hidden deep inside of her. You know, the truth is that this girl has been through a lot and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":89776,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/She-Is-Pushing-You-Away-Because-She-Is-Trying-To-Protect-Her-Heart.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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