{"id":22945,"date":"2020-09-07T10:54:24","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T10:54:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22945"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:43:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:43:01","slug":"ahora-la-echas-de-menos-pero-es-culpa-tuya-dejarla-marchar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/ahora-la-echas-de-menos-pero-es-culpa-tuya-dejarla-marchar\/","title":{"rendered":"Ahora la echas de menos, pero es culpa tuya haberla dejado marchar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Podr\u00eda haberse quedado para siempre. Ella quer\u00eda. Ella quer\u00eda amarte por el resto de su vida. \u00bfPero sabes lo que hiciste? <\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u00e9jala ir. La dejaste marchar<\/a> from your life, and now, you\u2019re sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You broke that one hell of a big heart of hers. You took it, and you shredded it to pieces. And she\u2019s not sorry you did that because she knows if you want to fully love, you have to be prepared to get your heart broken.<\/p>\n

Si quieres amar con todo tu coraz\u00f3n, tienes que abrirte y derribar tus muros. Tienes que ser vulnerable<\/a>y tienes que confiar en la persona que amas.<\/p>\n

Hizo todo eso y le sali\u00f3 el tiro por la culata. Confiaba en el amor, pero el amor la mordi\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This horrible feeling is exactly what happened to her when you let her go\u2014right then, that second, when she was standing at the front door with tears in her eyes looking at you and hoping you\u2019ll do something to keep her in your life.<\/p>\n

No hiciste nada. Fuiste demasiado cobarde para hacer algo e impedir que se fuera.<\/p>\n

Ahora la echas de menos.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

And you have absolutely no right to. You could have turned what you had into something that lasts forever. You had that pure and beautiful love. It was right in front of you, but you didn\u2019t appreciate it. And that\u2019s why you didn\u2019t deserve it either.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t miss her because you\u2019re not worthy of missing her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Now that she\u2019s gone, you\u2019ve realized what you had and chased away. It\u2019s only now that you don\u2019t have her anymore that you see how lucky you were when she was in your life.<\/p>\n

Ahora ves c\u00f3mo es tu vida sin ella, y ahora te das cuenta de cu\u00e1nta alegr\u00eda y felicidad te aportaba con su sonrisa cada d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Otro hombre matar para ser su novio<\/a>. Otro hombre lo dar\u00eda todo por tenerla, y t\u00fa la tiraste tan f\u00e1cilmente.<\/p>\n

No, you don\u2019t have the right to miss her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Now that she\u2019s gone, you\u2019ve realized that while you were together, she brought out the best in you. You were a better person thanks to her. And admit it, you loved it.<\/p>\n

You were happy and satisfied, and you didn\u2019t know why.<\/p>\n

But now that you\u2019ve lost her, you\u2019ve realized she is the reason why, and you have made the biggest mistake of your life.<\/p>\n

Era cari\u00f1osa y leal. Se preocupaba por ti y te pon\u00eda en primer lugar porque te quer\u00eda.<\/p>\n

She knew that you were kind of messed up, so she let so many things slide. She forgave you so many times that you didn\u2019t even know she was angry.<\/p>\n

Se guard\u00f3 esas cosas porque quer\u00eda darte la oportunidad de encontrarte a ti mismo. Quer\u00eda ayudarte a convertirte en una persona buena y cari\u00f1osa.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how to appreciate that. You didn’t know how to respect everything she did for you, and you\u2019ve lost it. Do you see how terrible your life is without her in it?<\/p>\n

\u00bfVes lo que podr\u00edas haber tenido si hubieras mantenido los ojos abiertos, si no la hubieras dado por sentada?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You saw how real everything was getting, and you got cold feet. You got scared of life, scared of commitment. You refused to grow up, and you stayed the same. Now, you\u2019re sorry, and now you want it all back.<\/p>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Guess what? You don’t deserve it!<\/em><\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas haber pensado en ella cuando estaba encerrada en su habitaci\u00f3n ahog\u00e1ndose en l\u00e1grimas y preguntando por qu\u00e9. Deber\u00edas haber pensado en ella cuando su coraz\u00f3n gritaba tu nombre pero todo en vano.<\/p>\n

Nunca deber\u00edas haber dejado que sufriera de esa manera. Nunca deber\u00edas haberte permitido ser la raz\u00f3n de su dolor.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s crossed you out of her life<\/a>, and she’ll never go back to you. You had your chance and you blew it.<\/p>\n

You regret it now, and you\u2019re sorry that you let her go. But, know this\u2014that won\u2019t bring her back. Nothing will bring her back.<\/p>\n

Ha sufrido, se ha curado y ha seguido adelante.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa, te quedar\u00e1s atascado en el momento en que te diste cuenta de que dejarla ir fue el mayor error que cometiste en tu vida.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Ahora<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She could have stayed forever. She wanted to. She wanted to love you for the rest of her life. But you know what you did? You let her go. You let her walk away from your life, and now, you\u2019re sorry. You broke that one hell of a big heart of hers. You took it,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":119104,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22945","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Now-You-Miss-Her-But-Its-Your-Fault-You-Let-Her-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22945","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22945"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22945\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119104"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22945"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22945"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22945"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}